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The Cheatcode
Hello Ladies,
Iāve found the cheat code when it comes to hypergamy! Youāll only need a little start capitalā¦not that much, only around 1-2k.
You need to rebuild your entire wardrobe. Yes. Throw out your crop tops and your leggings. No high value man wants a woman that is dressed like a yoga teacher all day. I donāt care if youāre only 21. Buy all those long skirts and button up tops and donāt even think about purchasing a bag cheaper than 500 dollars.
Think about what you can do in terms of your appearance. Maybe a nose job or a skinny BBL? If youāre lucky you can get away with only lip fillers.
Only speak about feminine stuff. Home decor. How youāre planning to homeschool your children. Let the man talk about masculine things like politics or finances.
Are you still reading? Wellā¦I have a surprise for youā¦
ā¦there is no such thing as a cheatcode.
Sorry, but I need to rant a little bit.
Iām so fucking annoyed at posts like this. There is currently and likely never will be a cheatcode for hypergamy.
Donāt believe those feminity influencers ā most of them arenāt even married or have bagged a billionaire. Donāt buy books from these people and donāt give them money for strange online classes, that claim youāll meet a billionaire within a five step program.
The truth is, wether you like it or not, that only very few woman will marry into high society and even fewer will stay in those circles.
I donāt know if you get it but those men are only human and want a honest connection with their partner. (Well, Iām sure there are men that really only care about looks but is this really a man you would like to marry? Even if heās the richest man on the planet?)
Hypergamy is work. Hard fucking work.
Many of you seem to think that those men only fuck you and look at you. What do you do if you canāt fuck because youāre on a gala or his mothers birthday dinner? Youāll have to open your mouth and start talking.
Iām like 98% sure that you could be a grenade in bed and the most beautiful woman that ever walked on earth, if you canāt hold a conversation for longer than a minute, you wonāt be succesful.
I am not that beautiful myself, Iām average with a few nice features but I can entertain my boyfriend for hours just talking about my day. I can discuss current politics with him and talk about his business without googling every second phrase.
He loves to spend time with me because he likes how I make him feel. I make him feel welcomed in his home, I make sure to listen to his problems and about what brings him joy. I am the first person he wants to call when he has a hard or a very succesful day because he know that my reactions are always honest and genuine. I wonāt just tell him what he wants to hear ā I tell him my opinion. Ā
Another thing that bugs me, is that those feminity influencers make relationships seem like the only things to do are shopping, taking vacations and going out to eat.
Honestly itās fucking hard to be with a high value man.
High value man = very full schedule.
My boyfriend works from 5:30am to 7pm and sometimes even longer. When he comes home he wants to shower, eat something and talk to me.
I prepare his meals and clean the house while heās at work. I do grocerie shopping and laundry, I iron his clothes and order his skin and haircare products.
He doesnāt expect me in a full face of makeup and a bodycon dress with heels when he gets home but he wants me to be clean and freshly showered. He wantās no drama and he expects that I know my place ā beside him.
A relationship is work, especially if youāre in one with a man that works 80+ hours a week. Donāt expect endless shopping trips with him or a nice dinner every day. There is a reason why he has money ā he works for it and his working hours are usually very long.
Okay, thats all I have for now.
Bye Bye
Selene
ššš šššššššš šššššš šššš šš
ąŗÆĀ š“Ā Ā Ā !Ā Ā Ā ×ā Ā want to glow up and look unrecognisable for the summer? this post has been designed perfectly just for you šĀ
this post has been divided into 3 parts.
š. ššš ššššš : ššššššš ššš šš ššš ššš ššš
SAY BYE BYE to the old you, you are no longer the things you call yourself. youāre not ugly, stupid, lazy etc. you will no longer look up at that mirror and tear your beautiful self apart, thatās all in the past.
weāre going to stop those habits completely they do nothing but bring us back and withhold us from our true power, we are so much more than the hurtful words we call ourselves :)
optional, but you can write down all the bad habits you want to get rid of, and make a promise to yourself that you will put an end to those self-destructive habits.
ā§ ā again you do not have to, some habits are a difficult process. you can make a promise to yourself that you wonāt let those habits bring you down and you will continue thriving no matter what
SAY IT HERE RIGHT NOW:
āš šš šššššššš ššš šššš ššššššš šš šššššš ā
AND AGAINā¦
āš šš šššššššš ššš šššš ššššššš šš šššššš ā
WITH ALL THE POWER AND DETERMINATION!
