Zack

agere

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My Introduction:

I'm Zack from angels of death. I'm 20 years old.

I'm a cg/babysitter/pet handler. Specifically an older brother one but if I feel older, an uncle one.

I like talking to new people. I'm just not good at it.

Looking for a sibling like regressor/source mates.

Anyone can follow/message/ask that isn't nsfw.

Dni if you're into ageplay or support it in any way.

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Horse pet regressor.

They love running through the grass, their favorite snack is apples and sugar cubes, they follow you around everything, they always nuzzle you, they nip you a lot, they enjoy being brushed, they only watch cartoons with horses in them, they neigh and huff.

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At urgent care because we decided to see how far we could fly off the swing set at the park and now we both have bruises, scrapes, and minor fractures.

But we're getting matching casts, ice cream right after and I'm taking you to the toy store to pick out something for being so brave during a scary event.

It was irresponsible but it was fun. We'll definitely do it again after we heal. But with helmets and more protective gear so there will be less tears next time.

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Dissociation.

You've been dissociating for as long as you can remember. It's a daily part of your life that rarely goes away. Sometimes you lose minutes. Other times you lose entire years. Your memory isn't the best because of it. Remembering things is difficult.

But your regressor makes it easier. They poke your cheek when it's important to be aware. They curl up on your lap when you're unfocused. Grounding you. They always remind you of dates you need to know. Occasionally, your little even dissociates with you.

Their cries and giggles bring you to the present. The feel of their hand in yours, the tugging on your shirt when they want something, calling your name. It all helps pull you out of your mind and back with them.

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Masculine caregivers that:

Let their regressor paint their nails

Let their regressor put makeup on them

Let their regressor style their hair

Let their regressor dress them in fem clothes

Watching "girly" cartoons with your regressor and really enjoying it. My little pony, monster high, etc

Getting stared at in public because you're a tall, hairy masculine person with (messy) makeup on

Being called a feminine title by your regressor and just going with it "Yes, love. I'm totally your mama"

Your caregiver bag is pink and sparkly because you let your regressor pick one out for you. They love it

Having a tea party with your regressor (with a tiara)

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Hot day.

Laying on the living room floor together. We're dressed in the thinnest, most breathable clothes we can find. The AC leaks so we're using fans to cool off. We're sipping on slushies because water is good for the heat but slushies taste better. The tv plays a show that's mildly entertaining. Getting up for the remote isn't worth it. You've been fussy for a while.

You don't like the heat either. I lean over and kiss your forehead. A quick peak because affection is uncomfortable in this weather. "You want more?" I ask you. You babble something I don't understand. I take that as a yes. I give you the rest of my slushie and eat frozen cherries instead. You immediately spill some on yourself since it's not in a baby bottle.

I lazily clean up the mess with nearby baby wipes. Go back to eating cherries and watching the show. "Don't melt." I tell you with heat exhausted humor. You babble again and focus on the leftover slushie.

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I want to watch mature shows with my regressor. Judge the scenes on how good the gore is, roll my eyes at the unrealistic murders, take mental notes on the types of torture, yell at the screen with my little because the characters keep sparing people.

Not looking away. Not cringing. No tears from my little because they like violence and blood, like me.

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Breakfast.

I forgot to add seasoning to your eggs. I cut my finger while chopping fruit horribly. Your sausage is overcooked because I didn't trust the oven mitts. I spilled juice two times while filling your sippy cup.

But the eggs aren't under or overcooked. I managed not to get blood on the fruit. The sausage is edible. I remembered to use the orange juice with no pulp, like you asked. So not a complete breakfast failure.

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As an older brother caregiver I will:

Try to help you with your homework but give up after twenty minutes and just google the answers

Ruffle your hair, gently squeeze the back of your neck or pat your shoulder every time I pass by you

Start a new show with you and watch a couple of episodes daily. Either in the morning or the evening

Buy you something whenever I go to the store. A food or drink that you like. Even if I'm low on money

Stand up for you when you won't or can't. Getting into arguments with strangers, family or friends

Rage bait you. Not anything that would genuinely upset or hurt you. Just doing something annoying

Pack your lunch for school or work. Your favorite snacks + something that would keep you full. And a handwritten note with something dumb or a doodle

Play fight with you. Arm wrestling, pulled punches, chokeholds, attacking with a empty paper towel roll

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Autistic caregiver and baby regressor.

Autistic caregiver who's special interest is parenting

Autistic caregiver that stims by rocking you in their arms and running their fingers through your hair

Autistic caregiver that dresses you in soft, weather appropriate clothes. Not just whatever's cutest

Autistic caregiver that treats your plushies like they have real emotions and preferences

Autistic caregiver that puts on low stimulation baby shows and movies for you to watch

Autistic caregiver that keeps a safe, familiar routine

Autistic caregiver that echoes your babbles so it feels like you're having a conversation together

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Country regressor and city caregiver.

