Yet Another Damn Sideblog

This time for The Quarry || Travis Hackett Enjoyer || Laura Kearney Admirer || occasional n s f w reblogger

[allshipsareok]

[zykamiliah-temporal]

i think we should bring this back (with some amendments ofc) if we ever needed an "internet etiquette" for the younger generations, now is the moment to remind them. purity culture kills fandom

as well as the three laws of fandom:

Don't Like, Don't Read (DL;DR), Your Kink is not My Kink And That's OK (YKINMKATO) and Ship and Let Ship

[cybervom1t]

new compliment just dropped

[obedience--school]

Let me see what’s under this skirt while I decide what punishment is worthy of being late with your books

[madison--ava--jones]

[marquis-de-la-rose-noire]

[cleoidus]

art by cleoidus

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Blonde Phantom by arion69

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[dearemma]

PERIODDRAMA APPRECIATION WEEK 2024

Day 5 - Favorite Aesthetic - The Atonement, Library Scene

[theloversabovethelaw]

[finalgoob]

coming out of his cage, doing not fine

[unaliveish]

pavel nechaev

[damnukids]

@shirtsthatgohard

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[allthingswhumpyandangsty]

what people think pro ship means: dangerous people who want to harm children in real life and/or think taboo subjects in real life are justified

what pro ship actually is about: the belief that people are allowed to enjoy fictional thing however they want, as long as it's fictional and no one in real life gets harmed or harassed in any way, and as long as they tag their trigger warnings properly.

most pro ship folks I've come across are just "hey, you like this fucked up thing that is fictional? okay, cool. you do you, man. I myself don't even like this thing that you like, but hey, it's not real. and I trust that you know the difference between fiction and reality, so you do you. if it ever gets too much for me, I will just block or mute you and move on with my life, but that doesn't mean I think you're a horrible person in real life because of the fictional thing you like, it just means I'd rather not see or engage with this thing that can make me uncomfortable. I still want you to have fun doing what you love, and I still think you're cool as fuck. love and respect, dude"

meanwhile most anti ship I've seen are like "omg you like this fictional thing where fictional children are harmed??! Red Flag Red Flag. put this gross piece of shit behind bars immediately!!!"

and I'm just ????? I don't normally engage in fandom wars, but I think, as long as you don't harass anyone in real life and as long as no one in real life is in danger or is harmed, how you enjoy fictional things is none of my business. and I'm not gonna make any "call out post" where I encourage my followers to harass you because you like fucked up fictional things that I personally don't like or believe is wrong either.

I mean, from personal experience, I was exposed against my will to thing I didn't want to see from anti's screenshot of fanart or fanfic where they encourage their followers to harass this person whose fanart or fanfic, that was screenshot and spread by them, was originally tagged properly with all the trigger warnings so that people who didn't want to see it wouldn't get exposed to it. until anti screenshot it and flaunted it around in the name of being morally superior while also, at the same time, advocated for the witch hunt against someone who just wanted to mind their own business. so... the irony. lol

fandoms used to be more peaceful before Fandom Police starts their witch hunting, but it's a good thing we can just block these people and keep on enjoying our blorbos however we want to enjoy them.

and I'll always encourage every artist to write whatever they want, draw whatever they want. don't let people who think they're "morally superior" tell you you can't make art this way or that way. my best advice would be to block and ignore and keep on creating what you want. they may be loud, but at the end of the day they're just noises and they're not worth your attention x

[the-therapist-is-ace]

Casual reminder from the therapist that liking/writing/drawing/creating "problematic" content (i.e depictions of violence, incest, rape etc...) is not a red flag or a mental illness.

And I said it before and I'll say it again: I would be more concerned about someone who claim someone else is a red flag because they create/interact with problematic content, than someone who DO interact with it.

Why? Because the latter can clearly makes the seperation between fiction and reality, but the former doesn't seem to be able to, which is concerning.

Hope it help!

[witchbabywigg]

casual reminder from a CSA/CSAM survivor that you're not helping any of us by being antiship and in fact target many of us and call us pedophiles for having the audacity to write about what happened to us in a way that isn't explicitly puritan with an overarching godlike figure there to immediately smite and punish the bad guy.

protip: that rarely ever happens for us. most of our abusers get off scot-free. unfortunately for you, bad things exist in this world and happen to good people and a lot of the time the bad guys get away with it. that's not advocating for it, that's just life.

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