āš šš šššššššš ššš šššš ššššššš šš šššššš ā
šš. šššš ššššššš :
self concept is the foundation of everything. its how you view yourself and how you view friendships, relationships, life..etcetera!
changing your self concept doesnāt have to be challenging and difficult it is so easy and simple
hereās an example
if you think that you are unlucky, ugly, stupid and that no one will ever love you those thoughts will reflect in your 3D. you will find yourself in circumstances because of your thoughts.
you can change all of that in a millisecond by deciding that you have the best self concept in the world, you are more kinder to yourself and start practicing being kind to yourself
instead of tearing yourself apart you start telling yourself āi am going to be kind to myself today, i find that my features perfectly suit my faceā
if you want to be beautiful you have to change your inner thoughts. it all starts with mindset first, never the other way around.
self concept affirmations ā here
ššš. šš-ššššš šššš ššššš :
okay so youāve done your detox, youāve stopped entertaining those habits and youāve finally recognised your worth and got your self concept back on trackā¦its time to rewrite your story.
so who do you want to be? donāt be afraid and i actually recommend that you go extra as much as you can. want a totally new face? THATS TOTALLY EASY. want to have tiny ass waist? THAT IS SOO EASY TO MANIFEST. want the best pinterest summer ever? THATS SO ATTAINABLE!
write down or take a mental note of your goals <3 tick them off as you go!
šš. šššššš ššš ššš ššš šššššššš ššš :
okay so this is my favourite part, you are going to APPLY everything you know about the law, everything you know about how to create your dream life and JUST DO IT. youāre going to take that leap of faith and watch the results blossom right in front of your face, youāre going to be so proud of yourself this summer for persisting and seeing yourself become an unrecognisable queen.
so on that mental or physical note youāve created youāre going to become that person..EVERYDAY! youāre going to think and feel and embody that person that you want to be. youāre going to compliment yourself in the mirror, youāre going to think beautiful thoughts, youāre going to get lost in conversations with yourself about how amazing you are. youāre going to dance and twirl in your beautiful summer dresses about how you have the best self concept and the best body..best EVERYTHING!
if i wanted to be a top A student who can balance a social life and studying amazingly i would have thoughts like..
ālook how amazing i can balance a social lifeā
āwhy am i so amazing at everything i do?? its crazy how i have the most amazing friends and still have time to study and achieve my goalsā
šš ššššššššš ⦠ ۫ Ö“ ×āļø āā” Ė ā¹ Ż Ö“ Ā Ū«
get rid of self-destructive habits
change your self concept
rewrite your life! who do you want to be?
BECOME THAT PERSON
canāt wait to see all your glowups, love you..MWAH!
5 Ways to Express Your Emotions in a Healthy Feminine Manner
As we age, we become more in touch with our emotions. For women on their feminine journey, itās crucial to take the time to process & understand our emotions. Being in tune with ourselves makes interacting with others easier. As well as helping others sort their emotions.Hereās are 5 ways to express your emotions in a healthy feminine manner.
Cry It out!
A good cry IS therapeutic. Emotions are just energy, they need somewhere to go. Itās best to air them out. Some women arenāt criers and have a hard time expressing their emotions in this way, but there is nothing wrong with crying. It does not make you fragile nor does it make you weak. In my opinion, it is one of the healthiest ways to express emotions and really puts you in connection with your feminine energy.
Clean your space
A clean space can really help clear your mind. Having a cluttered house can make you unable to sort out your emotions. It is vital to reflect the energy you want to feel in your space. So turn on some music, light a candle, and get cleaning!
Journal
Journaling is good for the soul. Getting all your feelings out on paper can really provide clarity and help you sort out exactly what is upsetting you. It organizes your thoughts that would otherwise continue to be scrambled in your mind. It also helps to keep account of your previous feelings that can help you work through your current emotions.
