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I love being soft spoken and elegant, there is so much power in your femininity..don’t ever look at it as being weak.
F*ck Him: Nice Girls Always Finish Single
Summary:
A high-value woman knows her way around men, regardless of whether or not she’s good looking.
High-value women repel bad men, or men who won’t bring anything to the table in a relationship.
Men are repelled by the ‘nice girl’ or ‘good girl’ because:
She’s looking for the one, and she thinks she’s found him in her new partner.
She’s led by the belief to accept less than exemplary behavior in hopes that he will one day change (not happening).
She tries to impress him, often overcompensating by being overly nice and appeasing, driven by the belief that she’s not worth enough. It should be the other way around.
Your actions define how valuable you are.
Never seek a man’s approval.
Never let a man call all the shots.
The high-value woman doesn’t play games. She considers herself to be a prize, one he needs to chase after.
High value women have more important things to do than to chase after a man, regardless of whether it’s mundane or not.
Mental fucking:
Two important rules to remember:
Never share your body with him too soon. You will fall in love too hard, and way too soon.
Mentally fuck him as soon as you can: creating a challenge will force him to look past your looks.
First impressions are critical towards cultivating the impression of high value.
If you want him to treat you like a queen, act like a queen right out of the gate.
How to mentally fuck a guy:
Decide what you feel are just feelings, which come and go, rather than falling head over heels for him.
Want a relationship, but not just any relationship. Be happy to stay single for as long as necessary.
Neediness comes from natural instincts.
You never need a man or a relationship.
She consciously wonders, “Is this the best guy to give my time to?”
“If this guy never changed, would I really want to be with him ten or twenty years from now?”
She knows she doesn’t need her looks to get a great guy.
Setting the rules:
After the first date, she doesn’t reach out. She’s busy with her life.
She’ll see when and if she contacts her again. She isn’t willing to spend time on a guy who isn’t putting in the work she deserves.
She never behaves like a bitch. Instead, she has a take it or leave it mentality.
The first couple weeks of interaction set the stage.
Whatever is set is difficult to change later. Create the right habits as soon as you can.
For ambitious men who want success, they work for what they want:
That’s why high-value women are so attractive. Her standards are not an act. It is the only acceptable way.
Three most important traits:
She’s a queen, and she has a lot of self-respect, regardless of what anyone else thinks.
He is not the center of her life.
She never, ever pursues him. If he seems to lose interest, she withdraws. She has better things to do.
Managing men:
Is he playing games?
When he says he’ll call and doesn’t - this places the ball in his court.
Right way to respond: don’t care. Don’t even become fazed when he steps back.
You can find a guy who cares and does better.
Creating distance by disappearing.
Right way to respond: Put energy into your passions, interests, and other men you start dating.
Men who are not sufficiently interested will disappear.
Claiming he’s not ready for a relationship: a phrase used to create space and lead women on.
Right way to respond: Say, “Take all the time you need. I’m not sure about you either.”
Respond with low investment by even lower investment.
Never consider him nor the relationship as important as he does.
Counter-intuitive way of getting him to do what you want:
Give him the feeling it was his own decision. If he comes to the conclusion, he will stand by it.
Reinforce good behavior. Ignore him when he shows bad behavior. Consider him less important.
Ignore him when he doesn’t add value to your life to train him.
If you want a man to do something, ask another man to help you, or tell him you’ll take care of it.
Men are governed by their own egos.
The more you need him, the less he will want you. The more you want him, the more he will need you.
Don’t show him you need him. Have extra activities, so he won’t become the center of your life.
Work on your mental strength. The more you try not to lose him because you need him, the higher the probability he will eventually leave.
Ideal praise to criticism ratio in relationships is 5 to 1.
Avoid getting played:
High-value women are in short supply. Make men earn your attention.
Your emotions are never to be trusted.
Establish a strong set of boundaries.
Self-respect is #1.
Men always treat you the way you allow to. They cannot respect a woman more than she respects herself.
When his attention declines: do the same and withdraw.
A man should never, ever be totally sure that you unconditionally love him. For if he is, he will move on to the next item in his hierarchy of needs.
