Pom

30s. they/them. demisexual. married. dog trainer. Swiftie. writer. funnybunny enthusiast. the most reluctant jax simp ever.

[theangrypomeranian]

Summary:

Waking up to silence these days was a luxury that Abby wasn't usually afforded. Nowadays, she fully expected to be woken up in the middle of the night to wailing. So the fact that she was awake at three am and the house was completely silent was a little terrifying. No husband and no crying. That meant one thing. . . . "How do I reconcile with this? With any of this? Why does she get to have him but I can't have you?"   Two years after Jax's abstraction, Abby is happy while Pomni is miserable. Is all hope lost? Or is there something brewing that no one exepcts? Title from the song Time Forgets by Yiruma.

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part one of the because i love you series.

[ndnbutch]

I get in theory why people complain about het ships or whatever, I get wanting to watch queer media I really do, but I guess where y’all lose me is like. I saw some asshole on a post about Sinners complaining it was “hetslop”—this person was specifically doing so while also claiming Remmick was a queer character and thus they were justified in caring more about him than the Black protagonists. which is a whole other disgusting can of worms that has been well addressed by others at this point. but even in the absence of that part of the argument, like, no, i actually don’t think that a hunger for queer stories is an especially good excuse to deride and dismiss a piece of landmark Black filmmaking, especially as a non-Black person. I have a post that’s been going around encouraging folks to engage with more Native stories and characters, and I had someone come onto that post saying in the tags that they’d need these stories to be queer in order to care. and I just think that, you know, sucks! like obviously as a queer Native I also want to see more of those stories too. but idk how else to put it other than to say that Black people and people of color shouldn’t have to be like you in order for you to care about our narratives and experiences. and I think some of y’all are using this disdain for heterosexuality as a cover for your unexamined racial biases. it’s not okay to be racist to people just because those people happen to be straight, and you continue to be white before you are queer.

[noble-crimson]

Some Funnybunny warmup doodles to make you feel all fuzzy inside 🥹🩷✨

I don’t see nearly enough art of them after smoochies and that needs to change 😤

[theangrypomeranian]

I've decided that if I ever get rich I'm opening a hospice rescue so that old and/or dying animals can live their last days comfortable and loved 💜

[theangrypomeranian]

this isn't an ask but i'm sorry about your cat. i can't offer anything but condolences and i hope that their memory and your love for them has been a blessing in your life.

Thank you nonny, your kind words mean a lot. Racc and I are just trying to make sure his last days are comfy and full of love.

[theangrypomeranian]

me this whole week

[kosmogrl]

[eclipse-ofthe-sun]

[theangrypomeranian]

I’m so sorry to hear about your old man. When I lost mine, something that helped me was the knowledge that she passed loved, cherished, and remembered. I hope that sits with you during this time, and that it makes the transition easier. Fuck the curse, it’s not real. The people reading will be here anyways.

xx

this totally didn't almost make me cry, nope. 😭 thank you, dear reader. I greatly appreciate you and your words. Racc and I are taking it one day at a time. I just don't want the old man to suffer.

[theangrypomeranian]

Update on the old cat:

So bad news: vet definitely thinks he has cancer.

Good news: it's not "put him down right now" worthy. We're gonna give him a probiotic and high calorie food to try to maintain his weight. She also wants us to weigh him every day.

It's not as bad as it could be. We're not losing him just yet.

[andpierres]

you should have seen me a couple of years ago!

[theinkbleeds]

Bleachers, Merry Christmas, Please Don't Call

How do I explain to you people that interracial relationships are okay

Not every white person dating a POC is fetishizing. White people can be respectful and responsible when it comes to culture and relationships and not everyone has bad intentions.

Asian people can date Black people without you saying shit like “your kids will be so pretty” they’re not dating for pretty kids. They’re dating bc they like each other.

Someone can dress their partner in clothing from their culture if they want. Someone can take their partner to cultural events if they want.

People in relationships can share cultures, experiences and love without it being toxic or skin deep.

Their partner isn’t culturally appropriating. Their partner is being shown the ultimate form of love, bc their partner trusts them and loves them enough to share their history and heritage.

Yeah, dating someone from your culture is nice bc you automatically have similar experiences. But you’re not limited to dating people with the same experiences. Loving someone is sharing and growing and being together.

Interracial relationships aren’t always toxic, and some of y’all need to stop projecting onto other people.

[spoonoftar]

👆 THIS 👆 👏👏👏

[the-real-gingakid]

Calling ineterracial relationships toxic or fetishizing just seem like anti race mixing or racism with extra steps

[skyhon]

This reminded me of this

[64mpg]

does anyone have $1k and a parasocial relationship with me that may tempt them to send it to me

[poll-position]

You are given a short-lived curse in which you have a song stuck in your head for a week. On the bright side, you get to pick the song. Which do you choose?

American Pie (Don Mclean)

Bad Romance (Lady Gaga)

Cotton Eye Joe (Rednex)

Bohemian Rhapsody (Queen)

Dancing Queen (ABBA)

Happy (Pharrell Williams)

Hot n Cold (Katy Perry)

Single Ladies (Beyonce)

Take Me Home Country Roads (John Denver)

Wannabe (Spice Girls)

We Didn’t Start The Fire (Billy Joel)

9 to 5 (Dolly Parton)

Voting ended onJul 16

[theangrypomeranian]

bro if the ao3 curse could knock it off already that would be GREAT

[omoiyue]

i forgot i had tumblr again

[larimar]

Rest in peace Sam 🕊️ 1947-2026