Zack

agere

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My Introduction:

I'm Zack from angels of death. I'm 20 years old.

I'm a cg/babysitter/pet handler. Specifically an older brother one but if I feel older, an uncle one.

I like talking to new people. I'm just not good at it.

Looking for a sibling like regressor/source mates.

Anyone can follow/message/ask that isn't nsfw.

Dni if you're into ageplay or support it in any way.

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Having a regressor that self harms.

You recovered from self harm a long time ago and now youre helping your regressor through their own recovery. Not hiding your scars in public with the hope that your indifference will lessen the shame your regressor feels. Teaching them to tap your arm whenever they have urges because saying it out loud can be hard. Treating their injuries whether its cuts, burns or bruises. Recognizing subtle self harm like digging their nails into their skin when theyre stressed or eating/drinking things before they cool to burn their tongue. Coaxing them into regressing because it makes everything a little easier for them.

Making them go to bed early because they tend to have the most urges late at night. Always testing the temperature of their food and drinks before you give it to them. Monitoring their social media so they don't see anything that triggers them. Having little reward days to celebrate every new milestone.

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Having a regressor with fatigue.

Making sure their bed is comfortable and clean because thats where they are most of the day. Giving them food thats easy to eat. Keeping them hydrated by leaving water close enough to reach. Dressing them in pajamas or onesies instead of regular clothes. Brushing their teeth, washing their face and combing their hair for them. Watching shows and movies that don't require any thinking. Picking their plushies off the floor for them and returning them to bed. Putting them in pull ups or diapers if getting to the bathroom takes too long.

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Fun Uncle Caregiver

For caregivers who feel connected to the idea of being a Fun Uncle. This term is not gender exclusive, and can refer to anyone who sees themselves a Fun Uncle, but is intended to have a more masculine vibe. Fun Uncles may not have many rules when caregiving, let their regressor get into trouble, and generally are more lenient. Fun Uncles may be primary or secondary caregivers.

The greens represent fun and freedom, and being a bit more untraditional and the oranges represent being a loving caregiver who despite prioritising fun, still cares for their regressor's safety.

Already made? That's okay, please consider this another flag for the term. :)

Does this flag resemble another? It's a complete coincidence, if it is something worrying - please let us know.

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Happy fathers day to my dad + male caregivers

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Paranoid caregiver.

The ceiling is going to collapse. Your heart will fail in your sleep. There's a dog around the corner ready to attack. People will find out where you live. Your pet was replaced with another. The brakes in your car won't work. Your food was secretly tampered with.

You're always worrying and you're always second guessing your interactions. Nothing feels safe for long. Except your regressor. They're the only person your brain doesn't scream about or morph. Being with them calms you down. Not completely but just enough to allow you to breathe and focus on them.

When you're worried about the ceiling collapsing, you take them outside to play. Their habit of falling asleep while listening to your heart beat convinces you that your heart is steady. The cooing when they see a dog takes away some of your fear. Every thing that scares you, your regressor manages to make it feel less horrifying and true. All of it unintentionally.

Sometimes you worry that you're a bad caregiver to them. You don't want your paranoia to affect them but luckily it never does. Your caregiver space helps you cope with your disorder and so does your little.

[thezackfoster]

Reminder:

Older caregivers aren't creeps.

Older babysitters aren't creeps.

Older flips aren't creeps.

Older pets aren't creeps.

Older regressors aren't creeps.

Older dreamers aren't creeps.

Older people are allowed in the agere community. Little, pet and cg space doesn't go away with age. You're not automatically a creep just because you're older. Adults in their late twenties, in their thirties, forties, fifties, sixties and above are welcomed here.

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Its raining hard and the power is out. Lets push the couches together, cover them with blankets and get in. We'll watch videos on my phone. Horror stories and creepypasta and scp. It doesn't matter. I'm still a better killer. We'll eat cheezits straight from the box because there's no point in pouring it in a bowl.

