still kicking

lin | adult (old enough to be your mom) | dreamer | musician | sometimes writer

[threadbare-sweater]

☆deleted and remade 249483765 times. it's not you, it's me, i swear

☆love you. i mean it.

☆elder millennial. if you think i am older than you, you're probably right

☆be nice to me and each other and we'll get along just fine

☆currently being buried in the pitt but my interests are varied. i try to tag triggers when i can but sometimes i miss. tell me if you need a tag.

[threadbare-sweater]

I feel SO BAD for complaining about this trip, but I have been so disappointed at almost every turn. it's nice, it's a getaway, it's...time with mr lin but like. THERE ARE NO WINDOWS IN HERE. NONE. I don't know if it's 9pm or 7am. I'm either freezing or burning up, there is no in between.

I took norethindrone to delay my period because I was due to start 2 days ago, but it has made me hormonal and bloated. I haven't exercised beyond sexy time in 2 days and I feel like shit. we aren't talking like, a lot. I just had hoped for this to be more romantic like our March weekend trip, but I'm not sure anything will ever top that. I'm also just in a weird place with our relationship I think and I am not enjoying this like I feel like I should be and I can't tell anyone because I don't want to sound like a terrible person.

I miss my kids. This place is not that romantic because it's literally located in the middle of an industrial park. Did I mention there are no windows? I am a creature of light. There's a little pond a few steps away from our room but it's right next to a highway. Ugh ugh ugh

[threadbare-sweater]

periodic getaways with your partner are essential, not only for the physical connection, but for the mental and emotional good of your relationship. take it from an old lady who knows. you've got to set aside time for each other. to listen. to hear. to understand. to talk it out. to connect. this becomes true especially if you have children. time spent with just the two of you (with no work, no responsibilities, no stress) is as mandatory as breathing. even if it's just an hour. even if it's a walk around the block.

[scrappal]

what do you mean you dont like gross, nasty, messy, fucking disgusting girls

[plonkfolio]

Alone or a Date Night at the Spa

Shane from Stardew Valley

[jessaerys]

everyone talks about the ocasional like from the respected mutual that makes you go oh thank god you haven't unfollowed me but no one ever talks about how it will never be on a good post. it's never you at your posting best it's always on some bullshit like: made sanbwich. with loaf (bad pun for love)

[i-effed-it-all-up-deactivated20]

no, i don’t watch that show, but i do follow its developments extensively via tumblr

[kkotda]

f/o who keeps their hand on the top of your head so that it's not slamming into the headboard as they fuck into you send post

[butchknot]

clitwarming holy shit . just holding my tongue and mouth against her . making out with her pussy nice and slow and teasing, letting her try and grind into my mouth onto my tongue until shes begging for me to actually eat her out and then i hold her legs down and make her regret ever asking

[danhcees]

What vibes match prev the most (⁠◕⁠ᴗ⁠◕⁠✿) ?

!!

11:11 wishes

Four leaf clovers

Fortune cookies

Wishbone

Shooting star

Penny on the ground

Dandelion wishes

Lucky charms

12 grapes under the table

Voting ended onJun 1

[cheaphalloweencostume]

also we have GOT to collectively come to terms with the fact that me or any other stranger online disliking or even making fun of something you like is not saying “no fun allowed” “no one can ever enjoy this” you have simply got to grow a spine and be able to like the shit you like. you don’t even have to defend it! like 90% of the media i really enjoy is divisive and half my friends actively hate it. i really don’t give a fuck though because i like it. you can write whatever you want! you’re allowed! even if it’s MY least favorite genre or style of writing and i have active distaste for it!

[threadbare-sweater]

Mr Lin and I have a room reserved at a hotel where there's a fucking private swimming pool in the room. We leave tomorrow and get to stay for 2 days. I will not disclose how much we paid for said suite, but trust that I will be using every inch of that room in the most indulgent way possible. 😈

[azaablue]

the best fanfiction you've ever read was written by a woman in her 40s before she made dinner for her kids. it was written by a teenager after school when they should've been studying for a history test. and a barista came up with the idea while they cleaned the espresso machine and busser fact-checked it on their break and the post-doc edited between writing grant proposals and the nurse apologized for typos in the notes after a long shift and behind every drabble and one-shot and multi-chapter fic there is a person with a wonderful and interesting and chaotic life and it is such a privilege that we get to be apart of it because they decided to do this thing we all share, for fun.

[garaks-padded-bra]

Weewees beautiful life

[garaks-padded-bra]

Love her or Hate her she smelt that thing. Weewees beautiful life.

[threadbare-sweater]

Today, I am going to take my kids to lunch, play my game, take a nap, make dinner, lay in the sun, and water flowers. not necessarily in that order, but it feels pretty good to have all the Things done so I can rightfully relax this afternoon.

[pr3ttypunisherr]

condescending praise......condescending praise.....condescending praise......

[isaut]

barou body