now. more than ever...

indubitably scared, but full of curiosity

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SQUAD UP. The greatest people you'll ever meet. @chris_tineeeeee @iammacblack cc: @freshlike_fran (Ronald will never have an insta)

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twin souls. @robjiggetts @commedesgarconsofficial #latergram (at The Ainsworth)

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twin souls. @robjiggetts @commedesgarconsofficial (at The Ainsworth)

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cannot begin to express the last ten days of my life. thank you to this man for breaking me down and building me up. to all the #burners out there, you know what I mean. #burningman (at Black Rock City, Nevada)

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how dirty girls get clean. @abotti3 @frank_bod #thefrankeffect #latergram

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what you know about watermelon cake?! made by yours truly and @candilf (at Battery Park Montessori)

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get the grouper. (at Son Cubano)

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standards. @carolinazapata #fotografia (at Le Bain at The Standard, High Line)

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mates of the soul variety. @julireland @abotti3 (at Marquee New York)

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a happy one year gift from the best boss in lower manhattan. (at Pine Street School)

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my first grilled 🍆. ignore the commentary, my brother still uses a flip phone.

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charlamagne et ses leudes (at Cathédrale Notre-Dame )

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A Penny Saved

I know I promised to update my small but faithful following with details and pictures of my trip to the Middle East and have yet to deliver. Don't crucify me just yet.  I promise I will have blogs and vlogs to share within the next week.

On an unrelated note, I wanted to share this lovely article I read on refinery29 this morning.  It's about how a young couple scrounged and scraped to buy an apartment in New Yawk City.  Given that I have become obsessed with personal finance since I joined mint.com a few months ago, I can't help but spread this article and its tried and true advice.  With the summer sun calling us to more rooftop happy hours than could be considered healthy by even the rowdiest of bros, it may seem nearly impossible to reach your savings goals this season.  Notice how I said nearly. We don't have to be slaves to trendy clothes and new restaurants in order to enjoy adulthood.  Sometimes slowing down and staying in can save more than empty calories and set us up for financial independence like we've never imagined.

Whether you are saving for a house, a vacation or a new crockpot, cutting down on frivolous spending and setting small, attainable financial goals can set you up freedom in the long run.

Read about how Lindsey and her beau economized their way to homeownership here: http://tinyurl.com/k29h7qy.

A

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Around the corner. Around the world.

Good Day Ladies,

This lady is coming to you live from Dhahran, Saudi Arabia!! Pictures and details from my trip will be up as soon as I touch down in the states and have time to curate and edit.

So far, this has been an amazing trip.  I am spending some ultra precious time with my mom and our brains are just firing synapses about how we (our family) can take over the world - pinky and the brain style. I am so inspired by her life story and journey and the pioneering things she has done as a woman in this man's world.

In order to make the best of this vacation, and harp on some of the great conversations I have had I am going to spend the next few days brushing up on my coding skills with Codecademy.  Perhaps there will be a new theme for "The Lady Speaks" in our future?  Who knows...I'm full of half-empty promises on this blog.

Salam,

Aimee

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two for me. none for you. (at Scoop Coop)

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style is hereditary. three weeks until I'm traveling the Middle East with my fancy mamacita! #tbt (at global)

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yasss b*tch yasss.