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where's the love for girls with big noses and small cocks
got dysphoric and ended up making some sick vent art llmao
Don’t let them bury me as someone I’m not.
happy pride month!! i love being a trans man and i love my fellow trans men!!!
lying on my stomach and kicking my legs in the air and you think i'm imagining my first crush but actually i'm thinking about T and top surgery
i really needed this to exist so i imagine the transgender mcr community could use it as well. happy pride month
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extract from some comics I made in the week around my top surgery.
read the rest here (Making them all public/free just for this week. Happy pride 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈)
THINGS I WISH I KNEW BEFORE TOP SURGERY:
- If you have a caffeine dependency, you will experience withdrawal effects because you’ll most likely be too out of it for a couple of days after surgery to drink caffeine. The headache you get will mostly likely be a lot worse because of any prescription pain medication you’ll be taking. Acetaminophen (Tylenol) will be your best friend.
- Getting drains removed isn’t necessarily painful, but it is the most unnerving feeling ever, especially since they don’t do anything to numb you beforehand. I’m warning you now that you’ll most likely feel sick and potentially black out for a few moments. The feeling will pass quickly though, and the nurses are prepared for this.
- Your scars are going to look a lot bigger and messy when you first see them. This is because of swelling and surgical glue. After about 2-3 weeks the glue will crumble off, and the swelling will mostly go down, so you’ll be able to get a better look at how your chest/scars will actually look
- You won’t be able to reach most things you’d normally be able to after surgery due to both scarring and pain. It’s taken me 3 weeks just to be able to properly wash my hair because I couldn’t lift my arms high enough to touch the top of my head long enough.
- Your surgeon will probably ask you to stop taking your testosterone (if you’re on it) for 2 weeks before surgery, and 2 weeks after surgery. This is about a month without testosterone. Be sure to prepare for that in advance so you’re not surprised with any changes that might happen to your body. I know I got my period after 2 years of not having one because of this, so just be prepared so it’s not too big of a surprise and/or dysphoria spike
- You won’t be able to wear deodorant for about 2 weeks. It sucks, but as long as you’re able to shower frequently and change your shirt, you should be okay
- Get button up PJ sets. You can get them at Walmart. They are lifesavers, especially since you can’t really lift your arms or bend properly in order to take off normal shirts.
- Do not be alarmed if it looks like your nipple is falling off- it is just the scab I promise. Unless you smoke, you should have no fear about your nipples falling off. If you do smoke, talk to your surgeon about what to do well in advance to limit the risk!
- You won’t be able to drive for a hot second due to being on the pain medications, so make sure you have someone you trust to get you to and from places!
- Around the 3 week mark you’ll get a second spike of bad pain. This is because around this time is when you’ll be mostly back to normal routine, and moving around a lot more. Your body isn’t caught up yet, and so the soreness and the pain will be worse. This is normal, and unless the pain is unbearable, you shouldn’t have to contact your surgeon/doctor about any complications
- For any fellow poc, your nipples will most likely heal pink/light. This is fucking weird and I don’t like it, but I’ve heard they’ll eventually go back to normal over time. It’s most likely due to scar tissue
- When you go to put back on your medical binder with padding after you shower or take it off for scar cream, etc.: lay down to put it on. I promise you it’s so much easier than attempting to hold all the padding against your body and put on the medical binder without hurting yourself!
That’s all I got for now! I’ll add on if I remember anything else! Please remember that everyone’s surgery experience is different, im just illustrating some things that happened to me and might happen to others as well! Im only 3 weeks post op as well, so I’ll update if anything else weird happens!
Things about top surgery that I wasn’t aware of going in:
They’ll probably put a breathing tube down your throat after you’re knocked out. You’ll wake up and your throat will hurt (sort of like strep) for a few days after
You need to wear compression tights for a week or two after surgery, they’ll provide them. This is to prevent blood clots since you won’t be moving around a lot
The IV goes in your hand??? They’ll probably numb you first, which is good. But as someone who’s incredibly uncomfortable with medical needles, seeing a needle in my hand was weird
The surgeon will come in before the operation to draw on your chest. They’ll also ask what size you want your nipples to be. You need to tell the surgeon what size you want your nipples to be, don’t be afraid to be specific. These are your nipples.
