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Hey, Tumblr! It's been a bit, hasn't it? Little life update: I’m currently on step 2 of 7 in my maxillofacial surgery journey. This will stabilize my face bones and hopefully save my teeth (yay!) but will cost me $34,000 in total (yikes!). It falls outside of the standard things included in my dental coverage, so it’s up to me to fund this with care credit.
Which means I’m back on my fundraising thing again! First up, I’m raffling off a giant rainbow blanket I crocheted. This girl’s big— 72”x64” and 4 pounds— and was made with all of my love.
Thanks for sticking with me, y’all. I appreciate it so freaking much.
I want to share something for those of you who are teaching and want your conservative students to be more open-minded to liberal ideas that you’re presenting.
I grew up in a conservative family and a conservative town, and like most conservative kids, had been told that colleges were hotbeds of liberalism, so I was already defensive politically when I started college. My first semester or two I was really skeptical of everything political that my professors presented me with.
And then I took a women’s studies course (required at my college). And on the first day, the professor said,
“You don’t have to be a feminist. There are days when I’m not a feminist. But we’re going to discuss feminist ideas in this class, and you might find that you agree with some of them and disagree with others, and that’s fine.”
And that took the pressure off. By telling me that I didn’t HAVE to be a feminist, that I didn’t HAVE to agree, that professor started me on the road to becoming a feminist. I particularly remember her giving us information about what a huge percentage of the housework was still done by women, even in [hetero] couples where both the man and woman worked outside the home. And after that I remember saying, “I’m not a feminist, but I can see where they’re coming from.”
Within 5 years, I was claiming the term and coming out to my mom as a feminist.
So when I taught college writing, I assigned politically liberal essays to my students, many of whom came from conservative backgrounds. And before they read the first one, I would say,
“The reading for the next class–I want you to know that you don’t have to agree with it. You don’t have to agree with anything that your professors teach you in college. But the point of a college education is to have your mind opened to other points of view. So you’re not required to agree, but you are required to approach the reading with an open mind. You might find that you agree with some things the author says and disagree with others. And that’s cool! We WANT you to use your critical thinking and decide for yourself what you think about things! But to do that, you need to give people the benefit of the doubt and be open-minded to what they have to say.”
And I have to say, it worked really well for me! I remember in particular that after I assigned the essay “Black Men and Public Space”, one of my students wrote in her reading reflection,
“I was taught in school that racism in America ended with Martin Luther King. I am appalled to discover that this is not true.”
Priming your students to be open-minded, while also encouraging them to use critical thinking, can help to break down some of the automatic defenses against new ideas that students are often taught. Approaching your students’ comments during discussion with an open-minded view yourself, validating their experiences while also making gentle counterarguments, can do a lot as well.
I think a lot of liberal/progressive people, of which I am one, resent having to even entertain what we feel are harmful ideas, ignorant or selfish or bigoted ideas; we resent dealing with the people who have them. I live in a red state, and I know I feel angry a lot. Sometimes I sit in a room, it could be any room, full of people who might feel very aggressive towards me if they knew who/what I really am.
But the way I try to think of it is, do you want to sit there being right in your rightness, or do you want to make change? And I think that’s the flip side of what OP is saying (I’m agreeing). In my experience, when I talk to people around me about current events—that is my way of making change, however small—gentle approaches are what get results. “I don’t coddle bigots,” you might say. Well, and that’s truly your right. You need to protect yourself first, and sometimes I stay quiet because I don’t feel safe, as a progressive and a queer neurodivergent woman in a state where a police captain said Biden voters should be shot for treason. And BIPOC often say they are exhausted from racism; I’m white, so I did a lot of “gentle” talking during the long year of 2020, because they shouldn’t have to. Maybe people who aren’t queer, or neurodivergent, or disabled, and who have the energy, can pick up the conversations I can’t have.
But when it’s only a conversational matter of principle, “l could engage this person’s ideas but I shouldn’t have to,” I think OP’s approach actually can make the world a little better, however gradually. I’m not approaching things gently to spare anyone’s feelings; I’m doing it to succeed, to make things a little safer for me and for others. I’d like to think I’ve made a difference that way.
Adult man horse girl moment when i had to sprint downstairs and explain the difference between hay and straw
HAY - grasses or legumes (such as alfalfa or clover) which are cut while green and dried for the purpose of feeding herbivores when fresh grass is not available
STRAW - the dried stalks of cereal crops (wheat, rye, barley, etc) which are harvested for the purpose of bedding for livestock or other animals after the seedheads are removed
Thank you. I was aware there was a difference but not what it was.