I'll eat dry ramen, the square packet one, and you'll judge me for it. We can't use the microwave with no power and I prefer crunchy noodles anyways. When you flinch at the thunder, I'll laugh at you but at the same time hold you tighter. When we get bored of the videos, we'll go play in the rain. Or I'll play in the rain while you stand by the door and list why this is a bad idea. Of course I won't listen to you. I'll enjoy the cold rain before heading back inside with you.

After a shower in the dark (lots of slipping and lots of cursing), I'll return to the blanket fort to find you sleeping. I'll adjust the headless plushie I gifted you and make sure you're okay. Then I'll take a nap too.

When we wake up, the power will be back on, the storm will be gone, and you won't have to be afraid.

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Places/things for middles:

Comic store

Skatepark

Arcade

Museum

Laser tag

Paintball

Go karting

The mall

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Having a trans regressor:

Going shopping for training bras. Doing fashion shows with the new clothes you got her. Watching youtube videos together on makeup. Taking her to get her nails done. Having a spa day. Praising her for doing her injections. Using feminine pet names.

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Sitting outside in the sun. Eating popsicles. Fingers colorful from chalk. The sidewalk filled with doodles of animals and shapes and stick people. A stray cat is laid out at your feet. Your caregiver is next to you.

They're humming a song you don't know. Not loud enough to disturb the sleeping cat. They reach out and clean your face. Always prepared. You smile or blush. Or whine at the sudden cold from the wipe.

An ant crawls on your shoelace. It doesn't bite you. It travels fast as it explores the new territory. You watch it move with fascination. Eventually it goes away and it disappears into the grass to an ant hill.

You finish the popsicle and your caregiver cleans your hands. The dirty wipes go into a nearby trash can. They take a picture of the sidewalk art and you take their hand. You get up and go home with them.

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Vampires.

You and your regressor both have the same kintype. You're vampires. The difference is you're a century old vampire while your regressor is a modern one.

You do almost everything at night. Work, school, chores, shopping and other things. Your regressor stays up with you but they're more active during the day. That means waking up every afternoon to the breakfast your regressor made you. Burnt pancakes and eggs with too much pepper. You eat it anyways.

When your regressor is upset or overwhelmed, you know that the dark helps. Sitting together in a pitch black room calms them down more than anything.

You're always covered in bite marks from your little one. You bite them back. It's how you show love to each other. If you're lucky, you get to taste a bit of their blood. But you avoid hurting them too much.

You put sunscreen on your regressor whenever they go outside to protect them from the sun and don't use any garlic when you cook food for them. Your regressor's vampire type is different from yours but you can't help but care for them like you're similar.

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Having a furry regressor.

Not really understanding furries but trying to be supportive. Looking up the definition online when they're busy. Getting them plushies that match their fursona. Helping them create/save up for a fursuit.

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Ray's birthday today

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Agere idea:

You play cod while I watch because I'm absolutely shit at it. I playfully narrate your actions to make it more entertaining. I have full control of the mic and I'm arguing/insulting people on your behalf (you're used to it by now). I tease you about your fictional caregivers in the game. I hand feed you snacks so you don't have to look away from the screen during intense moments (I "accidentally" miss and hit your forehead with grapes the first few times). I bully you when you die even though I know I'd do way worse.

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Caregiver that's bad at comforting others and their regressor who's uncomfortable being fussed over.

Wiping their tears before continuing whatever you were doing. Handing them their comfort item when they seem upset. Squeezing their hand when they seem overwhelmed. Never having the right words to reassure them so you stay quiet. Giving them space instead of keeping close. Not knowing how to help during meltdowns, shutdowns, anxiety attacks etc.

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My agere head canons:

Will (Hannibal) - flip

Gray (Angels of death) - cg (my dad)

House (House md) - involuntary regressor

Mickey 17 (Mickey 17)- regressor

Mickey 18 (Mickey 17) - flip with a cg lean

Lovecraft (Bungo stray dogs) - flip with a cg lean

Tanaka (The summer hikaru died) - cg

My fictional littles:

Mickey 17 (for my uncle space)

Trashcan man (for my big brother space)