Set Aside 6 Months
Set aside 6 months for you. Let me tell ya, focusing and working on yourself is so addictinggg! Cooking yourself nourishing meals, doing things outside of your comfort zone, learning, spending time alone, doing the hobbies you enjoy, finding new hobbies you enjoy, meditating, celebrating your body by moving it in some way daily, taking yourself out on dates, self care, re-parenting yourself, allll of it!Ā
Ever since I embarked on this journey I have grown so much and am so proud of myself! All of my friends are telling me Iām glowing, Iām 1000x more confident, Iām 10x hotter - mentally and physically, Iām setting boundaries and not taking any sh*t, immediately leaving when my needs arenāt being met, let me tell you this journey overall feels so good!!Ā
There are of course times where it doesnāt feel so good because when you elevate, whoo chile let me tell you, the mess comes out. People you thought would be in your life forever leave because youāre vibrating on different frequencies, it gets lonely because youāre setting boundaries and not settling for less, you meet people who bring out darker sides of you in order to heal but trust when I say it is always for your higher good and it is so worth it.Ā
Ladies, the best thing we can do for ourselves is embark on a journey of self care and self love. It will be the best decision youāve ever made. Set aside at least 6 months for just YOU. Where all you do is focus on yourself and your journey. Whatever that means for you!
Love and being in a relationship is great but if you donāt have a solid foundation within yourself, any connection you try to build will eventually fall because half of the foundation isnāt stable. But donāt do this just for love, do this for you.Ā
The longest relationship we will ever have is with ourselves. The longest home weāll ever live in is our body.
The SULTRY Method
Sensuality is done on accident. Sitting down in a way that accentuates your female form should be practiced to be done naturally.
Donāt take your time sitting down so slowly and robotically it looks like your knees hurt!
Ultimately, your look is your line. Being a pretty privileged woman isnāt evil. Itās not your fault you benefit from the human gaze. Most people find social media makeup and clothes extremely exaggerated and inappropriate for daily wear. Stick to a classic appearance that shows your womanliness. Classic doesnāt equate to boring, however.
If your demeanor and appearance looks too cared for, people looking to pay may assume all of your bases are covered and look for someone else to pay for.
Legs donāt go out of style. Elongate your legs as you walk. This can be difficult to do in non-stretch pants. Keep upright as you walk so you donāt walk at an angle.
Avoid taking leaping steps or any that make you look like youāre only stepping on certain color tiles.
Trends arenāt dependable. Youāre no trend, so stay true to yourself. We live in a very spendthrift society (coming from me) and trends are costly.
Render yourself as a woman whoās paid for. Wear high-quality articles because SHEIN-like clothing looks teenage and you do not want to look younger in that way.
Itāll reflect especially badly on him if you look 15 and heās 3 times that age trying to pay for you.
You are the crĆØme de la crĆØme. Outfit yourself in a way that shows your superiority. Demonstrate this in your makeup, meals and routines.
YOU ARE THE BEST HE CAN PAY FOR AND TREAT.
The #1 Thing All High Value Women Know
High-value women are not born.. they are made. The poise and grace of a true hvw do not happen overnight. It is a process that requires consistent effort.
Today, I will be sharing the number one thing that every high-value woman must know and practice.
DISĀ·CIĀ·PLINE /ĖDISĘPLĘN/
"NOUN/ the ability to control one's feelings and overcome one's weaknesses; the ability to pursue what one thinks is right despite temptations to abandon it."
Discipline is the number one trait all high-value women know and have. When you begin to discover genuine self-love you start showing up differently in the world. Discipline is showing up for yourself and putting yourself first. Your happiness, needs, and wellbeing. A HVW works to achieve her goals every day. These habits have made me more productive when I am struggling with discipline ā¦
Lingerie,long silky robe,bouncy pure black hair,diamond earrings,diamond choker,high rise apartment,Wine,miss dior perfume,The weekend-Earned it/often playing in the background
If you get it you get it
āI like cancelled plans. And empty bookstores. I like rainy days. And thunderstorms. And quiet coffee shops. I like messy beds and over-worn pajamas. Most of all, I like the small joys that a simple life brings.ā
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Daily affirmation: I am walking into my purpose. Everything I'm doing now is preparing me for an abundant and prosperous future.
REINVENTING MYSELF-Femininity
Simply put, I donāt like the woman I am now. I am a manifestation of my parents neglect, insecurities rooted in me since a child, along with suppressed and very obvious trauma. I want to see better, I want to do better, I want to attract better.
In preparation for spring (the actual āNew Yearā) I am currently throwing away EVERYTHING and starting completely fresh. Clothes, wigs, sheets, I even thought about tossing my diploma not a soul asked me for (not even school, everything is electronic).
