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She's a Killer Queen Gunpowder , gelatine Dynamite with a laser beam Guaranteed to blow your mind

[mccdimples]

THE. HUG. WE. DESERVED

[sofuckingchuffed]

[thriviing]

hello !! while i make tiny changes to my theme, like this for a starter probably ?

[thriviing]

sc // @amaroed​

“ well -- aren’t you a sight for sore eyes? ”

[thriviing]

hello !! while i make tiny changes to my theme, like this for a starter probably ?

[thriviing]

                      you know what i’ve seen          is that people who go through unfair,                          horrific experiences,                       is that they have this will.          and when they get support, a chance,                       they can not only survive

[eighthmark]

[thriviing]

i know i created this blog, was here for a second, and then dropped BUT TO BE FAIR i dropped every blog i own. i have two excuses for this !  one: school drops my mood into the red and it’s hard for me to fight that most times two: my laptop literally broke and i was unable to access a lot of things for about a month before i was graciously gifted a laptop

BUT I’M HERE NOW !! hopefully for good. 

[altman-shelby]

Olivia Benson is Wonder Woman

[thriviing]

i had an exam today so that’s why i disappeared again rip but im here now !! so feel free 2 message me or like this or add me on disc.ord  bc i respond way faster there -- chef vortivask#8439

[thriviing]

gatekeepcr:

                       abel is seated at the high-top kitchen table , shoveling mac and cheese into his mouth like he hadn’t eaten in days.   gemma’s leaning on her elbows , watching him with a smile.     ❛   geez , kid.  don’t forget to breathe.  ❜    he shoots her a confused look , but a chuckle from the prospect in the dining room tells her that the joke wasn’t totally in vain.   this is what gemma enjoys doing. being around her family ,  she didn’t even mind the cooking.  these days it was far too easy to lose sight of the important things. but gemma had made a point of being in these kids lives , and nothing would take that away from her.

there’s a knock at the door , and gemma assumes it’s wayne , maybe a crow eater ,  or nero.  towel is swung over her shoulder and she turns with a smile to open the door , a hand on her hip.  the woman that meets her is a stranger , someone she’s never seen before , and brows draw together in confusion.  something about her puts gemma on edge from the get-go.  maybe its her stance ,  the professional , observant gaze that she offers.   ❛   hi , um   ——    can i help you  ? ❜

                 unfortunately, she’s positive she has the right house when the door. she looks busy-- she probably won’t want to talk to her. she really won’t want to talk to her once she tells her why she’s there. and she won’t blame her-- she never wanted to talk about it, either. it’s hard, and when this much time has passed? why bring it back up again?

“ i’m detective oliviabenson, ” she says, flashing her badge. “ would it be alright if i asked you a few questions? ” start off slow. don’t throw everything out there all at once, because that’s just begging to get the door slammed in your face. this way they would feel like they were in control, that they could stop it at any time. and, besides, what harm could a few questions do?

[thriviing]

after being in this line of work so long, you’d think it would get easier to see these kinds of things, but it’s really not. although she was told when she stopped feeling, it was time to leave. so she figured it’s probably for the best. 

this is why she still goes out to check on people, why she’s still active in her detective work, rather than sitting behind a desk and watching everyone else do it for her. she wants to help, to stand with the victims and let them know she will do everything she can to protect them and get justice. and it sounds a lot better coming from a lieutenant than just your run-of-the-mill police.

and this is why she’s knocking at the door herself, satchel dangling from her shoulder, next to her hip. she figured it was a long shot-- there were so many women, so many tapes-- and given the situation, there probably wouldn’t be too many that come forward. but it doesn’t hurt to try. // @gatekeepcr

[autumnhobbit]

i fully support people being able to vent

but i also firmly support a person’s right to say “hey, i really would rather not hear this right now” for any reason, so if you ever don’t want me to mindlessly ramble about how much my life sucks PLEASE feel free to tell me because i strongly think that helping someone deal with their problems should be VOLUNTARY

[keyki421]

[thriviing]

hello !! like this for me to come talk to you about a starter !! might take me a cpl of years but i’ll do it  !!! 

[memestockpile]

therapy / talking about trauma / post - trauma starters. feel free to change things as necessary. 

would you like to talk about it?

please tell me what’s bothering you.

hey, are you okay?

i don’t have to know everything. just what you’re comfortable telling me.

i’m your friend. of course i care.

there’s nothing bad about going to therapy.

would you like to try a different approach?

i – i didn’t know that. i’m sorry.

is this helping?

i’ll try not to ask a lot of questions.

i’m always here if you need me.

shh, it’s alright. shh. 

we’re safe now. you’re safe now.

it was just a nightmare.

sweetheart, you have to tell me these things.

you know i’d never judge you for that, right?

i’m worried about you.

is something going on? 

everything you say will just be between you and me.

what method do you prefer?

do you need help falling asleep?

anything i could do to help?

why are you like this?

i understand. 

sweetie, is there something you aren’t telling me? what’s wrong?

let’s get you cleaned up.

this is good. this is important. 

you’re healing, and healing takes time. 

we can do more tomorrow.

how about you get some sleep, hm?

bedtime.

it’s ok not to be ok.

tomorrow is another day.

hey, hey, hey. look at me, look at me. it’s okay.

breath in for seven seconds, exhale for eleven …

do you need some space?

remember, look for things that you can touch. ground yourself.

[shitboy96]

Reblog this and put your old urls (or as many as u can remember) in the tags

[nadiahilker]

i’m gonna post this and seven seconds later someone is gonna pop in my ask box like SHIT THAT’S WHERE I KNOW YOU FROM