life would be better as a dog on a nice farm.

I'm Tom and here's some shit that I'm sharing with you

[lollibeepop]

Love Yourself (even if sometimes others have to do it for you)

[franziska-after-success]

It’s not a good thing to try and force someone not to use a healthy coping mechanism. There’s nothing inherently wrong with self-deprecation.

[fernacular]

There is, there very much is. 

Self-deprecation isn’t a healthy coping mechanism. Coping mechanism? Yes. Healthy? Absolutely not. Saying bad things about yourself seems harmless or even good in the moment but if you do it enough you will reinforce negative beliefs about yourself and the world around you. Say “I’m the worst” enough times and you will believe you’re the worst. Say “everything sucks I should just die lol” enough times and you will come to believe that too. 

I’m not pulling this shit out of my ass either, by the way, this is coming direct from when i was an outpatient at a psychiatric hospital, way back when i did this EXACT THING CONSTANTLY and ended up suicidal. This is what I was taught there, and this is how I dragged myself out.

The best way to combat this (very unhealthy) coping mechanism is really just to force yourself to say good things about yourself, and shut down the bad ones. It feels stupid, it feels like you’re lying, it feels like it will never work. But over time, if you keep at it, and with the help of friends, the new words will replace the old ones.  If you replace “i’m terrible” with “I’ve made a mistake, but that doesn’t make me a bad person” that is what you will come to believe, and make it 1000% easier to actually fix the problem because you won’t be bogged down with self-hatred. 

It’s annoying, and aggravating, and you don’t want to do it because self-deprecation is how you’ve coped for so long, but I promise you it’s not healthy and will make everything worse in the long term. 

[plot-twost]

I am gonna start sending this to myself and my friends once a week as a reminder that *this shit matters*

[santiagogarcia]

Tigger was the “holding” cat, the one Llewyn carries everywhere. Jerry was the “action” cat because he proved adept at “patterning” — a series of behaviors rewarded with a treat, like chicken. And Daryl was “the laid-back dude who could be put in hairier situations,” says animal trainer Dawn Barkan. So that’s Jerry in the more sedate subway scenes, and Daryl whenever the subway stations and cars are overcrowded. At one point, Barkan says, even the usually chill Daryl got spooked by the noise, and clipped Oscar Isaac in the face. “For weeks, I said it wasn’t a good idea to shoot in a live subway station. An actor getting scratched, I don’t ever want that to happen. But he [Oscar] was very kind about it.” OSCAR ISAAC with TIGGER, DARYL, and JERRY INSIDE LLEWYN DAVIS (2013) dir. the Coen Brothers

[worthikids]

Palpatine’s Journey

[gunsandfireandshit]

According to the review I just read this video offers more of an explanation for why Palatine is still alive than the new movie does lmao

[ssalmonn]

the way he turns into a polygonal 3D object as he falls is fucking poetic cinema

[sussura]

Every time I watch this I break out into giggles it’s just so funny idk even how to explain it but the animation and the dialogue and everything it gets me every time I love this

[hilarioushumorfromouterspace]

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

fun fact! the producer of shrek based Lord Farquaad on his evil former boss, the CEO of disney, Michael Eisner. They even look the fucking same

in real life Eisner is pretty tall. on the other hand, the shrek producer, Jeffrey Katzenberg, is quite short . Eisner, being an asshole, once infamously said of Katenzberg, “I think I hate that little midget.” 

so 5′0″ Katzenberg went and turned his asshole boss into a little person named Lord Fuckwad

yeah

[suburbanlifedecay]

[ithelpstodream]

I want to use this post to clear something up. When I talk about toxic masculinity it always causes a big backlash, and I’ve noticed it’s mainly because men don’t know what it means. When I say I hate toxic masculinity, I do not mean that I hate that you’re a man or that I hate masculinity.

Toxic masculinity is THIS. Toxic masculinity is when men reinforce the idea that men should suppress and ignore softer displays of emotions that are associated with women. Toxic masculinity is reinforcing the fear of physical affection between men because it makes them appear too feminine or even ‘homosexual’.

It has to stop. Let men cry. Let men hold each other. Stop perceiving things that are ‘feminine’ as weak because outing your emotions is not weakness, it’s strength.

[dcjokerhs]

This dad is the Hero we Need.

[arry-the-sleep-deprived-joke]

Reblog this!!!!

[jenlizrose]

All these people clearly are salty that their dad wouldn’t do this for them💀💀💀

[astriiformes]

Frodo may be Bilbo’s actual adopted nephew, but Merry and Pippin are his younger cousins, and Sam is his old gardener’s son whose family he clearly has a soft spot for and who he taught to read and write, and Gimli is the son of one of his old adventuring friends, and Legolas is, similarly, the son of the Elvenking who named him an elf-friend, and we know Aragorn is canonically his friend as well, who he very possibly could have met as a small child in Rivendell when he passed through, so really, like 7/9 members of the Fellowship are people he can employ weird elderly relative (or the honorary equivalent thereof) energy on if he wants to and I think that’s very powerful.

[penny-anna]

the fellowship is 7 people who Bilbo Baggins can employ weird elderly relative energy onto PLUS 1 person who can employ weird elderly relative energy onto Bilbo Baggins PLUS Boromir.

[cunked]

[thelxiepia]

[memeuplift]

[theoreocat]

What are your pet’s favourite places?

[ruby-white-rabbit]

Pudding does not wish to be seen but wishes to remain warm

[mutantrenegade]

the way she talks like this is a childrens book is kinda giving me life

[tiktoks-for-dead-pope]

[official-lucifers-child]

this gave me an ungodly amount of serotonin and i have never even watched phineas and ferb

[everythingfox]

This is the happiest dog i’ve ever seen

[mirdania]

there is not a single role chris pratt does that jack black couldn’t do better

[assiraphales]

at the people saying jack black couldn’t play star lord: why? no really, go ahead and tell me. I think I know the answer but I want to hear you say it.

[valarie-lynn]

Everyone on the notes has galaxy brain energy

[pondnaravit]

[ghostalservice]

This is Kimberly Jones, awesome activist and author!! Check out the full video here, find her on twitter here, and buy her book here. Take her words to heart, and more importantly, support her work!!

[everythingfox]

The swarm approaches

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[jemaine]

this man won an oscar for screenwriting and it shows

[rastraea]

I imagine this is how Joss Whedon sounds when he writes

[filiasyth]

[Video description: a short clip of Taika Waititi seated at a desk, typing furiously on his computer, mock-writing a screenplay. The camera gradually zooms in on him.]

Transcript:

Waititi: (loudly clacking on keyboard) Exterior… yep.

Interior, law firm, LA. (puts on a playfully obnoxious tone) “She walks in like a badass. She’s strong, independent, yet also sensitive, like a strong independent sensitive flower that’s been dipped in concrete and has got spikes all over it – sexy, but doesn’t know it.” (he sticks out his tongue.)

end transcript.

[everythingfox]

God I wish that were me

[everythingfox]

best boy

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