Elementary My Dear Mutual

She/they

[novahazard24]

get your medals everyone

[helpmemiku]

No one even try to fucking pretend jk Rowling is feminist anymore like if EVERYTHING that’d happen up to this point wasn’t enough for you she has now actively engaged in sexual harassment of a trans women using ‘[she] was enjoying it’ as an excuse. It’s absolutely fucking vile and there’s no possible justification of it not in a million years

[iamthelowercase]

Hello, tumblr! I saw something on here the other day that worried me, so I decided to Do Science about it. But I can't do it alone: I need your help to build the dataset!

Here's what I need you to do:

If you see a post with a "mature content" label, and it's 2026, DM me a link to the post.

Yes, that's really it.

I am hoping to collect several thousand such posts, so that I have a decent sized dataset. I do not care what the post is about; if it's labeled as "mature content", I want to add it to my dataset.

If I get 10,000 posts in my dataset before August 31st 2026, I will post my preliminary findings then. I won't feel comfortable calling my findings "settled" before 2027, unless I get over 50,000 posts.

[antsb]

Awwww I love Mariana so much

[tlirsgender]

They don't tell you this but besides the Beloved Mutual there's also the Longterm Follower who you don't follow back but they're always in your notes and you're kind of watching them. Checking on the longterm follower's bio every so often like turning over a log. She's trans now good for her

[tlirsgender]

Longterm followers I am putting fresh leaves and hrt in your enclosure

[lgbtqiatext]

[betterisbest]

[malibuklaus]

[malibuklaus]

idek what this says i just pressed post immediately after seeing the word 'blessica'

[shower-thoughts-last-responder]

Blessica Blimpson

[shower-thoughts-last-responder]

I can't believe this was my 2000th response. It wasn't bad, but that's far from my finest work dammit

[serregon]

I know we make jokes about the proverbial asexual pervert who has written hundreds of thousands of words of smut on ao3, but also shoutout to the aces who aren’t perverts. to the aces who skip the sex scenes and wince at sex jokes and awkwardly leave the conversation when your friends start talking about sex. your boundaries aren’t childish and fuck anyone who says otherwise.

[anunreliablewriter]

Oh boy I love seeing people acknowledge that the aro/ace spectrum is, indeed, a spectrum! I can't wait to see how fandom shows different characters differently experiencing--oh they're all favorable? they're all kissing someone? they're all in love? there's no one ambivalent, or repulsed, or single? they all just. like dating and sex? with no exception? really?

[aro-ace-culture-is]

aroace culture is whatever the aro/ace person feels or has opinions on. we are not a hive mind yall

That's why I love running this blog so much. I'm always so glad for all of the submissions, even the ones I don't end up posting. I really love getting to hear about the wide variety of aroace experiences, and I hope it's been as good for all of y'all as it has been for me!

Sorry to yap like this, I just appreciate everyone who takes the time to submit ANYTHING so, so much. <2

[loredwy]

I cant believe this tweet is how I find out

[would-you-punt-them]

now all the things you guys have told me about american high schools are starting to make sense

[jeaninelatragedia]

holy shit.

[frustratedasatruar]

You're not really supposed to say it this way, because its considered crass, but here in the US children are culturally and legally considered essentially the property of their parents.

Note that its considered more crass to point this out than it is to treat children as property in the first place.

[beatriz-lioness]

It reminds me of the time a Brazilian TV show gave Michael Jackson's father our statute. Now I'm even more shocked, what do you mean they don't have rights??

[thepumpkinofpower]

:)

[10blue10]

Are you asexual and do you own a waffle maker?

I am asexual and don’t own a waffle maker

I am asexual and do own a waffle maker

I am not asexual and don’t own a waffle maker

I am not asexual and do own a waffle maker

Remaining time: 6 days 6 hours

This poll was inspired by the previously reblogged post (OP @teaboot) It is objectively silly but I want to see what, if any, correlation there is between being asexual and owning or not owning a waffle maker. And I’m not saying being asexual is why I don’t have a waffle maker, correlation isn’t causation, blah, blah, but also, this is funny.

[this-is-trans-joy]

I’m in the middle of writing a novel (name as yet undecided) and I am planning on publishing it at some point so I’m just here to say right now as the author my main character is aromantic allosexual and I expect to see that respected 🫵 if you have to ship him with someone you gotta get creative and not erase his aromantic identity okay do you promise. can you do that for me. it’ll be fun okay you’ll love it

[this-is-trans-joy]

like ideally he wouldn’t be shipped with anyone because that’s a big part of his character but death of the author and all that i guess so all i ask is for my audience to just explore how his sexuality would impact his relationships and how those dynamics would looks please thank you i love you

[this-is-trans-joy]

he’s also trans so i’m very excited to see all the fanart hehehe :3

[this-is-aromantic-joy]

woahg aroallo rep…

[this-is-aromantic-joy]

Aromantic joy is send "i'm aro-ace" to your best friend and they tell you "cool ! I'm happy for you !" Instead of all those arophobique shit

this is aromantic joy!

[cosmichroma]

Aromantic flag made from cropped NASA APOD images! 💚 ✳ ☁️ 🌑 🖤

[this-is-aromantic-joy]

this is aromantic joy!

[wormnextdoor]

i love queerplatonic relationships where one of them is aroace and the other isn't. i love when the allo character has a crush that fades over time. i love when they don't care what they are to each other as long as they're together. i love when romance is an option that they don't choose. i love when both aros and allos feel fulfilled without romance or sex.

[this-is-aromantic-joy]

this is aromantic joy!