This is she, me. Anew
Personality
She is mysterious, yet has a welcoming aura about her. You know sheās not the woman to step to unless itās worth her time, but intimidating isnāt the feeling that comes over the admirer. Sheās playful, actively laughing and playing with her dogs. Publicly and privately. A hopeless romantic, though a seductress first. Her love (and lust) is earned. Sheās very hard to get.
Hopeless Romantic
Adventurous
Rebellious
Creative
Bookworm
Athletic
Hobbies
Sheās always trying something new to see if she finds something she likes. Fear of dislike is never on her mind. As a curious spirit, she not only has hobbies but works to advance and meet those who share the same hobbies as her
Art museums
Theatre
Cooking & making recipe books to pass down
Scrapbooking
Learning about nature (plants, Survival skills, history)
Baking (for anyone)
Chess
White Wine
Astrology
Teapot Collecting
Reading research articles
Boundaries
Again, sheās very hard to get. Hard to impress. Hard to convince. Hard to plead to. As warm as her aura may be, sheās very no nonsense. She is in tune with her inner voice and intuition, who are the first to advise her about whatever youāre telling her.
No sex before substantial financial/personal commitment
Limited debates, always held with class and even tone. Never arguments or fights
Not surrounding self around people who donāt share the same ambition
I come first. My safety, my priorities and myself, period.
No unannounced guests (gift deliveries excluded)
I donāt entertain conversations with men after a certain time
I am selective about what I choose to listen to, so I cut all unproductive/negative conversations very short
Goals
She is an āoverachieverā. Whatever that means.
Purchase first property
Travel to 5th country
Obtaining black dermatologist
Selling select art pieces for over ($XX,XXX)
Approved for American Express Platinum Card
Accepted into Ph.D program
Complete first few books/scripts
Learn Spanish and ASL fluently
I went deep into depth privately, and I highly suggest you do the same. Sometimes, it helps to have an organized, detail breakdown of who you are, who you want to become, and most importantly who are you leaving behind.
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self love & confidence!!
living life everyday with self-respect and self love will take you such a far way in all aspects of life, and will make your life more enjoyable and easy. make sure you take the time out of your day to remind yourself just how amazing and capable you are. be your own best friend. understand that what you focus on grows.
self care !!
you deserve to be treated with the upmost care. schedule times to pamper yourself and also check in with yourself.
taking care of your mind and body goes hand and hand.
for caring for your mind:
meditate, journal your thoughts down, do some yoga, connect to your religion/spirituality if you follow one, make affirmations for yourself that cater to your needs, practice gratitude.
for caring for your body:
create your own spa! indulge in a bubble bath or relaxing shower where you can use yummy scented body washes/soaps/exfoliators and body conditioners, do a hair mask, give yourself a manicure and pedicure, do your eyebrows, have a set skincare routine that is catered personally to your skin problems/goals, give yourself a head massage, wear matching or yummy scented lotions and perfumes, work out, try new delicious recipes and make sure you are eating good for your body.
hobbies !!
all of the girls had their own hobbies they were into! explore new hobbies or start the ones youāve always been wanting to do but have been putting off! not only are they fun but they enhance your life! you get to learn more about yourself and find out possible hidden talents or grow new ones, you meet new people and make new friends too whether itās you doing the actual hobby or running across someone who enjoys the same things that you do! some hobbies to consider:
any dance class: ballet, hip-hop, k-pop etc.
photography
any sport: tennis, ice skating, golfing, etc.
gardening
reading & writing
camping
crafting
blogging
cooking & baking
school and personal goals !!
one thing i love about the bratz is that they took their education seriously and helped each other whenever one of them needed the help. nothing is more fabulous than being educated and ambitious. you can do anything you put your mind to. ļæ¼
create a study schedule for yourself and limit your distractions, when itās time to study put your phone away and remove anything that you know will serve as a distraction to you, give yourself breaks from here and there too!
create a vision board! cut and paste pictures of things you want for your future onto a poster board or be creative and draw and color everything out! this is a great reminder everyday for yourself if you put it somewhere youāll be able to see whenever you wake up or a spot in your room that youāre always looking at for example. (what you focus on grows!)
jot down all the things you want to do or improve on, whether thats creating good habits for yourself, learning a new language, etc.
have a passion for fashion !!
would this be a how to live your life like the BRATZ without it? explore and find your own fashion sense! find out what colors and patterns make you happy, express yourself through your clothing, shop until you drop and have fun!!
