Unpopular Lesbian Opinions

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[cungadero]

literally no dermatologist on earth says acne is caused by bad hygeine/lack of a skincare routine btw. its genetic. every single piece of research ever done on acne says its genetic. feel like i need to restate this every time i see a post about skincare

[cungadero]

a few years ago i made an identical post to this and someone tagged it with “yeah ive known this from personal experience. because i once spent an entire summer not bathing and the only water that ever touched my face was from public pools yet i never once had any acne” and every single time i see someone talking up their skincare routine this info forces its way back into my brain

[cungadero]

dont be a fucking dumbass on this post btw im serious. actually read academic papers on acne dont fucking post correlation is causation shit on this post. every person who has acne has a half dozen multi billion dollar industries constantly trying to convince them its secretly their fault against all published research as it stands. so don’t fucking help them

[millenianthemums]

diet culture people make me feel like i’m going crazy. you want me to take an experimental pill that destroys my appetite?? you want me to remove part of my stomach??? you want me to stop eating bread and rice, two of the staple foods most inherent to humanity????? why exactly? because my stomach is big? because you don’t like the way i look, and you think it’s reasonable to tell me to carve pieces off of myself and try random drugs and ruin my own life so i can look more visually pleasing to you? and you somehow don’t see how absurdly cruel and selfish that is to ask of somebody???? while pretending you care about their HEALTH????????????????? FUCK YOU!!!!

[ladyshinga]

it's practically taboo to still talk about covid but god i wish we could acknowledge the worldwide trauma it's clearly still causing in people. like, it's flat out just. not "polite" to talk about how a mass deadly event might, JUST MIGHT, emotionally affect us a little bit. how an airborne invisible-to-the-eye thing can just BE anywhere now. how abandoned we still feel by our respective governments. how we've lost family, friends, either to death or misinformation and cults, which they cling to because they're ALSO afraid but often refuse to admit it because it'd mean admitting covid is real and ongoing. we just. can't talk about it i guess.

[stricatul]

if she's important to you, show her. what the fuck is so hard about that?

[aidashakur]

“I just don’t want that for myself anymore” is a valid reason to stop anything.

[aleshakills]

At some point in your life, you were taught that being slightly annoying is an unforgivable sin. Maybe it was by your parents or a teacher or a friend or a bully or an older sibling. But someone taught you that being slightly annoying is a crime punishable by death.

You must unlearn this.

You must accept that all people will be annoying at some point or another in their lives, maybe all of their lives, and that this is okay. It is okay for strangers on the bus, it is okay for children in the grocery store, it is okay for people on social media, and it is okay for you.

If you ever want to truly love your fellow humans, if you ever want to truly love yourself, you must have forgiveness for being annoying.

[byjove]

I see a lot of ‘cis’ women say they wish they were androgynous in the way men were or they wish they were pretty in the way men were. This is your sign to go try to do that. You may find you enjoy being an androgynous woman. You may find you no longer identify as a woman. You may find you don’t like androgyny. You will not know until you try. Cut your hair if you’ve always wanted to but have been afraid to. Shop in the men’s section if you’ve been too nervous to. Wear clothing with an androgynous  silhouette. Experiment with binding, take baby steps with compression bras if you want. Wear unisex scents. Live life. Try things you want to try. A lot of cis women do not understand the joys of mens pants and mens deodorant. I think everyone should try both of those things.

[pringlesaremydivision]

(via @monimolimnion)

[into-the-weeds]

[screenshot of tags which read: 

#much more comfortable being a woman when I realised it literally doesn’t have to mean anything  #unlock cis+ it’s good for you]

[ksfoxwald]

Trans people don't own gender. We stole it the way Prometheus stole fire, so it would be available to everyone.

[animentality]

[martyr0l0gy]

i need all my butch babes out there to know that you bring so much joy and delight into my life, and the world is a better place for having your handsome, diligent, charming, and warm selves in it. (and i'm giving you all a kiss on the cheek, mwah !)

[thislesbiansays]

Hi gay! 🩷🤍🧡

[animentality]

[whereintheworldiskamalakhan]

They are the very first people on the list of people we should (and must!) criticize!

[thislesbiansays]

Idk, but sometimes you gotta just,,, give people a chance? Like it’s so easy to assume someone doesn’t like you because they “look” bitchy or like a douche. Can’t believe that this is a hot take, but people can be good sometimes.

Anyways

[thislesbiansays]

I take all of this back. People are terrible. 2019 me was naive rip

[animentality]

[neonstatic]

[ID: Two tweets by Taryn @ TARYNXOFFICIAL: "Was explaining to someone that men don't have to touch women's waists when they're tying to get by them in crowded places. He went on to say “it's not that serious” I said "Do you touch other men's waists when you tryna get by?" He looked at me crazy. I said EXACTLY.

"Cus if you can get by men without touching them then you can extend women the same courtesy. I get irritated when men caress my waist in passing because why are you touching me." End ID]

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

"Is it normal to-" Doesn't matter. Do it weird if it isn't hurting anyone

[whisperingsoup]

oh god, please be weird. Life is short, way too short to worry if you're being weird or normal. If it isn't hurting you or someone else, do it weird

[lit-sy-kalyptica-deactivated202]

[thememedaddy]

[thislesbiansays]

The lack of queer spaces in traditionally conservative cities, though unsurprising, continues to appall me to this day. Like ok maybe there’s a gay bar or two (!!) if you’re lucky, but these spaces are usually dominated by straight cis women.

While gay bars are a safe space for EVERYONE it is so debilitatingly difficult to find a solely queer space and frankly I’m sick of it.