MISSION STATEMENT AND FAQ
The Old Guard Femslash Discord, or The Femslash Guard Discord, aims to be a positive female-centric, wlw-centric space to discuss and celebrate The Old Guard’s extraordinary female characters, femslash pairings, actresses, and more! Fandom has a tendency to sideline its female characters, even more so those of color and unfortunately The Old Guard isn’t the exception, which Nile’s relative fandom obscurity, despite her being one of the film’s two female leads, helps to illustrate. This is a dedicated space to build community by uplifting specifically the women of The Old Guard and their platonic, romantic and sexual relationships with each other, while also serving as a space where queer women can and are encouraged to freely and communally express their desire without fear of shame, reproach or disregard.
We invite everyone interested to read our guidelines and expectations before joining the server. Access to the nsfw channels is selectable in the #role-select channel. Don’t enter if you’re under 18, be honest.
Discord is a software used to host chats about various interests. Think of it as a big, fancy, very organized group chat. We chose to host this space on Discord because it is a good space for discussion and has very neat organizational features.
Why did you start this Discord? Aren’t there already some TOG Discord servers?
Often female characters are overlooked in mainstream media, from having none to few, to having them be sexualized or strictly serving another character’s story, usually male. This disregard and relegation inevitably permeates fandom as well and The Old Guard unfortunately hasn’t been the exception, even when it has succeeded in other aspects. It becomes particularly disheartening when you consider that unlike most media, The Old Guard features two amazing female leads, front and center, unsexualized and remarkably well developed, laying the foundation to a third, and was directed by Gina Prince-Bythewood, an amazingly talented black woman who filled the movie with all the heart and respect that made it so remarkable.
Did you perhaps not know about Nile Freeman, a woman of color, being one of the film’s leads before watching? Are you dubious of Charlize Theron’s leading role based off Tumblr? Did you see Ngo Thanh Van for ten whole seconds but can’t get enough of her and want the sequel asap? Maybe you’ve been wondering where all the female and femslash content has gone. Is Tumblr flagging it? Would you perhaps like to know each and every member of the infamous Andramaquynh fam? We felt that not enough space existed for conversation about them all in general TOG spaces, and felt that a hub where everyone who can’t get enough of them can come together was a pretty sweet idea. And we hope you feel the same way!
In short, we wanted to create a positive, well deserved, dedicated space for the extraordinary women of The Old Guard and their relationships.
Can I join if I ship other non-femslash pairings?
Yes! As long as you recognize and respect the female and femslash focus this server has, and direct your talk to the appropriate general channels, we’d be thrilled to have you!
How do I join The Old Guard Femslash Discord? What are the requirements?
We ask that you read and accept the ground rules and expectations. You can join The Femslash Guard Discord by following the link below.
→ https://discord.gg/EZnMwNmXg3 ←
Do I have to identify as wlw, lesbian, bisexual, queer/a certain sexual orientation or certain gender identity to join the Discord?
Nope! As long as you want to talk about these talented, brilliant, incredible, amazing, showstopping, spectacular women we invite you to join! Please understand that the focus of our discussions will be on female characters and their relationships.
I don’t have a Tumblr/feel comfortable messaging the blog. Is there another way for me to join?
Of course, you can send a direct message to any of the mods’ tumblr, or their discord:
thirst-teenth.tumblr.com | mortt#6828
itsme-imhere.tumblr.com | karlie#5605
What can I expect to find on this Discord?
There is, of course, some general The Old Guard talk and actress talk channels. There are separate ones for each major female character (Andy, Nile, and Quynh), as well as individual channels for ships (Andromaquynh, Andy/Nile, Andy/Nile/Quynh, etc). There is also a channel for #thirst (for when you just really need to talk about Charlize Theron’s arms) and for #salt (for when you need vent about all of your fandom frustrations). We’ve got channels for the sweet, sweet fancontent (headcanon, fanfiction, fanart, smut), as well as one for wips and prompts so the beautiful process can be shared and we can all inspire each other. There is a resource channel for historical, visual, writing, language, lore and more references, so we can hopefully all teach, learn from and help one another. Finally, we have a space for other fandoms and personal things.
This is awesome! Are there other TOG femslash related things out there?
There was the recent TOG Femslash Fortnight that ran from October-November, and the Andromaquynh Secret Santa that ran from December 24th, 2020 and January 2nd, 2021.
If you know of any blogs/events/spaces that primarily focus on femslash and female characters for this fandom, let us know!