Invest on skincare, spa days, facials, be mindful of your diet and avoid consuming inflammatory and processed foods, wear your SPF religiously, never sleep with your make up on, make sure you rest 7 to 8 hours daily, exercise, meditate/pray and become in-tune with your spirituality, drink plenty of lemon water daily, drink smoothies, take magnesium and supplement with different vitamins depending on the season of the year, avoid alcohol if possible. Take care and exalt your body and it will take care of you in the long run, don't abuse it, cherish it.
Doll Diaries: Reinvention
At some point in your life, you may want to completely reinvent yourself. Reinventing yourself means to change aspects of yourself physically, mentally, or both.
This is also means that you are making progress in your life. Reinvention marks a period of growth, consistent growth.
1. Create a vision for your reinvention.
What does the new you look like? What is the future that you want? Who are the people, situations, and places you may have to leave behind?
Have a vision of who you want to become, and have a reason of why you want to become that.
-> Create a board of your aesthetic and ideas via Pinterest, Pic Collage, or Google Slides.
2. Know who youāre surrounding yourself with.
If you are surrounding yourself with people that are not going to keep it real with you, people that are envious of your success/new endeavors, or people that do not align with your core values, you have to cut them off.
Someone who truly values you as a person will care about the fact that youāre trying to better yourself, and join you along the journey. Letting go of dead weight will be a huge relief.
Remember that youāre your own best friend first, and donāt let anyone hold you back.
3. Express yourself.
This saying rings true. Dress the way the new you would, speak the way the new you would, and do the things the new you would do. Be expressive, be whoever you want to be. Thereās no rule saying you canāt consistently change. Life allows you to be a chameleon.
4. Remember that you can become anything.
If youāre overall trying to become more confident as a person, you can become that.
-> Affirm yourself, instead of speaking negatively and affirming your harsh inner critic.
->Keep your back elongated when you walk into a room.
->Speak more articulately and slow down when speaking, pause between sentences. Have clear diction.
->Dress boldly and unapologetically, only for you and no one else.
If youāre trying to become more strong, you can become that.
->Have strict boundaries, and take no shit from anyone.
->Anyone that violates your core beliefs must go. Stand your ground.
->When you are going through a really hard time, get yourself together first and be in tune with your feelings first, donāt fall apart in public.
If youāre trying to become more private, you can become that.
->Learn to speak less about your personal problems.
->Vent to your diary/journal.
->Speak vaguely about what youāre doing and make general statements, make the other person talk about themselves.
If youāre trying to become more attractive, you can become that.
->Always look people in the eye.
->Laugh, smile, be genuine. Donāt push a fake persona.
->Learn that other people do not define you, such confidence is instantly appealing.
->Take care of yourself mentally and physically.
5. Live for yourself.
Ultimately, this journey is your own and no one elseās. Stop worrying so much about other people and what they think. Mute, block, unfollow or take a social media cleanse.
Learn to put yourself first. Reshape your relationship with other peopleās expectations.
Donāt owe anyone anything, donāt expect anyone to owe you anything either.
Expectations come from a place of judgment. Judging yourself from a perfectionist eye does you no good. There is too much power in the present moment to dwell on expectations of what should be.
You canāt truly control what others think but you can control your inner critic which is why the way you talk to yourself is so crucial. It can make or break you.
You can also control the access people have in your life. If they refuse to accept your values, then you should distance yourself. Living for yourself is the best thing you can do because you make room for internal validation rather than external.
When you know your own worth, you do things for yourself, and thatās what makes it rewarding.
Always ask yourself the important questions:
What brings me happiness?
What would I love to accomplish?
Am I accepting reality? Am I making changes to my reality? What changes can I make?
What values are important to me?
Growth does not stop, itās continuous. Your standards will continue to grow with you.
Your goal is to live a life you are proud of.
Taking appropriate risks outside of your comfort zone, upholding your boundaries and core values, competing with yourself to do your very best, and acknowledging that the process is what matters, not simply the end result.
Make this journey private and sacred, and transform with or without people alongside.
Donāt let anyone make you feel bad for wanting to create yourself over and over. You are your own artist.
Focus in on who you are now, and who you are becoming.
I hope this inspires you!
xoxo, thevirgodollā”