Silence is Golden

Auriel | 30 | self shipper | system

[the-silent-hashira]

|| Introduction ||

My name is Auriel, and this is my self indulgent self ship blog!!

I use he/they/she pronouns mainly, but it/its is also ok! I am also part of a DID system!

This is both a sfw and nsfw self shipping blog, so it is 18+ no exceptions. I will block minors who follow! Reblogging my sfw posts is ok.

Please do not harass or send hate towards anyone who reblogs/sends requests to me! All anon hate towards myself or others will be deleted/ignored.

I will block any ageless accounts who follow me.

There will be occasional mentions of:

Cannibalism

Violence

Yandere

Abuse(emotional, physical, sexual)

Religion(specifically of Judaist religions/Christianity and Catholicism)

Self harm

Drug use

And other themes that will be tagged.

As a side note, I am:

profic

propara anti-c

mogai

neurodivergent

do not support exclusionaries of any kind whatsoever

support people who do whatever they want and that nobody has any right to shame them for what they do with themselves or their lives

If you don't support these things or do not want to follow people who identify as these things, please block and move on. All hate or harassment will be ignored, deleted, and blocked.

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# 🍎 apple of my eye || Lucifer

# 🖋️ object of affection || self

# 💝 sweeter than candy || sfw

# 🥵 hotter than hell || nsfw

# 💋 the shadows hide us || imagines

# 💌 what could be sweeter || personal writing

# 🎻🎶 the red means i love you || music

# 💉💊 darker than black || dark

# 🧤 through the void || ooc

# 📬 an offering of blood || ask/submission

[disabledunitypunk]

I am begging the FDA to require that companies CANNOT just put "spices" as an ingredient but have to label the spices.

"Spices" can mean "this has some oregano and black pepper in it" or it can mean "this has cumin cayenne and paprika and if you eat this you will be sick in bed in pain for a week" for me.

Seriously, this is an allergy issue and a huge oversight on the part of corporations.

Require detailed labeling of spices used in packaged foods NOW.

[yeahokayillreblogthat]

Yeah okay, I'll reblog that!

[autism-official]

I don't even have food allergies and I get annoyed when the ingredients list is vague

[autism-official]

And stereotypical people are just like "why are you worried about it" like wtf is in this what do you mean spice

[callmemanatee]

The way most autism literature describes "literal interpretation" is often not at all similar to how I experience it. Teenage me even thought I couldn't be autistic because I've always been able to learn metaphors easily.

In fact, I love wordplay of all kinds. Teenage me was fascinated to learn all the types of figurative language there are in poetry and literature.

But paperwork and questionnaires are hard, because there's so much they don't state clearly. Or they don't leave room for enough nuance.

"List all the jobs you've had, with start and end dates." What if I don't remember the exact day or month? Is the year enough?

"Have you been suffering from blurred vision?" Well, if I take off my glasses the whole world is blurred, but I'm fairly sure that's not what the intake form at the optometrist is asking.

Or the infamous (and infuriatingly stereotypical) "Would you rather go to a library or a party?" What sort of party? Where? Who's there? I work at a library. Am I currently at the library for work or pleasure? Does it have a good collection?

It's not common figures of speech that confound me. It's ambiguity, in situations that aren't supposed to be ambiguous.

[chxrrie-bxmb-deactivated2025090]

reminder that your f/o wants you to be happy and healthy and drink plenty of water and eat your favorite snacks

[wmnylander]

[imsodishy]

[allthingswhumpyandangsty]

isn’t it problematic to write non-con or dark fics?

isn't it problematic to make horror or slasher movies?

the answer to both of the questions above is no.

it is, however, problematic to judge a person based on something that is entirely fiction.

[the-silent-hashira]

btw when you reblog/repost things that actively call people predators for fiction, no matter what kind, and even if theyre a bad person, you are agreeing with harassment just because they look at fictional taboo subjects, NOT because theyre a predator. i have never called someone a predator or harasser who did not clearly show me evidence that they either are doing it themselves, or support people who do.

for those in the back, when you repost things that say 'this fictional thing makes you a paraphile' for ANY reason, you are immediately wrong and missing the point.