Anesthesia/surgery will make you EXHAUSTED afterwards. Like “falling asleep if you’re sitting down for more than a few minutes” exhausted
The tightness of the bandage will probably cause most of the pain. Don’t mess with it, the nurse will fix it during the post-op
You will be PARCHED afterwards. You’re going to be IMMENSELY thirsty, drink LOTS of water. I found that sprite is good too, but you’ll want so much water
Things People Don’t Mention About Top Surgery or Mastectomies
There is reluctance to do the surgery if you live alone, even if you have a good support system. One of the most stressful things was the hospital constantly asking about who would be looking after me, picking me up, etc. I really felt the bias towards people who are married and against people who are single. I don’t think it was intentional but it was definitely there. That being said you will definitely need a robust support system of some kind to get through everything in the first 4 -8 weeks or more after surgery.
All your pill bottles will have safety caps and you won’t have the strength to open them on your own without a lot of struggling.
There are soooo many medications. Take them as prescribed and when they say take the level of pain meds you need to manage your pain, do it. I got opiods and ibuprofen. If the pain is bad 5-7+ on the 1-10 scale take the stronger meds. Pain can slow healing by causing stress on the body.
Drains are a pain in the ass. Every hour pushing the hoses so they don’t clog. Major drag but they are very important and if they get clogged it can cause issues
Sleeping sitting up, prepare for this. Lots of pillows or recliner or something. Practice for a week or more before surgery to get used to it.
Sleep as much as you need. Don’t feel like you should stay awake or whatever because you are supposed to or it is day time or whatever. Listen to your body.
Drink lots and lots of fluids. You may think you are drinking enough but you probably aren’t. The fluid in the drains and the medicines and peeing all the time and sweating from the tight wrap. You need to replace all of this fluid. I think I have been up around 80+ oz the past few days.
The month before and a month after surgery eat a high protein and higher calorie diet. It will help with surgery and recovery. You need the energy and the protein to recover.
Cut out added salt, caffiene, alcohol, and nicotine before surgery and during recovery. All of these can increase fluid retention, slow healing, or be dangerous with the meds.
Your chest will feel very strange. At first you can’t feel anything and then the skin feels tight everywhere and still strange. The recovery process feels real weird. Your whole torso feels kind of bizarre and new.
Ask all the questions. No question is stupid. It’s trauma to your body ask all the questions. YES all of them.
The tube (intubation) from surgery irritates the throat. Coughing from this sucks so damned much because of the binder and the chest tightness and what not. Find lozenges (Both cough drops and just candy) that you like. I say candy because too many cough drops can upset the stomach and you don’t need that after anesthesia and with all the meds. Also get popsicles.
Take everything out of packages you can before surgery. They are damned hard to open. Those paper cartons holding the apple sauce and snapping apart pudding cups and pulling apart pill blister packs.. ugh I should have taken them apart before the surgery.
Scissors are your friend and every package is an enemy. Seriously, get a good pair of scissors for packaging.
Also, skip 2 liters of pop, gallon of milk, etc. They will be too heavy to pick up after surgery. You can be more independent if you get smaller size things.
Timers are your friend. All the phone timers forever. Also, handwritten or some other chart type to keep track of drain cleaning and taking meds. You will be sleepy and forgetful the first few days. Use other things to help you keep track.
Take stock of how your lights go on and off. Can you reach them while pretending you are a T-Rex. If not, especially ceiling fans and that, put long strings on the pulls so that you can operate them while you can’t raise your arms.
Also check your doors to make sure they don’t stick. You won’t be able to tug hard on doors or drawers or whatever.
Get yourself some treats. Food related or clothing or whatever. Treats will help.
Before surgery plan out and prepare at least a week of meals. Be sure to include some that are easy on the stomach like crackers, rice and chicken, etc. Just in case you have stomach upset from the anesthesia or meds. Gentle foods include starches and chicken/tofu that is low fat and low spice so that it is gentle.
Soft fuzz free and easy to get on clothing is essential. I went out and got a couple of those shorts and button down shirt pajama sets. Life savers. Also, get a size or two bigger than usual to accommodate drains and padded bandages and things.
