i rlly need to rant bc 🧘🧘
i get youre loving the basque yaoi with unai and oyarzabal and youre writing fics/making fanarts of them, which like 10/10 i support ive been there and done that, but i feel like most of these people dont know rpf etiquette bc theyre repeating the same "and when we tell them about this ship and blah blah blah" over and over and ITS MAKING ME GO NUTS
like why are we normalizing letting the people we make fics of know about it?, why do we try and make it so mainstream when it only endangers fandom spaces bc regular people find them and only laugh at them?? it just makes no sense to me and makes me mad
this sentiment is so real and applies to all ships, like people STOPP telling the subjects of the fanworks about the fanworks!! Not only will regular people laugh at it but you will destroy the cute interactions (truly romantic or not) that made everyone ship them in the first place bc they’ll get conscious of their every move being perceived in a certain way! Like, did we not learn from Larry Stylinson 🥲
it keeps making me so uncomfortable to see mainstream news articles about ships and videos going viral where you know the subjects are going to see them and probably feel weird about it!