(OP is proship/profic and supports anti-contact paraphiles)

[chiikiro]

[genderkoolaid]

in order to not succumb to sex negative conservatism you have to accept that people will get off to things that are upsetting to you. and you cannot assume anything about what they have or have not experienced, what they do or do not believe, and how they act based solely on what gets them off. even if it's extremely confusing and disturbing to you. there are people who have only ever had heterosexual vanilla sex in missionary with the lights off, who actively contribute to more real world harm than your average fetish artist. kink is not a reliable source of information on someone's moral standing. it just feels good to think that way.

[genderkoolaid]

#conflating sexuality with morality is purity culture working on such a small level we don’t even realize it sometimes

[genderkoolaid]

hey friends you know you can just reblog this post without commenting right. like the point of this post is about confronting sex negativity within yourself because it's dangerous to internalize. you don't need to add on your assurances that while you may tolerate sex freaks, you DEFINITELY aren't one!!!!!!!!!!! like it's not actually necessary. maybe be brave and just reblog a post about kink without immediately rushing to distance yourself from kinksters.

you also don't need to add on your passive aggressive comments about x situation in which someone used sex positivity to try and justify being an asshole. that's obviously not what this post is about. i frankly don't know what you want me to say about that.

[genderkoolaid]

curating your experience with any kind of pornography by avoiding things you know you aren't into is extremely basic and common. the people who get off to "the freaky crap" ALSO do that. when you say shit like this it really sounds like you have some very strong judgements about certain kinks, to the point where you can't interact with a post about all kink in general without emphasizing to everyone that YOU only watch the Normal Stuff™©® (how can we tell normal from freaky? well, You Just Know i guess)

like, okay. You know what you like and don't like, you know you have a right to not watch or read or listen to porn you don't like, and you take steps to only engage with porn you do like. why do you feel the need to make a big statement about it? cause it seems to me like you are still very much judging other people's kinks.

[harbingerofsoup]

i will never forgive the internet for making the phrase “fiction affects reality” inherently suspicious because like fiction absolutely does affect reality in the sense that the themes and messages of media can challenge or affirm people’s biases, it can impact one’s ideology, so much of fiction is commentary on real social issues

and yet! everyone who uses the phrase fiction affects reality is using it as a pro-censorship argument and i simply do not fuck with that

[allthingswhumpyandangsty]

“you can write non-con and dark fics as long as you’re not romanticizing it”

“you can write non-con and dark fics as long as it’s your way of coping with your trauma”

“you can write non-con and dark fics as long as —”

actually, anybody — including you — can write non-con and dark fics, and any other fucked up things, however they want, for whatever reasons.

wanna romanticize the fuck out of your non-con / dead dove do not eat fic? go ahead. don’t let anybody stop you from creating the art you want to create.

wanna write non-con fic even if you were never a victim? go ahead. you don’t have to meet any specific criteria in order to create the art you want to create.

just tag your works properly so that you don’t accidentally expose those who might not want to be exposed to such topics to the topics, and you’re all good.

art does not have to be for everybody.

art has never been strictly about rainbow and sunshine. art can also be about the horror and the macabre.

art can be outright disgusting and messed up, and being disgusting and messed up can be just what makes the art a masterpiece.

write whatever you want to write and say fuck you to censorship.

[jacksonseymour13]

Antis: Wah! Stop liking incest you sick fuck!

Me and my homies: But if we do you'll stop crying and that's no fun!

[ramblingidk]

if you let fiction affect YOUR reality, please go touch grass

that's it. that's the post.

[coaarchived]

Remember everyone,

Being proship doesn't mean you like every trope/ship. It means you won't harass over it.

You are allowed to dislike things! You are allowed to think they're gross! You don't even need to like any ship to be proship— these qualities don't make you a phony or less proship.

Proship means anti harassment. If you believe in freedom in fiction and that harassment over fiction is wrong, you are proship.

[kiwisandpearls]

the statement “fiction doesn’t affect reality” is wrong yes, but I feel there is some legitimacy to it.

it’s much less “fiction doesn’t affect reality” and more “fiction can affect reality but it should not hold so much power over it that something simply existing in a fictional work will drastically affect the way people interact with reality and other people.”

[anonprosh1p]

Fiction only '""affects reality"" of people who do not have critical thinking and do not know how to distinguish between fiction and reality

[the-silent-hashira]

im petty. my first post in forever is a reminder that being proship/profic/a decent human being is not just about not harassing people, its also about remembering that fiction and reality are two totally different separate things that you cannot suddenly change your opinion on the second you start getting harassed, even if the person is an actual abuser. theyre an abuser for hurting real people, not fictional characters. get your shit together.