Strange pains, you will probably have them.
Be sure to do the arm exercises as directed by your surgeon and watch your shoulders hunching. The shoulder hunching is from the chest tightness but you don’t want your back to start hurting. Try to sit up as straight as you can.
Pump action soap dispensers will be too hard to use the first few days.
Weeks before surgery, start teaching yourself how to do things without your arms; like standing up, getting into and out of bed, squatting, getting up from chairs, etc. Practice doing things with your elbows next to your chest like a t-rex; getting food and drinking, brushing teeth, taking meds, etc This will be very important
I am sure there are more but I thought some of you might benefit from the things I have learned so far from going through surgery.
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Hello all! I have entered a contest to win a large sum of money, in which I would use to finally be able to afford my top surgery. I am a low income and chronically ill individual, so this would truly mean the world to me. Please take a moment to vote, donate or share this post. Thank you!
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Hello all! It is not set in stone yet, but ya boy is considering top surgery. I've found a fairly local surgeon I am interested in in Austin, but would need to fundraise for the consultation fee and travel. I have really struggled with chest dysphoria and want to explore my options, and am also a low income and chronically ill individual. Any help or sharing would mean the world.
Important - testosterone recall info
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Update: It looks like there may be some additional related recalls. You can check the FDA website. I just searched for Sun as the manufacturer with a timeframe of the last two months.
Tw for transphobia and murder of a trans person.
A trans woman was murdered in a hate crime less than ten minutes from my home. I send her so much love and many blessings in her spirit, and condolences to her loved ones.
I am a trans man, and my fiancee is a trans woman.
I can't bear the thought of anything happening to the love of my life. I can't bear the idea of her just trying to live and being found dead on the side of the road. But every day both of us are getting harassed and it feels like there is a huge target on our backs. Not only this, but there is anti trans legislation and sentiment everywhere.
I am happy to be trans. I am happy to love a trans woman. And to have trans friends. I am not happy with how the world treats us. I am not happy to be afraid.
And I have to wonder... Working in customer service, how many of the kind people I talk to and service would actually hate me if they knew I was trans and queer? How many of them hate post about trans folks and increase the vitriol against trans people that leads to hate crimes? How many of them would think I'd be better off dead? That my fiancee would be better off dead?
It breaks me.
the gallery called me and told me my self portrait was inappropriate and won't be hung, that they have "highschool student artists entering the competition" (won't someone please think of the children?) and the family that owns the gallery is coming in and they, and I quote, "do not want the discussion that your artwork would generate to overshadow the exhibition or the winners or finalists". I'm actually really personally upset over this. the graphic nudity they're complaining about is an extremely blurry and indistinct dick in the bottom of a corner. the rest of the painting is just me and my estrogen pillboxes. I can't help but actually take this really personally. "the discussion your painting would prompt" you mean teenagers might discover that trannies exist and make art too??? the horror!!! we can all stare at the Venus de Milo or David or whatever the fuck, but we can't have discussion generated by a god damned transsexual! there are teenagers present! in 2019 a cis woman entered a painting with her tits out in it. she won the fucking grand prize. but girlcock is the line
if they'd rejected my painting without specifically citing that teenagers were going to see it (teenagers seeing dicks in art? can't have that happening!) I would've just been annoyed. and the line about "the discussion your painting would generate" like get fucking real cunts. isn't art meant to prompt discussion of ideas and shit? are you really that threatened by indistinct girlcock lovingly rendered in oils? get that shit out of my face. you think my body is vulgar and I want you to be honest about it. at least have the fucking decency to admit you're a fucking coward.
the painting, for context
This art is great! I think you should show up and hold it outside of the venue the night of and generate a discussion that way.
Dan/Linda, an FTM cross-dresser, with partner Yvonne, an MTF transgenderist. Love is a many gendered thing!
Black and white photograph of T4T couple, taken from the pages of Leslie Feinberg’s Transgender Warriors (1996)
t4t sex must be godly. It must be sacred, celestial. Intimacy between people understanding and loving their their bodies,,, loving and wanting each other’s bodies? There is so much sensual beauty in trans love.