thatoneconfusedbisexual

just that one confused bisexual. Im a single motherfucker #blm the Bourgeois will fall one day send asks for memey responses I’m confused about everything but my sexuality He/Him

[11thsense]

Yasss who else is a kinda lame aimless adult in they mid to late 20s

[thatoneconfusedbisexual]

I lame but i aint got no aim

[11thsense]

Yasss who else is a kinda lame aimless adult in they mid to late 20s

[fluentisonus]

remember in p.e. when they'd take a bunch of insecure teenagers & be like "today we're going to play basketball" and then not teach you how to play basketball. and then put you in a group with guys who were obsessed with basketball and would get mad at you for not knowing how to play basketball. why did they do that

[shihlun]

RIP Akira Toriyama (1955-2024)

[thatoneconfusedbisexual]

Litt

[blackheartbiohazards]

"I don't want to read this" is totally valid.

"This is disgusting to me" is totally valid.

"I don't want to read this because it is disgusting to me" is totally valid.

"I don't think anyone should be allowed to read or write this because it is disgusting to me" is authoritarian.

[blackheartbiohazards]

"I don't think anyone should be allowed to read or write this because it is disgusting to me" is authoritarian.

[spellscarred]

Bro, blocking someone and then using their tag like this is, all offence, weak as fuck. Like all you had to say was, na bro I don't promote pedo protags on this here blog, because I wholly agree with the premise of your argument given contexts (i.e., writing abusive relationships to show the evils, great; writing abusive relationships to show the romance, yikes).

This response is so, so comically shitty within the context of that tag, oh my god.

[blackheartbiohazards]

"I don't think anyone should be allowed to read or write this because it is disgusting to me" is authoritarian.

[blackheartbiohazards]

"I don't think anyone should be allowed to read or write this because it is disgusting to me" is authoritarian.

[blackheartbiohazards]

"Censorship of some topics in fiction and art is good and I would be happy if it were to be enacted in a way I approved of"

and

"some things should be banned from ever being written or read about in fiction"

are both authoritarian viewpoints to hold and express, even if you don't have the power to enact them.

If you hold these viewpoints you are holding authoritarian viewpoints.

[averageidiotenby]

DUDE IT’S PEDO FICS EVERYBODY THINKS THEY’RE NASTY

[blackheartbiohazards]

Let me explain this to you in simple terms.

Something being nasty is not a good reason to ban fiction about it.

If we accept that "something being nasty is a good reason to bad fiction about it" then we give a foot in the door for all the people who truly, genuinely believe that queer people are nasty to ban all queer literature.

This is not about defending bad people this is about defending the freedom of good people from tyranny, you moron.

[kawaii-pigeon]

I think if you take it to its logical extreme. Say, banning people from writing stories of sexual abuse. That could then be said "well ANY talk about sexual abuse is bad."

And from that, you could ban books that talk about it irl. Or books like how to recover after being abuse. If its not something to be discussed AT ALL.

[plague-of-insomnia]

The fact that I’ve seen this post in some form on my dash like 100x and each time there’s new idiots who do not get that you can’t have *some* censorship.

Either you’re for it or you aren’t.

The moment you agree that something should never, ever exist in fiction is the moment that anything can be banned.

Remember a while back how Tumblr banned a bunch of tags, including many popular innocuous ones that even people who are for censorship used and were upset about?

When censorship happens, stuff YOU like can and will be banned. That’s how it works.

Remember how a bunch of people had their accounts terminated here only last year for writing about their own sexual abuse?

When you ban “pedo” topics, say, any talk of child sexual abuse in any form, that means people can no longer write about their own experiences. It means people cannot educate others so they can learn how to protect themselves or get help from these situations.

Censorship is authoritarian. Full stop.

Even if “everyone” agrees something is “gross” and “shouldn’t exist,” that does not fucking matter.

Do you know who generally believes queer people are gross and shouldn’t exist??

The same people who are banning books left and right solely because they have queer characters or relationships.

The same people who attack and kill queer folk for simply exisiting.

This is not just some fandom matter or a case of being chronically online.

Protecting freedom of expression is essential, and if you do not get that, I don’t know what to say to you.

[scientia-rex]

And the people who keep bringing up child sex abuse as a reason for censorship are doing it very specifically because everyone feels like then they HAVE to agree with the person in favor of censorship.

It’s not that there isn’t widespread societal agreement on this. It’s that they want you backed into a rhetorical corner where you feel compelled to agree with them.

[ruffboi-mags]

Also, like, we KNOW how this shit shakes out in fandom because it's happened before.

In 2007, Livejournal capitulated to the "pedophilia and sex crimes!" cries of (hate group) Warriors 4 Innocence, and you know what communities got shut down? Slashfic communities. Sexual assault survivor support communities. Authors who'd written non-smut m/m fic even got caught up in it. It was DEVASTATING to fandom spaces. I think pretty much everyone knew at least one person whose account was literally DELETED, or were a member of a community that was wiped off the map because they were considerate enough to include topics like "sexual assault" or "BDSM" in the profiles under the badly-named category of "interests" to indicate that posts on said blogs or communities may include discussion of things like that. Even if it was for a SUPPORT group. And it was because a group of religious bigots came to LJ and said essentially "EVERYONE thinks it's gross and that it's promoting CSA, we should ban it."

Like, strikethrough and boldthrough were a large part of what propelled AO3 out of a more unfocused conversation on one person's blog about hosting a site INTENDED for fandom content, into being an actual archive and nonprofit. And it's a large part of why you won't find AO3 banning topics that you find "gross".

Censorship is authoritarian and it will ALWAYS have more collateral damage than you can imagine.