SELF CARE CHEAT SHEET!!
how to treat yourself on a low budget
what to do after a long day
how not to be hard on yourself
staying healthy while studying
need a confidence boost? stand like this
how to deal with mental illness
feel better masterpost
hygiene/beauty masterpost | my make up masterpost | make up masterpost | simple steps for perfect make up | more make up tips | highlighting/contouring
6 ab moves
hair oil benefits
what is your acne telling you? | another useful post about acne
headaches
masterpost for rough times
the sex ed your parents didn’t give you
head to toe self care
blow job tips | compilation of sex tips
limits of the human body
when to change your toothbrush, workouts etc
useful hoe tips | more +
love yourself
“how to make love”
shaving your vagina
foods that fix everything
22 less difficult ways to practise self care
self care wheel
superhero workouts | lose 500 calories at home
bad habits and how to break them
stop biting nails
stop procrastinating
stop skipping breakfast
stretches to improve every aspect of your body
stop cracking knuckles
stop falling asleep late
list of stress relievers
remove a splinter
smoothie masterpost
morning yoga
hair masterpost
self care masterpost
period hacks | alleviate menstrual cramps
sounds to soothe anxiety | another tip | panic attacks | calming down
things to do when you’re scared, anxious | reduce anxiety
self help for anxiety
what to eat before you run
how to get ahead in life
self care infographic
study guide for health (basic first aid, healthy hobbies etc)
a+ self care advice | more lovely advice
coping skills
get rid of negative self talk
feeling sad? | not having a good day? | if anyone is sad | feeling anxious for school? | in case you’re having a bad night | unfuck tomorrow morning
study food
health life hacks
what to do with food poisoning
self talk to end obsessions
self care ideas/tips
what to do with you’re bleeding and don’t have a band aid
why you should drink a lot of water
other cheat sheets
SELF CARE CHEAT SHEET!!
how to treat yourself on a low budget
what to do after a long day
how not to be hard on yourself
staying healthy while studying
need a confidence boost? stand like this
how to deal with mental illness
feel better masterpost
hygiene/beauty masterpost | my make up masterpost | make up masterpost | simple steps for perfect make up | more make up tips | highlighting/contouring
6 ab moves
hair oil benefits
what is your acne telling you? | another useful post about acne
headaches
masterpost for rough times
the sex ed your parents didn’t give you
head to toe self care
blow job tips | compilation of sex tips
limits of the human body
when to change your toothbrush, workouts etc
useful hoe tips | more +
love yourself
“how to make love”
shaving your vagina
foods that fix everything
22 less difficult ways to practise self care
self care wheel
superhero workouts | lose 500 calories at home
bad habits and how to break them
stop biting nails
stop procrastinating
stop skipping breakfast
stretches to improve every aspect of your body
stop cracking knuckles
stop falling asleep late
list of stress relievers
remove a splinter
smoothie masterpost
morning yoga
hair masterpost
self care masterpost
period hacks | alleviate menstrual cramps
sounds to soothe anxiety | another tip | panic attacks | calming down
things to do when you’re scared, anxious | reduce anxiety
self help for anxiety
what to eat before you run
how to get ahead in life
self care infographic
study guide for health (basic first aid, healthy hobbies etc)
a+ self care advice | more lovely advice
coping skills
get rid of negative self talk
feeling sad? | not having a good day? | if anyone is sad | feeling anxious for school? | in case you’re having a bad night | unfuck tomorrow morning
study food
health life hacks
what to do with food poisoning
self talk to end obsessions
self care ideas/tips
what to do with you’re bleeding and don’t have a band aid
why you should drink a lot of water
other cheat sheets
F*ck Him: Nice Girls Always Finish Single
Summary:
A high-value woman knows her way around men, regardless of whether or not she’s good looking.
High-value women repel bad men, or men who won’t bring anything to the table in a relationship.
Men are repelled by the ‘nice girl’ or ‘good girl’ because:
She’s looking for the one, and she thinks she’s found him in her new partner.
She’s led by the belief to accept less than exemplary behavior in hopes that he will one day change (not happening).
She tries to impress him, often overcompensating by being overly nice and appeasing, driven by the belief that she’s not worth enough. It should be the other way around.
Your actions define how valuable you are.
Never seek a man’s approval.
Never let a man call all the shots.
The high-value woman doesn’t play games. She considers herself to be a prize, one he needs to chase after.
High value women have more important things to do than to chase after a man, regardless of whether it’s mundane or not.
