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cat-memes-only

Awww

dankmemeuniversity

#Komma #getrennt

handsomejackshairplugs

youngpreciosa-deactivated201607

me 2 seconds into the previews

tonedeafparrot

sea-anon

I don’t know how many boys follow me, but I gotta bet there’s some. I just wanna tell y’all to be careful.

Abusive girls exist and what they’re doing is seen as like “badass tough don’t take no shit” but your girl should not hit you. Ever.

She should not demand for you to hand over your phone to look through.

She should not yell at you and humiliate you either alone or in front of people.

She shouldn’t make you distance yourself from your friends or family.

She shouldn’t scratch you or twist your arms.

She should not call you names.

She shouldn’t tell you ‘she’ll kill herself if you break up’

These are just a few examples of abuse and it’s just seen as okay when girls do it and god knows I’ve fallen victim to it a few times, but you shouldn’t have to.

Never worry about not being in a relationship. If they’re worth it, they won’t hurt you.

No one has the right to hurt you.

fiollaigean

Good post, OP. But Imma add that any girlfriend who gets unreasonably angry about you having female friends or forbids you from hanging out with/talking to them isn’t worth your time. You don’t belong to her.

emeraldmercury

This applies to wlw as well. Wlw aren’t pure uwu babies and can be abusive to their partners just as much as men.

theweirdwideweb

mollyscribbles

You know how there’s the occasional discussion about the children in the Harry Potter universe or what have you, wondering how they’d keep the magic stuff secret at an age when they have, y’know, zero filter?

this one time I was at the zoo, outside the coyote habitat, and this was the kind of zoo that gives the animals a ton of room so they were pretty hard to spot in the dense trees. A couple kids were there, also looking, and the little girl spots them first. I compliment her excellent eyesight. And then her brother speaks up: “My sister turns into a wolf at night.”

She turns, tiny and indignant, and responds without hesitation, “No I don’t, I turn into a fox.”

it has stuck with me for YEARS how offended she was about her brother misidentifying her species and I consider this evidence that secrecy is a nonissue with younger kids because it’s not that I don’t believe her, it’s that I have no idea what to do with that information if true.