Unrestrained summer fun 😁
this must be such a delicate experience for a creature that can dive two stories deep and has been seen cliff diving into the ocean
why must tumblr always remind me that one of the only natural predators of the moose is the KILLER WHALE
I aspire to this level of simplistic joy 💖💚💖
Yes, Spain!!!!
[Image descriptions: 1. Tweet by AJ+ @AJPlus [gold check verified] that says: Spain became the 1st country in Europe to offer paid menstrual leave, for 3-5 days. It also gave final approval to laws that: [bullet point] enshrine rights to abortion for people over 16 [bullet point] let trans people over 16 self-identify gender by simple declaration, one of the only places to do so [Attached to the Tweet is a photo of a group of people with trans flags gathered on the steps of a building with large stone columns.]
2. A headline from DW that says: “Spain passes laws on trans rights, abortion, menstrual leave – DW.” The visible part of the article says, “The new laws expand transgender rights and abortion access, as well as give workers paid menstrual leave. The approval comes ahead of…” \End descriptions]
The Onion’s journalism is the only journalism that matters. Holy fuck.
fuck the grind. fuck work culture. i want a slow life. i want to wake up in the morning and scramble eggs and saute some spinach, squeeze some orange juice and cut up some strawberries, and eat it all while sitting on my porch and watching my goats mill about in the yard. i have a world of downtime to bake bread and garden and read and craft. i am free.
IT’S A WONDERFUL LIFE (1946) • JIMMY STEWART as George Bailey and LIONEL BARRYMORE as Mr. Potter
wait WHAT 😳 i mean that feels accurate but still…. WHAT.
here’s the official fbi memo about it! you can view the whole document here
the fbi presented these “findings” to mccarthy’s house unamerican activities committee (huac) in an attempt to get it’s a wonderful life pulled from theaters but huac decided not to take any action
Eda Clawthorne.
Goddamn.
Forty-five years old. Bisexual. Chronically ill.
Holy shit.
Mother of two. Independent business owner. Definitely took the head of the bard coven's v-card.
Fuck.
Enemy of the state. Certified harpy woman. Renouned criminal. Occasionally knits.
What a woman.
Dracula voice: I would have gotten away with it if it weren’t for my lawyer, his wife, his wife’s girlfriend, his wife’s girlfriend’s fiancé and their extra boyfriends the Cowboy and the doctor and the doctor’s thesis advisor who knows how to kill vampires for some reason!
Love that this post has broken Dracula Daily containment and I keep seeing tags like “THAT’S what happens in Dracula?!?!?”
not mine but hilarious
OH YES
the year is 2023, marie kondo holds j*ff b*zos by the skin on the back of his neck in front of a public gathering
“does this one spark joy?” she shouts at the restless audience, they boo in response
she snaps his spine like .5mm mechanical pencil lead and throws his lifeless corpse to the crowd, they cheer in response
Please tell me this is our timeline
new years eve!!! wooo!!! go crazy go wild! 🥳🥳🥳
i hate to say this but i just had the best meal of my life and it was ceviche at a mexican restaurant called “mas margaritas” in cedar rapids, iowa
literally after every single bite i was internally like “holy SHIT this is divine” but i had to keep it inside bc i would lose all credibility with my family if i let them know this ceviche from mas margaritas (restaurant in cedar rapids, IA) was better than any mexican cuisine i’ve ever had in LA or uh. mexico. and you know when people say that a food is better than sex. it was like that but it was like when i was in middle school and repressing my sexuality and had to pretend i wasn’t turned on when my friends played gay chicken at sleepovers and slowly moved their hands up my thigh asking “are you scared? are you scared?” get this to 10k and i’ll post it on yelp
It’s finally happened.
After almost a decade on this site, I found another Tumblr user in the wild. I stopped to tie my shoe with rainbow laces this morning outside the silversmith at Colonial Williamsburg, and I heard it.
“I like your shoelaces.”
Oh. Oh no.
I responded the only way I could. “Thanks.” And then I reluctantly added, “I stole them from the president…and if that makes sense to you, I’m very sorry.”
The poor man, in full Colonial dress, stared at me for a long moment. And then burst into laughter. And said, “I haven’t thought about that in YEARS and this has never happened to me before.”
Yeah. Me neither. Not until today.
Tumblr rite of passage. Achievement unlocked.
@victoriansecret I found your friend!!!
reblog to send three ghosts after elon musk
Oh, no. Three ghosts per reblog! As of posting this reply, we’re at (checks notes) 75 ghosts and counting
The most unrealistic thing about A Christmas Carol is that a capitalist reformed his ways after only three ghosts