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It's nuts how common it is to not allow children to be angry, even (especially) in households where adults are angry all the time. As a child I knew my own anger was unacceptable--not just expressing it outwardly but feeling it at all. So now as an adult my immediate reaction to my own anger is often to feel guilt instead of like. Noticing when someone is being rude or unfair or my boundaries are being violated or whatever. fucked up.

meibisus

OT5 B.A.P TOGETHER AT LAST !!!!

artigas

i'm probably gonna say very little about fandom discourse around this ep because spring break starts next week and i'm running out of sanity but actually. i love everyone on the pitt being flawed and fucked up and nasty sometimes. i love robby being a hypocrite and repulsed by samira's anxiety because he's repulsed by his own. i love that, alternatively, samira is repulsed by her mother's loneliness because she's repulsed by her own, too. i love santos blaming langdon for her ostracization at the ED and her unwillingness to see that, separate of the langdon issue (however separate you can make it), if you go around being an asshole to your peers all the time, some people are just not going to fucking like you. i love that its garcia specifically who checks santos for the lack of decorum she's displaying in front of their patients in this ep because garcia herself could arguably stand to have a bit more decorum when talking about patients and she's also treating santos like a dogggg right now. i love that mel is overstepping boundaries with becca and coddling her in a way that doesnt allow becca the space she deserves to be an autonomous adult with autism who should be respected on her own terms because mel's also struggling with what it means to be an autonomous adult with autism who should be respected on her own terms. i think there's a difference between a show depicting characters behaving badly and cosigning their bad behavior. i think a good character and a good person are separate categories. i love that this is a show that isn't so obsessed with likability that it keeps its characters from behaving badly.

frankly, i hope these characters keep fucking up, and i hope they keep getting checked by their fellow fuck ups, because that's life, brother. there is no divine priestly class of sinless people who exist to tell the "bad" people off for their missteps. and i hope that, as the show progresses, we see robby, santos, mohan, langdon etc make more mistakes and better mistakes. and i love that this show, for all its flaws, is (imo) still holding true to its premise that people are not wholly defined by their best moments or their worst. no matter how uncomfortable it is to sit with that nuance or how tense that makes an episode of television lol.

incorrect-the-pitt

criminalizegolf

any printer born after 2007 can't print... all they know is bluetooth , hide they usb port, tray feed error, be out of magenta , eat paper & tell HP my social security number

kayvsworld

the fact that the first time tony ever puts the suit on he immediately tries to break the altitude record for fixed wing flight. zero tests just "idk let's see if this thing can make it past 85 thousand feet" what is WRONG WITH HIM

kayvsworld

face of a man who just fell tens of thousands of feet and almost flew into traffic

kayvsworld

#once again. the implications of rhodey having to bring the mk2 to the army to get it fitted for weapons#implies that the mk2 DIDNT have weapons#other than the repulsors#just. man. man. man. he made it to fly.#he made it to fly not to fight. and i’m So. [via @the-faultofdaedalus]

YEAH,

and when he comes home from the gala he's been sitting on the couch listening to what's happening in gulmira and re-calibrating the repulsors to turn them into something he can fight with IT WAS NEVER MEANT TO BE A WEAPON. HE JUST WANTED TO FLY

also I know ao3 is down for the next 20 hours but during my daily morning commute in the train I couldn't help but click a story like it would actually load

#listen its my emotional support fandom i NEED to get to work and suffer through the PAINS #ao3 please bring it back to me #i cant #ao3 #ao3 down #ao3 is down

I need tumblr to actually stop updating because this just looks ugly

#new tumblr update #tumblr update whatever #ITS UGLY

itscyran

REBLOG IF YOU USED TUMBLR IN 2011 - 2013

If so, you knew how turnt Tumblr use to be

knightswaypoint

Learning how to give reports with Uncle Leon (For the Anon who asked for a Leon and Aithusa interaction!)

rotteddaughters

i get scared when my mutuals aren’t as active. none of you are mentally stable enough to go missing

icedsodapop

What if I tell you that the ending of the original Lilo and Stitch was important because Nani fighting tooth and nail for custody over Lilo takes place against a history of the separation of Indigenous families? What if I tell you that the ending of the original Lilo and Stitch was important because it shows that Nani was not inherently a bad guardian, just a young overwhelmed woman who needed a support system and not punishment (just like many families esp Black and Brown single mothers do)?

And then Disney spat upon that ending for the live action remake?

crowleysfall

no captain gantu, no lilo reading stitch the ugly duckling, no pleakley wearing a dress, no scene with stitch looking for his family, no jumba redemption, no pleakley and jumba becoming lilo’s cool uncles, good LORDDDDD

noodle-the-queen

Ao3 does not need an algorithm, you're just lazy

Ao3 does not need a 1-5 star rating system, you just want to bring down authors writing for FREE

Ao3 does not need automatic censorship, it is an archive, therefore anything can be posted

Writing or reading about something illegal does not mean the author nor the reader condones it, if that were true, you could never read a story involving anything negative

Purity culture is ruining fan culture and you all are fucking annoying