[nyxelestia]

Going to add that fiction which had sexual abuse and communities which played around with it as a writing topic are the very things that protected me from irl sexual abuse when I was a teenager. I was in a dicey situation, and realized that while my situation did not match up to any of the superficial or textbook cases mentioned in passing (if at all) through school, it matched up a LOT to what I'd learned about irl sexual abuse through works of fiction and the rhetoric of my communities. I got out of that situation and dodged what was, in retrospect, one hell of a nasty bullet. If it hadn't been for that "nasty" fiction and those "nasty" communities, I would very likely have been abused, and subject to further violence spiraling out from that abuse.

[benjis-house-boat]

you can’t have *some* censorship.

[the-real-seebs]

Yup! It really is, in fact, pretty much that simple:

"I don't think anyone should be allowed to read or write this because it is disgusting to me" is authoritarian.

[selfpoweredoxygenmachine]

' guys remember that if they keep banning porn games theyll start just banning games with queer narratives too!! ' ok for the record i think this is a real concern but also i do not think they should be banning porn games either

[valtsv]

equal rights for women will never truly be achieved until we have more female noir detectives

[valtsv]

and i don't mean some badass woman who doesn't need a man and can kill someone in 6 inch heels without breaking a sweat or smudging her perfectly set makeup or chipping a nail. she looks like she grew up in a soggy cardboard box on the side of the road all alone. she monologues dramatically to herself while looking over the corruption-riddled city she works in because she has no friends or hobbies and will literally do anything except go to therapy. she gets beat up in alleyways so blood and rain drip sexily from her nose and chin but when she gets to her feet she looks like a sad wet cat. women want her but they also pity her. instead of perfume she smells of coffee, whiskey and cigarettes, which are also more or less all she lives off of. her voice is more gravelly than a pit of rocks as a result of said diet. she hasn't slept or showered in at least 3 days and it's increasingly obvious. she's either divorced or feels like she should be.

[abrillustrated]

yeah okay gimme a sec

[abrillustrated]

ok first off some of yall missed the entire point and gave gorgeous, put-together women, when op explicitly stated that she is "a sad wet cat" this is the type-a woman who Does Not have her shit together and Does Not care.

therefore, i give you: Female Noir Detective

[transmortifried]

this lady's so much of a mess she's smoking the damn cig backwards

[corvidiss]

I read "until we have more female black noir detectives" and I was like YEAH!!! and then was surprised to see a white woman fdsjkhfjkds

The point 100% stands as is but also woc as noir detectives is a GOAL

ANYWAY I drew a female noir detective of my own <3

She doesn't have a name so feel free to suggest!! and make up anything about her cos I think i crashed my brain drawing this lmao

Constructive crit welcome!!

Constructive crit welcome!!

p.s. would be neat if this got similar attention

[squareallworthy]

"Slivia Dupré. Just call me Silvie. Nice to meetcha. Used to be a trucker. Long haul, mostly. That was a pretty good deal. Got in with the union, and things were all right, until the union politics got weird and I started noticing things. Money things. Something off with pension funds. I started asking a few questions, couple people told me to keep my nose out of it, so I started asking a lot of questions. Don't like to be told that my own money is none of my business. Kept tabs on a few people, looked at some bank records. Got shoved around, shoved some people around. The way that ended up was two guys in prison, one fella dead, apparent suicide, and me out out of the union and out of a job."

"Anyways. Figured I wasn't too bad at asking questions and following people. Helped one of the truckers I knew whose mother was getting scammed. Straightened that out, then I thought, okay, maybe dectecting's something I could do. Turns out anyone who can pay the license fee can call herself a PI."

"So that's what I bring to the table. What you bring is, four hundred a day, and you tell me all about this missing brother of yours. And then I keep looking until I find him or you get tired of paying me."

@corvidiss

[skyprowler]

In best tumblr fashion I want to say “They are married!!!” but then they are Noir detectives and we now how allergic those are to healthy relationships - so I guess it’s “They are quietly standing next to each other in the gloomy rain and show their devotion by A lighting B’s cigar!!!!!!” instead.

[hxgrl]

Whats the opposite of a girlboss. Im like a girlfailure

[hxgrl]

You're all fucking welcome

[estrogenesis-eeveeangelion]

"gaining eight notes in two years" is devastating

[diabetic-best-bi]

@guiltiest-gear

[artsytoad]

Jacek Yerka, Eruption 

www.artsytoad.tumblr.com

[narcissistcookbook]

i like tumblr because occasionally i’ll be recommended a 12 year old post that depicts something so absolutely my shit that it makes me believe in art again

[sandmandaddy69]

[officialunitedstates]

it’s quick, it’s easy and it’s free:  pouring river water in your socks

[evilscum-deactivated20160223]

why would i do that lmao

[officialunitedstates]

it’s quick, it’s easy and it’s free

[worldheritagepostorganization]

World Heritage Post

[miiilowo]

really good

[greelin]

you can’t talk about vampires and their views on menstrual blood anywhere else besides here. On account of the stigma

[greelin]

stigma fangs in your pussy. LOL

[smoqueen-deactivated20251108]

normal people cant have discussions about ai art because they think all art is like renaissance oil paintings. tumblr people cant have discussions about ai art because they think all art is 3/4 bust drawings of what we do in the shadows characters

[animalcrossingpornenthusiast]

bust? i do that shit to Isabelle (from animal crossing) on the daily!

[smoqueen-deactivated20251108]

[aletheyass]

do you ever hang out with someone else’s family and you’re like ooooh. so this is what it’s supposed to be like

[roomba-with-knives-taped-to-it]

How do you prefer to answer questions on tumblr?

I prefer polls

I want to see how many people prefer polls

Voting ended onMay 29, 2024

[roomba-with-knives-taped-to-it]

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[thatoneconfusedbisexual]

I like a combo

[paint-splatt]

Unfortunately this is funny as hell