The Orange Blossom

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[therealorangeblossom]

Femme Looking for Friends

Hi! I'm looking for femme/butch/stud friends in the community. The requirements are:

Must be 21 +

Prefer Black/POC/Indigenous Lesbians

People who identify as femme/stud/butch

Uses stone identities

No TERFS/ racist/swefers (aka anti-sex work)/ radfems/ Zionist (I’m Jewish but I don’t play that shit!) or assholes to society (I don't play that shit either!)

My DM's are open as I want to have conversations to make a community as the only femme/butches in my community are older and I live in a small-ish town.

[butch-ramblings]

when i say "him", i mean a transmasc lesbian/stud/butch or he/him lesbian. NEVER A CISHET MAN!!!!!

[onnightshift]

i dislike the whole “horror is so back” narrative people are throwing around recently with obsession and backrooms. both are great movies, but horror was also so back with the long walk. and sinners. and the substance. and nosferatu. and literally anything directed by jordan peele. horror as a genre will always have its flops. but there will always be those few that revive the hype.

[fluoresensitives]

Young m.a turning out to be another misogynistic stud is so. what happened to chivalry? What happened to gallantry and love of women, specifically in the context of Black high femmes and studs? By God, who gon be the studs

[blackxlesbianism]

Genuinely made me sad asf. I saw a vid saying she doesn’t understand or at least accept who her audience is because her concerts are filled with studs and femme lesbians. Despite this she’s stuck on appealing to cishet men who most likely don’t gaf about her or her music…

[undue-traveler]

@blackxlesbianism if you still remember the video could you share it please?

[undue-traveler]

For the others that were curious! Thanks again @blackxlesbianism

[therealorangeblossom]

I am not surprised that she turned out this way. As a black lesbian, I use to hear other rumors about how she mistreats her girlfriends. Unfortunately, many studs and black butches in the Black lesbian/sapphic communities reflect the misogynistic issues we have in the Black community as a whole. I had to block many of my own community members on Instagram weeks ago for down playing abuse in lesbian relationships and for saying that "pillow princesses ain't real lesbians" or how they could "turn out touch me nots". I keep saying simply being a Black lesbian or sapphic does not mean that internal work of ones own bias stops. We all have unlearning to do even if we are part of a oppressed group.

[sinizade]

Wonder Woman ⭐

[welcometothehole]

this trend of shitting on peer-reviewed academic studies in favor of tweeting “we already knew this was happening” is so soul-crushing. not to be an elitist cunt, but we have got to open the schools again. people genuinely seem to have forgotten that their personal lived experience isn’t indicative of the larger population, AND IF IT IS…… then you need researchers to support these assertions from a relevant data pool instead of a blog post from 2013 💀

[godlessondheimite]

historical fiction gets made fun of a lot for the abundant, seemingly random cameos of famous figures but when you read historical non-fiction, you realize that everyone in the past did, in fact, know each other because there were only 12 people in the entire world

[liquidstar]

"only 90s kids remember-" wrong, if you're poor and/or rural enough, old tech and fashion doesn't just disappear when it stops being trendy. We had dial-up until 2012

[mortalityplays]

remember like 15 years ago when black bloggers were talking about this exact shit, 'digital blackface', white internet users appropriating images and clips of black people and using them as cartoonish exaggerated expressions of absurdity or high emotion. straight line from minstrelsy to your reaction gifs and nobody fucking cares any more. white people just decided not to acknowledge it and it went away, just like every other time black users have ever tried to criticise any aspect of online culture.

[pinketine]

When the topic becomes about racism between children you very quickly realise children of colour aren't seen as children but as some other thing that should just take the abuse and then forgive the Real White Children because they didn't know better. They don't understand it but children of colour can and will very early in their youth.

[dickgraysonmyrobin]

the lack of reaction about readcomiconline's death is the true indicator of how many people just do not read comics but participate in the comics fandom

[dickgraysonmyrobin]

my dead wife... i will never delete you...

[dickgraysonmyrobin]

[therealorangeblossom]

This is how I find out that my main comic website is GONE!!!! I just finished my fifth grad semester, which meant more time for reading and this is how i find out!

[pinkcarabiner]

being openly stone4stone is so fucking frustrating because why do non-butchfemme sapphics act entitled to every detail about my sex life

[wings-of-angels]

How it feels to be a hater but u only hate in private with ur best friend so it hurts nobody

[motherwife]

i wont hatepost but sometimes it does feel like this to scroll fandom tags

[chivalry-is-butch]

Stone top butches are not heteronormative you fucking loser

[pinayelf]

i'm corny and love a sapphic knight x princess but my biggest turn off from so much of the art is the woc/darker skinned woman is always the knight

[therealorangeblossom]

I notice this all the time but I thought maybe I was trippin until it kept happening. I started to check profiles to see that the artist is always white/nonblack poc.

Damn, I keep forgetting that anti blackness and/or black lesbians/sapphics will always be on the bottom of the barrel when it comes to being fem/femme or always the “dominant” role.

[lilcowzia]

why is it that ppl hear "fetish" and immediately think "devoid of morals" like ur genuinely not making sense. ppl dont actually become inhuman and beast-like when theyre turned on, thats something we are told bc it aligns with christian patriarcal values, u know that right? desire isnt actually bad. it doesnt make you evil, or incapable of having/respecting boundaries

[lilcowzia]

i got a response to this abt how men get horny and "lose their minds" and "causes" them to behave vile. i rlly rlly neeeeed ppl to understand that men behaving inappropriately when turned on is something they are *choosing* to do, and when you equate that to human nature you are enabling them and diminishing the seriousness of that choice