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cringe isnt an insult. if you find me cringe that means i have power over you. im having a fucking blast while youre seething with vitriol at my very existence. whos really winning here

fearthefuzzybear

ok uh. how do you hypothetically say "i want to study you" in a friendly way

so far the best I've got is "can i join a discord derver that youre in so i can observe you in your natural habitat"

fearthefuzzybear

hm. i see your point

allstrangenature

I can barely contain myself right now

holy shit

HOLY SHIT

27dragons

holy CRAP.

Artists, creators, students, and researchers of all types, take note:

Digitized photos and text. 2D and 3D object renders. Music and other sound files. Videos. Research datasets. Collections metadata.

On a Creative Commons Zero license: Take what you want. Use it. No permission or attribution required. Yes, even for commercial use.

There is a lot wrong with the world at the moment, but the Smithsonian… the Smithsonian is right.

amezure

Support me on PATREON or Ko-fi 💕

dearbisexual

dam…….. that website “you feel like shit” (it’s like a questionnaire / troubleshooting guide for when you feel like shit) really works………………….. im not even all the way thru it and i even half-assed a lot of the suggestions and i already feel loads better

dearbisexual

for some reason, with this website, i was able to complete small tasks ive been fruitlessly bugging myself to do for weeks??

anyway, i feel almost good now :^)

dearbisexual

im glad this got some notes!!!! i hope it helps y’all find some measure of peace or comfort <3

fuckyeahsnackables

This is astonishing. I’m going to use and save.

abessinier

Stuff kids on tumblr better relearn

1. You are responsible for your own media experience.

2. There is such a thing as a healthy level of avoidance towards topics that make you feel unwell or even (in a real-life clinical definition of the term) trigger you - but you are the one to actively take care of what you view.

3. Avoiding does not mean policing others.

4. You have no right to tell artists to censor themselves - you may criticize what others do, you may dislike it, that’s fine - but actively asking for censorship when you could easily unfollow or block a person just makes you look incompetent in your use of the internet.

5. Do not give people on tumblr or /any/ website the responsibility for your emotional well-being. Because these people do not even know you so no, you have no right to ask them to take care of you.

vesperlionheart

6. Content creators are not your parents and owe you nothing, not even a breakdown on why their content isn’t problematic. You don’t get to demand a dissertation denouncing any and everything unhealthy in a piece you don’t like. Move on.

summerpipedream

7. Tagging is a nicety but not an obligation. You can message people, politely, and ask them to tag things, and many people will, but understand that it’s their blog and they aren’t obliged to say yes. Unfollow and block when you need to. Circling back to number 1, you are responsible for curating your own experience.

8. Don’t be a jerk. Remember at the end of the day, there are actual living, breathing people behind each screen name. Don’t say anything you wouldn’t say to someone’s face in real life.

pixie-mage

I cannot stress enough how important it is to remember this.

pnkrathian

just some thoughts but “fiction affects reality” and “fiction isn’t reality” are ideas that really really can and should coexist

pnkrathian

lets imagine you’re running a dnd game, and one of your friends tells you they wanna play an evil-aligned character who’s prone to doing some really, seriously fucked up shit.

“fiction isnt reality” is why I’m not gonna automatically assume that’s a direct indicator of their personal morals and that they’re a horrible, fucked up irl (unless, of course, in the unfortunate but less likely event that they prove themself otherwise). a game of dnd is just fiction and it can be a safe space to explore topics and characters like those.

but “fiction affects reality” is why they have to check in with the other players about what they are and aren’t comfortable seeing that character do in-game. like seeing them shoot a random dude for his money could be fine but seeing them torture the dude is... a little too much. it could have a negative effect on the mental health of the other players.

fiction definitely is a safe space to explore taboo and problematic topics in but you still gotta be mindful of the people around you and how what you do or write could potentially harm them. you gotta be respectful of what people are comfortable and uncomfortable with seeing, and realize that, no matter the situation, there will always be definite lines you can cross.

nevaehtyler

26-year-old Jamarion Robinson’s grandmother Beverly Nixon said her grandson was bipolar and schizophrenic. Still got shot 76 (!!!) times. Would a white person get the same treatment?

The witness said he saw more than a dozen patrol cars at the complex where US Marshals killed Robinson on August 5, 2016. Why were there no behavioral specialist? Surely one of them would know how to interact with a bipolar schizophrenic better than the police.

I’m absolutely disgusted.

Here’s Jamarion’s mother’s GoFundMe in case anyone is willing to help.

#JusticeForJamarion #BlackLivesMatter

kingrudegyalchina

Oh god ..

ordeal-moved-deactivated2021020

this is how much they’ve raised as of June 26th, 2020.

musicxmusingsxmemes

$48,589 out of $100,000 raised as of September 28th, 2020

justasimplegoblin

$52,212 as of January 19th 2021

This is still relevant. If you can’t offer financial support please do your part and share so it can get to people who can.

#JusticeForJamarian

#BlackLivesMatter

yurimom

hey if y’all are gonna make my stupid posts about caprisuns or kmart or being colorblind blow up, i’d really appreciate it if you could reblog/donate to a post that actually goes toward a good cause.

This is Vee. It would be great if anyone could toss her some money so she can afford to go on estrogen. She doesn’t have any other means of income and doesn’t currently have a good support system in getting the gender-affirming treatment she needs.

She lives in El Paso, one of the worst cities in the US for COVID rn, where everything is shut down due to the pandemic. It’s hard enough getting a job as a transfem person and this has made it impossible.

She was someone i knew in high school and she could really use you guys’ help. She doesn’t have a tumblr, but she had this to say:

“Hey there! I'm accepting donations to raise money for my HRT :)

if you feel generous I would be glad to receive donations, if not a share is much appreciated!

Instantly exchange money for free on Cash App

https://cash.app/$jinglbells”

If anyone wants to follow her on Twitter, here it is:

https://twitter.com/jingletweets

The latest Tweets from 🏴Vee☭ (@jingletweets). ✨ Communist and Anarchist | Femme Agender | solidaridad con Cuba 🇨🇺 y vietnam 🇻🇳. she/her

Please spread the word and have a great day! :-)

(Edit as of October 30th, 2020!)

UPDATE!

Vee has set her HRT donation goal to $2,000! This is so she can afford about a year of HRT while she looks for a job in the meantime!

She has received ten dollars so far! Thank you!

SO FAR, WE ARE AT $10/$2,000!

Please keep this post going! Thanks so much for the support so far!

yurimom

$25/$2,000! Thank you! Please keep the ball rolling! You guys are super helpful

yurimom

$45/$2,000! Thank you so much! You guys are the best! Please keep this post going!

yurimom

$90/$2,000! Thanks!! This post is only a day old and we’re making great progress, but please keep reblogging! Thanks so much again for helping a young transfem get access to the treatment she needs!

yurimom

nothing else yet!! please keep boosting!!

yurimom

$105/$2,000!! Thanks so, so much! Please don’t let this post die, you guys fucking rock at this!