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Iām going to have to put a dni
On 18+ blogs and sexual blogs of any kind and any k!nks DNI
can my lovely followers kindly find me posibly one of those poster pics of the dni
Honestly I thought it was obvious when I said donāt sexualize my blog.. but i geuss not
Sometimes I see actual kids, often are barely old enough to be allowed to have a tumblr account (and sometimes not even that), make posts about wanting to be a cg and wanting a little to take care of. And I just want to shake them and tell them that for the love of all that is holy on this wretched earth to not fucking do this! You are a literal child, you should not be taking care of another human beeing! Especially not someone who is older than you, who likely has some baggage, who maybe is in a really bad spot mentally. You are a child yourself.
I say this as someone who was both parentified and let everyone vent to them, no matter how heavy the topic, as a teen: Donāt fucking do this if you havenāt allready saved up for therapy in a few years. You are welcome to hang out here, be friends with people, maybe be someones agere/agedre-sibling, idk play house with people. But please, please donāt be be someones serious caregiver. Go be a child first.
Also a lot of these posts contain so much personal information. Why am I, a random adult on the internet you do not know, able to learn so much sensitive information about you, a literal child? Stop that. Do not post personal information online
Please stay safe
have not posted in years but please share this if you see this. teach internet safety. generation after generation it has to be learned this time around.
āif you canāt brush your teeth thatās fine uwu one step at a timeā posts are supportive and thatās great but Iām about to have a 4.4k$ dental bill because I wasnāt taking care of my teeth when I was super depressed so uhh brush your fuckin teeth
the reason I bring up those posts is because every time I saw one I felt less and less bad about not brushing them and when my teeth actually started causing problems it made my MH worse because I was having horrible anxiety about my teeth getting worse and now Iām facing procedures that will probably be pretty painful and will definitely be expensive so I kinda got some beef with the anti-recovery culture on this site
colgate makes some pretty cool little waterless disposable toothbrushes that are good to keep beside your bed or somewhere else accessible for days when brushing your teeth feels like a monumental task. theyāre like $5 for a pack of 24 on amazon and i know theyāre available at drug stores as well. they look like this.
i have pretty intense depressive episodes + emetophobia that is sometimes triggered by brushing my teeth so i get that it can be difficult but the OP of this post is right. dental health is really important and even using a disposable toothbrush is better than nothing!
Been in and out of partials and hospitalizations Iām sorry I havenāt made a post in a while Iām going through stuff
Thanks
Thank you, tumblr readers, for all your comments, likes, reblogs, and overall awesomeness this year. Itās been amazing to see the publication of my first book, first calendar, and many other exciting projects. Iām thankful I get to make comics. And most of all, Iām thankful people all over the world can read and enjoy them.
I reblogged this last month, tagged it, and said āmight as well see if it works.ā I used this video as a reference to find all the forms that i needed (which is A LOT, especially if youāre a dependent) and sent them through the mail, not really allowing myself to hope.
dude.
$2,714 of medical debt from my top surgery - gone. im shaking this was such a weight on me for 2 years and it fucking worked. what the fuck.
You donāt need your ED to be interesting,
The stories you have to tell of an amazing and free recovered life will be far more entertaining for your grandkids.
You donāt need your ED to be accepted,
Somewhere out there ARE your people, and even if theyāre not, you have been your own person all along
You donāt need your ED to be happy,
Nothing in life could ever possibly bring you true and real happiness when you are stuck in your ED, you know it, I know it, life is so golden and EDs make it so grey.
You donāt need your ED to be in control,
You are not in control, if you were you wouldnāt be where you are now. If you were you would eat whatever you wanted whenever you wanted without fear or guilt. Recovery will give you the control you crave.
You donāt need your ED to be loved,
Your ED is not what people love about you, in fact, itās is probably the cause of some people falling out of love with you. People love your laugh, your jokes, your heart and the way you care for others. People love YOU and not your illness.
And finally, you donāt need your ED to cope.
There are so many healthy coping mechanisms that work. There are so many better ways to handle than your ED. There are so many things that will make your life BETTER instead of worse, make you feel ALIVE instead of on the brink of death.
