The Royal Element

       Someone who doesn't have a boyfriend                                                        "Everything not saved will be lost." -Nintendo 'Quit Screen' message.

[tonysopranobignaturals-deactiva]

warning for discussion of self harm, kink, and toxic relationships

saw this tiktok where a guy talked about a sugar baby he knew who allowed one of her sugar daddies to watch her cut the inside of her legs because his kink was "watching girls bleed". said guy making the tiktok was concerned and simply warned people to be careful with boundaries in these sorts of relationships. totally understandable. anyway, a bunch of comments on the tiktok were like "um that's called knife play and it's just a kink, he's not abusing her", and this terrifying logic really makes my blood boil. you don't know the girl who did this. you don't know what sort of pressure she may have faced, especially if she's struggling financially and got used to relying on these sadistic weirdos for money. you have to remember that in a sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship there is a FINANCIAL INCENTIVE, aka what fucks all of us over under capitalism. this means people will do what would normally make them uncomfortable for money--and slowly, they get used to the pain and see it as necessary.

i'm posting this because I had a short sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship years ago and it ended in the guy being a manipulative stalker. luckily i'm a chad with low empathy so he couldn't guilt me and I just blocked him, but for a lot of other people that would never happen, especially if you feel you still owe the person because they've given you money before. also from my experiences - if you want to do this shit I recommend you be casual about it and don't get into a deeper relationship and cut off contact if the person's demands are starting to get out of your comfort zone and you're unable to stop them even when voicing your discomfort. idc if anyone following me thinks sugar daddy/sugar daddy relationships are morally wrong or whatever; people will get in these relationships regardless especially with more opportunities online so might as well provide advice for those who do.

tl;dr you don't know what's going on in someone's life and sugar daddy/sugar baby relationships are not as easy and glamorous as you assume. this can be hard to figure out when so many influencers glorify the lifestyle without stating any possible concerns or giving advice to stay safe.

people can reblog this post because I wish everyone knew the truth.

[micdotcom]

Do this four times repeatedly and you’ll be out. But how does it work? There’s some real brain science behind it.

[discoverynews]

We’re trying this tonight!

[askragtatter]

It’s about time someone got around to uncovering all the cheat codes for this “human being” software. It’s only been out for like 10,000 years.

[queenofsabah]

?????????????

[potatogestapo]

I’ve used this technique for about a year, and I can safely say that it has efficiently transformed my sleeping habits from several hours of struggle to fall asleep, to passing out in a matter of minutes.

[rewritethis-story]

It’s a form of Alexander Technique. It’s a technique that was designed for actors to keep their body in ready working condition and give it the best way to perform. This is the method used to calm, and center the body. Once the body is at that point it can perform anything you want it to.

[queensimia-deactivated20181215]

Reblogging for later reference after I tried it earlier today to try to calm down. It actually does help a lot, not just for sleep but if you have problems with anxiety.

My default mental setting is “vibrating intensely in the background.” After doing this, I felt noticeably calm and relaxed - I wasn’t as fixated on my breathing, I wasn’t tense, my movements weren’t jerky and I didn’t feel like I had to be as tense as possible to be under control. 10/10 would recommend.

[orikomi-deactivated20181216]

me gonna try it

[aconitvms-deactivated20171225]

dont wanna reblog but insomnia is a bitch for some ppl so heres for my mutuals having trouble sleeping.

[theroyalelement]

gonna do this tonight

[lesbianisopod-moved]

how come goyim will make 30k note posts about why not to use antisemitic memes but ignore the SEVERAL hate crimes that have been committed since chanukah started

[lesbianisopod-moved]

for those who don't know

dec 8: an anne frank memorial in the united states is tagged with nazi imagery, including the hooked cross

dec 13: a member of a jewish community center is hospitalized after being attacked

dec 15: a hebrew elementary schools website is hijacked and text is replaced with violent antisemitism

[lesbianisopod-moved]

non jewish people are encouraged to reblog

[theroyalelement]

What in the actual hell is going on with you, America? 

[illinicoise]

“But if you forget to reblog Madame Zeroni, you and your family will be cursed for always and eternity.”