Caregiver that has trouble understanding their regressor's heavy southern accent at times

Caregiver that is not prepared to walk everywhere but enjoys going on journeys with their regressor

Caregiver that takes pictures of all the cows and horses they see while their regressor stands there embarrassed

Regressor that is disappointed by the fresh produce their caregiver brought home from the store and might get a little fussy

Regressor that needs a white noise machine to sleep because they're not used to all the city noise

Regressor that tugs on their caregiver's shirt and asks "who's that" whenever they pass someone in the same neighborhood

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Teen regression and alone time.

Growing up, you were the oldest child. You took care of your younger siblings because your parents couldn't or refused to. You fed them, bathed and dressed them, got them ready for school, helped with homework, and tucked them into bed every night. Maybe they mistook you for their mom or dad instead of their older sibling and clung to you.

Maybe you resented them because you didn't get to be a kid. But you still took care of them. Now you're older and have nobody to take care of. That freedom is important to you. Your caregiver knows this and they make sure to respect your boundaries.

So when you regressed into teen space and your sibby regressed into toddler space, your caregiver handled it. They set up your room. Snacks from your childhood, soda, video games, magazines or comic books, dvd movies. Maybe they even gave you their car keys, money, and a eleven pm curfew.

They understood what you needed was time for yourself. You didn't hate your sibby. They were one of your favorite people. It just didn't feel as right looking out for them in teen space than it did when you regressed to similar ages. And that was okay.

Your caregiver took care of them and when they fell asleep, it was your turn. You had their full attention. No distractions, no having to share affection, and no responsibilities bigger than your regressed age. You could be a teenager, not a parent, and be taken care of in the ways you lacked yet craved back then.

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Things you can do with your online regressor:

Use tone tags when texting

Watch movies and shows together

Send pictures of yourself and your surroundings throughout the day so they feel more involved

Choose things for them through pictures or descriptions (snacks to eat, pacifiers to use)

Do things at the same time (meals, baths, etc)

Send things in the mail like gifts or a rule list

Get matching plushies or outfits

Call each other or send voice messages

Video chat if they're too little to text or speak

Print out the drawings they made for you and hang them on your fridge or on your walls

Read books to them through calls (or send them a physical/online copy and record yourself reading it)

Monitor their agere account or share one together

Send them one of your hoodies to wear

Send them your favorite lotion, bodywash, perfume, cologne etc so they can find comfort in your scent

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Affection without touch.

You and your regressor both hate being touched. Its uncomfortable and triggering. Maybe even painful. But that doesn't stop you from wanting to be close.

Instead of hugging each other, you hug one of their plushies and they hug it back. You use a decorated wagon instead of picking them up. Gloves are worn to brush hair out of your regressor's face. Instead of holding hands while in public, you use a backpack leash. Your little gives you pacifier kisses every day.

You don't cuddle at night but your beds are next to each other. You don't bathe them but you sit on the edge of the tub to monitor. Getting dressed is made into a game where you guide them with your voice.

You don't touch but there's still plenty of affection.

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hiiiii, i just wanted to say that i love ur account! i love unconventional caregivers and dont get to see a lot of posts about them </3 all of my fictional caregivers have issues/are mentally ill, or are just generally not outwardly caring if that makes sense. also ur uneducated carer post is awesome, i dont want to explain publicly but i have experience being a very smart regressor with a not so bright caregiver. i hope u find someone to take care of and who cares for u in return :]

Like you said theres not a lot of posts about them. As a unconventional caregiver I want to normalize other types of unconventional caregivers and post what I don't see. But thanks.

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Uneducated caregiver.

You missed a lot of school growing up. Maybe you didn't go at all. You had a good reason for staying at home. Trauma, illness, instability or responsibilities. Things you couldn't control as a child. Now you're an adult but it doesn't feel like it. You struggle with stuff that even little kids know. You can barely write your name. Reading and counting are just as hard.

But you have your regressor. They don't make fun of you and they don't judge you like others have. They play school with you every day. You print out sheets and they help you learn. If you make progress, youre rewarded with a hug and a sticker to the face. If you have a hard time with something, you still get a hug.

Over time, you've learned more than you would've on your own and was able to experience school as a safe place like you should've years ago. You're not perfect at any of it but you are better and you're not as ashamed as you used to be. Thanks to your little.

Whether you can spell your name or do subtraction doesn't take away from your role as a caregiver. You take good care of your little and learning with them is fun. You're proud of yourself but mostly proud of them for always being so supportive and so helpful.

Plus, it's adorable when they put you in time out for not doing your "homework" or when they announce school lunch is cake or gives you a one hour recess.

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Grandma caregiver.

She's plus sized. All of her clothes are thrifted. She makes outfits for every plushie you have. She bakes your favorite pastries for you whenever you ask. She reads bedtime stories to you every night. Her purse is filled with snacks. After your baths, she puts baby lotion on you. Manners are important. She has tea parties with you. Her hugs are warm and feels safe.