YOU DONT NEED YOUR ED.
we're in the snowstorm in TX. our power has been out since Feb 15 2am, water shut off Feb 16. we're with 6 other people at the moment: 3 different families and 5 pets. pets have food but our fish might die. my partner and i are both multiply disabled--both mobility impaired, they are immunocompromised and i have a heart condition. our neighbor who is here needs electricity for medical devices. so we can't be without electricity / food for long periods of time or go to packed shelters
we need enough food to feed all 6 of us while we're here for possibly the whole week, food to replenish our freezer/fridge after this, gas for the car, a coat for my service dog, and possibly a power bank of some sort if we can find one somewhere
v*nmo: beenary
c*shapp: beenary
if youāre a mentally ill adult, especially if youāre psychotic or have bipolar, i highly recommend you look into getting a psychiatric advance directive. basically theyāre a form you can fill out where you can specify what kind of treatment you want and donāt want in the case that you ever get legally declared incompetent. normally, getting declared incompetent means that psychiatrists take away your right to make decisions about your mental health care. for example, they can force you to take medications you donāt want or institutionalize you longterm without your consent. also the state appoints someone they choose to legallyĀ āconsentā in your place.
what a psychiatric advance directive does is put limits on what the psychiatrists assigned to you can do. you can appoint your own person to be your legal representative, someone you trust who knows you and cares about you. you can also specify what hospitals you donāt want to be sent to or what doctors you donāt want to see or medications you donāt want to take or whether or not you consent to electroconvulsive treatment. you can also say what you do want, like i put down that they decided to institutionalize me, i wanted it to be at a specific psych ward iād already been to and had a not terrible time at. and now, if i ever get declared incompetent, psychiatrists are legally not allowed to put me back on the meds that gave me a seizure.Ā
nobody wants to be legally declared incompetent. itās really scary to think about, but it does happen, especially to people with psychosis or bipolar disorder. itās better to have legal safeguards in place ahead of time and not need them than to get declared incompetent and not have an advance directive
Hi! Iāve yet to see someone give a full honest review, so hereās my full review on the Fiddle Stick fidget toy from Ellusionist! The fidget looks like this:
It comes in 3 colours; blue, pink, and black. There are a lot of functions on this toy so Iāll review each part one by one! Here we go...
Joystick: 10/10
I really like the feel of this joystick. The design allows it to spin on its own and also be pressed in, which I love. The stick design of the fidget makes using this really satisfying!
Dot Matrix: 10/10
Looove this! Itās just enough tactile feedback for my dermatillomania self, and the perfect soft-touch texture with the right amount of resistance.
Switch: 7/10
I like how clicky it is! It can also be balanced in the middle and pressed down for a silent button. It is a little stiff however, and takes some effort to press. Itās also rather small.
Buttons: 8/10
Also very clicky, which I love. However, there is no option for silent buttons, all make noise, and itās fairly noisy. I love pressing all of them at the same time, so satisfying!
Slider: 6/10
It feels a little too long for comfort, and the tension isnāt consistent throughout. I love the soothing motion it allows!
Ball: 6/10
Doesnāt click in sadly. But itās very sturdy and overall nice to roll.
Worry Stone: 3/10
I donāt find myself going for this often. Itās not very satisfying to run a finger over, but then again Iām not a worry stone person.
Gears: 1/10
These are so stiff, and hurt to turn when they finally do. Really not good.
Loop: 8/10
Such a unique idea! Mimics the feeling of flipping car keys. Can fly off your finger fairly easily, however.
Overall, Iād really recommend this fidget! It helped me get through many classes online!
where did you get it??; edit i just saw where it came from sorry feel silly
No matter how small! š±
- You are allowed to celebrate even your small successes.
Reblig what small achievements u have made
I bought a pdf textbook and had Microsoft edge reading it to me 1.5 hours
Went in the store and bought things I needed/wanted
I went in the store by myself and bought food even though it wasnāt the healthiest becouse thatās okay if everything isnāt made of vegetables and fruit. It was nice to have a fruit by the foot to fufil ur Inner : toddler/child/teenager
THINGS THAT CAN BE TRUE AT THE SAME TIME:
* Your parents did the best they could, AND their choices wounded you.
* You love someone AND you know itās not healthy to keep them in your life.
* Youāre terrified to take the next step AND you know itās the right thing to do.
* You want to have healthy relationships AND unresolved trauma is making it difficult.
* Youāre afraid to fail AND you believe in yourself.
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transwomen donation masterlist
aka for every transphobe i had to interact with i found a link to help donate to trans women. you can definitely send me more because i bet im gonna need more.
trans women of color collective
homeless black transwomenĀ
black transwoman transition fund
help a transwoman escape yemen
save the gully queens of jamaica
memorial fund for bree black
transwoman of color seeking housing
memorial fund for chyna gibson
black transwoman gender affirmation fund
transition fund
medical funds (tw: r*pe)
poc transwoman transition fund
transition fundĀ
support trans asylum seekersĀ (usage of q***r)
major surgery transitional fund
medical support (diabetic coma)
transitional funds
trans pride march
hrt fundraiser
reentry fund (help with housing, clothing, etc)
transitional surgery
transition fund
memorial fund for lisa brykĀ (tw s*icide mention in description)
transitional fund
bottom surgery fund
help two transwomen get on their feet
supports transwomen of color in legal system (and reentry)
help a transwoman escape a bad household
support a transwoman after being attacked
help for medical treatments + better living