[theroyalelement]

You guys better reblog

[theroyalelement]

I wanna dance but there are really cute guys outside and I don’t want to look like an idiot.

TheRoyalElement 

#thesocialinjusticeofsomepeople 

#pleasegoawaysoicandance

#oneofthemisprobablymyage

(via theroyalelement)

Edit: It’s okay guys, they’re gone now. 

[bewareofchickens-deactivated202]

[theroyalelement]

They give us eggs :) Humans just give us grief.

[the-memedaddy]

meirl

[theroyalelement]

As an introvert I can agree with this.

[pwesident]

[theroyalelement]

Where is this?

[theroyalelement]

I  wanna dance but there are really cute guys outside and I don't want to look like an idiot.

TheRoyalElement 

#thesocialinjusticeofsomepeople 

#pleasegoawaysoicandance

#oneofthemisprobablymyage

[blackness-by-your-side]

WORD.

[swagintherain]

he does the job no one wants to do and then will be told that he’s stealing it.

[motherofpalms-deactivated202003]

The driscolls boycott is still goin on And here are ways you can help farmworkers

Donate to food chain workers alliance https://t.co/okIpzNoyEv

Donate to United farm workers https://t.co/HwgXdH4l7w

Donate to farmworker justice https://t.co/O14KKMg7KE

Donate/give supplies to migrant Farmworkers Assistance Fund https://t.co/ePbmNBVLMP

Donate to center for Farmworker families https://t.co/IReMpiEaq1

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Donate to brandworkers https://t.co/NhTNsUrbBw

Donate to CIW https://t.co/uH5bUUGqwg

Keep in mind that Publix and Wendy’s refuse to join the fair food program

[hitthisandjustchill]

Reblogging again for the links

[kateywumpus]

Yeah. I was about to say. He’s that fast because he’s being paid by the pound, not by the hour. So he has to or else he won’t be able to make enough money to put food on the table.

[theroyalelement]

Reblogging because this needs to get out ^^^^

[theroyalelement]

Children, please send me your bones.

[kylos]

V FOR VENDETTA (2005) dir. James McTeigue

[afriblaq]

[salty-red-mage]

[theroyalelement]

James McTeigue is either a time traveller or can see into the future.

[3dspenguin]

[unclefather]

“who ARE you” 

[theroyalelement]

Ahhhhhhh?

[decaffeinatedandbroke]

how i would have written the harry potter series:

(jk was too much of a coward but im not)

- harry would be bisexual and half middle eastern from his dad's side

- hermione would be black

- slytherin wouldn't be condemned as the "evil" house & hufflepuff and ravenclaw wouldnt be the irrelevant houses

- fred, george and percy weasley would be in slytherin

- dean and seamus, parvati and lavender, ginny and luna would be canon in the end of the series

- also hermione would be dating fred and ron would be dating padma

( fred wouldn't have died because i don't want him to period )

- snape wouldn't have a "redemption arc", while draco would have one plus character development by helping the golden trio in the end and facing his family

- there'd also be more focus on regulus black's story and how he was a hero in the end, somewhat parallel to draco's arc and he'd be acknowledged as the true slytherin hero

- platonic scenes of harry and ginny

- more scenes with remus and harry

- also luna would be a trans girl (we don't fuck with terfs in this household joanne)

- there would be strong friendships between the female characters, none of joanne's internalized misogyny

- harry would name his second son cedric rubeus potter bc we don't appreciate abusers <33 ( oh and neville would be the godfather )

[theroyalelement]

Yes, please rewrite. :) You’d probably do a better job @kyoshisukiz​

[whitepeopletwitter]

[scar-and-boomerang]

Sokka, writing the poster looking for Appa: to the theif who stole the Avatar’s sky bison—

Katara: it’s thief.

Sokka: pretty sure it’s theif.

Aang: i before e, except after c.

Sokka: oh okay, i’ll fix it then.

(Later)

Zuko, reading a poster he picked up from the streets of Ba Sing Se: what the fuck is a thceif—

[siriuslylovingyou]

remus: i’m sad.

sirius: don’t be sad. because sad backwards is das

sirius: and das not good