Mental fucking:
Two important rules to remember:
Never share your body with him too soon. You will fall in love too hard, and way too soon.
Mentally fuck him as soon as you can: creating a challenge will force him to look past your looks.
First impressions are critical towards cultivating the impression of high value.
If you want him to treat you like a queen, act like a queen right out of the gate.
How to mentally fuck a guy:
Decide what you feel are just feelings, which come and go, rather than falling head over heels for him.
Want a relationship, but not just any relationship. Be happy to stay single for as long as necessary.
Neediness comes from natural instincts.
You never need a man or a relationship.
She consciously wonders, “Is this the best guy to give my time to?”
“If this guy never changed, would I really want to be with him ten or twenty years from now?”
She knows she doesn’t need her looks to get a great guy.
Setting the rules:
After the first date, she doesn’t reach out. She’s busy with her life.
She’ll see when and if she contacts her again. She isn’t willing to spend time on a guy who isn’t putting in the work she deserves.
She never behaves like a bitch. Instead, she has a take it or leave it mentality.
The first couple weeks of interaction set the stage.
Whatever is set is difficult to change later. Create the right habits as soon as you can.
For ambitious men who want success, they work for what they want:
That’s why high-value women are so attractive. Her standards are not an act. It is the only acceptable way.
Three most important traits:
She’s a queen, and she has a lot of self-respect, regardless of what anyone else thinks.
He is not the center of her life.
She never, ever pursues him. If he seems to lose interest, she withdraws. She has better things to do.
Managing men:
Is he playing games?
When he says he’ll call and doesn’t - this places the ball in his court.
Right way to respond: don’t care. Don’t even become fazed when he steps back.
You can find a guy who cares and does better.
Creating distance by disappearing.
Right way to respond: Put energy into your passions, interests, and other men you start dating.
Men who are not sufficiently interested will disappear.
Claiming he’s not ready for a relationship: a phrase used to create space and lead women on.
Right way to respond: Say, “Take all the time you need. I’m not sure about you either.”
Respond with low investment by even lower investment.
Never consider him nor the relationship as important as he does.
Counter-intuitive way of getting him to do what you want:
Give him the feeling it was his own decision. If he comes to the conclusion, he will stand by it.
Reinforce good behavior. Ignore him when he shows bad behavior. Consider him less important.
Ignore him when he doesn’t add value to your life to train him.
If you want a man to do something, ask another man to help you, or tell him you’ll take care of it.
Men are governed by their own egos.
The more you need him, the less he will want you. The more you want him, the more he will need you.
Don’t show him you need him. Have extra activities, so he won’t become the center of your life.
Work on your mental strength. The more you try not to lose him because you need him, the higher the probability he will eventually leave.
Ideal praise to criticism ratio in relationships is 5 to 1.
Avoid getting played:
High-value women are in short supply. Make men earn your attention.
Your emotions are never to be trusted.
Establish a strong set of boundaries.
Self-respect is #1.
Men always treat you the way you allow to. They cannot respect a woman more than she respects herself.
When his attention declines: do the same and withdraw.
A man should never, ever be totally sure that you unconditionally love him. For if he is, he will move on to the next item in his hierarchy of needs.
black women in luxury — moodboard
there’s so much joy in living a private life. looking really pretty and not posting it, going to a new city and not telling anyone, getting a fancy dinner by yourself dressed up.... like it just feels like life.. i feel alive and less preformative
I deleted all social media and I’ve never felt more free
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THE CROW / 1994 / ALEX PROYAS
I love being private and low-key. Always out of the mix, drama free and without fake and toxic people around me. My personal space is beyond crucial, it's sacred. I love being able to reach goals without having others try hijack my progress as they are never aware of what my next move will be. You may know of me, you don't know me.
The bare minimum feels like luxury to people who are used to being mistreated. Don't settle for mediocrity just because you haven't experienced better, better is always an option.
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50 Ways To Practice Self-Care.
Self-love is a spiritual practice! To be happy and feel at peace, take good care of your self.
Zoccai / Naiomi Campbell
People can block your blessings but the most important and powerful person who can block your blessings is yourself. You need to recognize and destroy the spirit of self-doubt, destruction, disorganization, messiness, and lack of self-control! You can not and will not move forward without improving these things within you. Do not let you block your blessing.