Kuno's Ramblings

Kuno | 33 | mdni | they/she

[starcatching]

TAEMIN // Coachella 2026 Week 2

[petewentz-]

It's fun being queer and weird and unconventional until you remember you live in a society

[klaus-peter-willi-und-zoe]

xlov were so right when they said "and my heart goes beep beep beep beep beep beep"

[byjove]

Not telling your kid they have a learning disability, chronic illness, mental illness etc. so they can “feel normal” actually does the opposite. They will not feel normal if they do not have the context to understand that their normal will be different from that of their peers.

[byjove]

The amount of times I’ve heard a parent say something like “I’m just not going to tell my son he has ADHD, I want him to feel normal.” HE DOES NOT. HE DOES NOT FEEL NORMAL. HE IS WONDERING WHY HE IS STRUGGLING AND COMING TO THE CONCLUSION HE IS AN IRREDEEMABLE FAILURE.

[honeydewtual]

XLOV 2ND MINI ALBUM [I,God] CONCEPT PHOTO 3&4

[honeydewtual]

XLOV 2ND MINI ALBUM [I,God] CONCEPT PHOTO 3

[honeydewtual]

XLOV 2ND MINI ALBUM [I,God] CONCEPT PHOTO 4

[inbabylontheywept]

People are so much more sad, and desparate, and lonely than you think. I have had three incidents in the last four months were a technician I was working with was being either dangerously unfocused (we work with high voltage), or just flat out angry with their coworkers, and every time when I just pulled them aside to say hey, this isn't you, you're nice, and you're competent, so something must be up - what can I do to help - they have responded by bursting into tears. One guy was struggling to get his wife moved into a care home, one guy just got served divorce papers, and the other hadn't slept a wink the night before because his daughter had the pukes.

I haven't spent my whole life responding to people being rude, or stupid, or dangerous with knee jerk compassion. It's a new habit. The first time I did that as the lead for my lab, it was because the guy genuinely was so good natured that I knew something had to be off. But the other two times were just me going, alright, lets see if it always goes this well, and so far, it has. I'm almost 30, and I just figured out that the #1 reason people are shitty are because they are going through shit.

I don't think you have, like, a moral obligation to respond to people being jerks with knee jerk compassion. But it has made my life so much easier the last four months that I would recommend trying. For your own sake. Please.

(I'll step off my soapbox now. Enjoy your Sunday.)

[anarchopuppy]

practice soft skills. shit is going to keep getting worse for a good while before it starts getting better. we need to be making an active effort to show ppl grace and kindness and understanding now, bc were all going thru it, and maintaining community is only gonna get more and more important from here on out. this isnt optional, its a survival skill

[xlovteez]

WUMUTI [I,God] Highlight Medley

[jjoongdeongi]

XLOV 2ND MINI ALBUM [I,God]

CONCEPT PHOTO 1 - #HARU

♟️ 2026.05.27(WED) 6PM (KST)

[jjoongdeongi]

XLOV 2ND MINI ALBUM [I,God]

CONCEPT PHOTO 1 - #HYUN

♟️ 2026.05.27(WED) 6PM (KST)

[jjoongdeongi]

XLOV 2ND MINI ALBUM [I,God]

CONCEPT PHOTO 1 - #RUI

♟️ 2026.05.27(WED) 6PM (KST)

[jjoongdeongi]

XLOV 2ND MINI ALBUM [I,God]

CONCEPT PHOTO 1 - #WUMUTI

♟️ 2026.05.27(WED) 6PM (KST)

[lifeinasmalltowninjapan]

梶 芽衣子

🎥 修羅雪姫 (1973)

[asksloyxp]

Maybe if I just work harder, this empty cup will pour again

[xlovteez]

XLOV 法則:THE RULES Trailer

[graceebooks]

when people tell you not to care what other people think, you hear “some people are always going to dislike you for who you are,” but what you actually need to be hearing is literally “you have to learn non-attachment to the concept of other people even understanding who you are at all” which is like… just so deeply much harder to accept