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The story of my life is when a man is in the wrong, I’m the woman who sleeps on the couch to give him space to be upset.

For a hot minute, I thought I could date like guys want to. Hookups and casual and meaningless. But all I feel is empty. The audacity of someone asking for an exclusive friends with benefits situationship. You want a relationship or you don’t. Quit wasting my time.

Back into the land of online dating but this time with a kinky slant. My therapist suggested the app Feeld and I’ve have a few promising matches. Sadly, overall, people in LA seem to only be interested in hookup culture. Which, don’t get me wrong, can be fun. But I’m feeling over fun. I want more!! Occasional sex without commitment doesn’t compare to submitting to someone who knows and wants you exclusively. There’s nothing like that level of intoxication. I strive to find that again.

Suicidal ideation is a bitch.

I didn’t know until quite recently how fun younger men can be.

squeeful

tentacuddles

would much like to point out that the people publishing these articles are trying to needle millennials into treating gen z with the same disgusting vitriol we were treated with.

don’t buy it.

our younger brothers and sisters might eat a tide pod and get us blamed for it, but we have more in common with them than we ever had with boomers or gen x.

they are terrified of the things we can do together. remember that.

heliacal-paladin-deactivated202

breaks-hetheon

The Kids are Alright.

oldfilmsflicker

new-to-me #142 - Moxie

theindependentsubmissive

Just watched this and loved it!

#moxie #amy poehler #2021 #directed by women

onlyonekenobi

the two genders are “i no longer wish to be perceived” and “i have to be the most fuckable person at the grocery store”

theindependentsubmissive

Brightened my day.

2019 is really rough so far

I’m frustrated.

I want to break out of depression but it has a tendency to suck me right back in.

People are exhausted by me.

I don’t feel like I can do anything right.

I need people but adults are so goddamn busy.

I see doctors more than I see friends.

Some days I just want it all to be over.

sunnyandpositive

Motivation post

I don’t want you to change. But I want to change with you.

the sweetest Sir on the planet

faggottt

#me today #trying not to be needy #but it turns out #i'm needy

pumper-savage

No one will fuck you better than someone who gets pleasure from making you cum

anexperimentallife

This whole thread is cool and wholesome.

weedyshurgusburgus

something they have control over!!! yes!!!!!!!

cheeseanonioncrisps

My number one tip for straight men (I mean, it could conceivably work for other genders and sexualities, but you’d have to adjust it quite a bit) is: inagine they’re a man.

Imagine that you just randomly told some bloke in a pub that he has beautiful eyes.

That you walked up behind your coworker Jim and started caressing his neck and shoulders while talking to him about the budget.

That you just sent a large and unexplained bouquet of flowers to Darren in Accounting.

That instead of complimenting a coworker on her breasts, you complimented him on his dick.

Does the action now seem weird? Uncomfortable? Do you no longer want to do it now that it isn’t directed at somebody you are sexually attracted to?

That strongly suggests that your action has a sexual aspect to it and therefore probably counts as sexual harassment!

glorious-spoon

I have a large, colorful tattoo on one arm. I’ve had multiple strange men cross a room to tell me how awesome it is, frequently while I’m at work, and it has never made me uncomfortable.

A couple of weeks ago, someone yelled out a car at me ‘I FUCKING LOVE YOUR BOOTS’, which was awesome.

It’s just… it’s really not hard to compliment people in a way that isn’t creepy, if your goal is actually to compliment them and not to slide a ‘btw I’m thinking about fucking you’ under the radar.