I'll be your west coast, honey

Jean. she/her. Intp. ravenclaw.

[dykespeare-deactivated20181228]

reblog if ur mom is smart and beautiful

[straw-berry-fie-lds-deactivated]

Here’s something else I made, Reblog if you are anti maps

[evilauthor]

MAP stands for Minor Attracted Person…So you know…pedophiles.

I am against them. You assholes don’t get a flag. The fact the pedophiles choose colors typically used for nursery colors is also very unsettling.

And it should go without saying, if you consider yourself a MAP, support them, or think they belong at pride, go ahead and unfollow me. My content is not meant for you

[americanfootball1999-deactivate]

some concept playlists;

sitting alone in a cafe on a rainy gray day watching raindrops running down the window.

it’s a gentle day in spring and a warm sunny breeze blusters in through the curtains.

when ur lying on the floor at 3AM with a cough syrup buzz.

a scenic highway drive on a foggy sunday morning through the forest thinking about life.

feeling like a badass walking down the street in a leather jacket and sunglasses while combing your hair back.

middle school emo phase.

angsty songs for when ur lying on the floor dissociating at 4 AM.

late 2000s/early 2010s upbeat songs for artsy hipsters with thick-rimmed glasses and scarves

songs that get me through the bad days

edit: pt. II (these were all requests);

riding in the car late at night and it’s raining but you’ve got no place to be, just hours of road ahead of you.

staying at home late at the night with the person you love most and letting go of all your troubles and worries, if only for that one night.

sitting alone in a kitchen laden with snack bowls while a wild house party occurs in the surrounding rooms, the music is muffled by the walls and you don’t remember ever learning the lyrics to these songs but you somehow know them, this is the only place in the whole house where you can run away to be alone.

gearing up to take your opponents down on the battlefield. the odds of survival are very unlikely but you’re going to fight anyway.

[panesthetic]

Children of the Gods: Nyx, Greek goddess of the night

Born to the personification of night, to a goddess who even Zeus feared, Nyx’s children hold the same possibility of power. With clothes of silken darkness, they glide by with the whisper of a sigh; ghosts in the night, engulfed in the realm of their mother. Creatures of the night call to them, and their fingers trail ribbons of black, influencing others from the shadows.

[littleunrequitedlovestuff]

[fuckyeahmaygan]

Do you ever just feel the urge to pack a bag in the middle of the night and just leave? Like no goodbyes to a single person, no contact, no phone, just leave a note on the table. And go somewhere far away. Because you feel like a burden to everyone around you. Like you feel like you should let go, because your friends and family and everyone would just be happier without you, nothing you do is good enough, and you can’t make them happy or proud like you wish you could and you just need someone to tell you that, that isn’t how it is, because it runs through your head every. single. Night.

[dangerbabegang]

What to do if you suddenly find yourself homeless

FOOD

Find your nearest food bank or mission, for food

grocery stores with free samples, bakeries + stores with day-old bread

different fast food outlets have cheaper food and will generally let you hang out for a while.

some dollar stores carry food like cans of beans or fruit

SHELTER

Sleeping at beaches during the day is a good way to avoid suspicion and harassment

sleep with your bag strapped to you, so someone can’t steal it

Some churches offer short term residence

Find your nearest homeless shelter

Look for places that are open to the public

A large dumpster near a wall can often be moved so that flipping up the lids creates an angled shelter to stay dry

HYGIENE

A membership to the YMCA is usually only 10$, which has a shower, and sometimes laundry machines and lockers.

Public libraries have bathrooms you can use

Dollar stores carry low-end soaps and deodorant etc.

Wet wipes are all purpose and a life saver

Local beaches, go for a quick swim

Some truck stops have showers you can pay for

Staying clean is the best way to prevent disease, and potentially get a job to get back on your feet

Pack 7 pairs of socks/undies, 2 outfits, and one hooded rain jacket

OTHER

first aid kit

 sunscreen

 a travel alarm clock or watch

 mylar emergency blanket

 a backpack is a must

 downgrade your cellphone to a pay as you go with top-up cards

 sleeping bag

 travel kit of toothbrush, hair brush/comb, mirror

 swiss army knife

 can opener

[valtsv]

“pride month is almost over”??? you fools. it’s twentygayteen, every month is pride month. it’s pride year.

[nick-ii]

Trans* People I have a tip!!!! * means all nb, agender, genderfluid, etc come here too!!!!

Note: Some of this is probably written like a joke, but that’s just because I’m tired. I’m actually completely serious in what I say. I’ve done a lot of research for feminine/masculine/neither scents. Of course, I haven’t done ALL the research in the world, and I’m talking mainly about America here, because I don’t know if it’s different outside of America, but still.

Okay so

SCENTS

For some reason, they’re gendered????? Don’t ask me why, but lemme tell YOU how you can use this weird-ass gendering of inanimate objects To! Your! Advantage!

MASULINE SCENTS:

Herbs (basil, rosemary,) mints (spearemint, peppermint), wood (sandalwood,) pine, cooking spices (cumin, pepper, garlic,)

FEMININE SCENTS:

Flowers (lavender, rose,) fruits (orange, apple,) baking spices (cinnamon, nutmeg,) star anise,

Note: Honey is often used with feminine scents, but isn’t much of a feminine scent on its own

Additionally, cinnamon is most often used for feminine scents, but can go either way

NONBINARY SCENTS:

Mix the two. Smell like basil and lavender. Smell like sandalwood and lemons.

* I wouldn’t recommend mixing flowers/fruits and mint, that can result in a very feminine smell.

But honey? Mollases?

SMELL LIKE IT

That’s right.

Cinnamon, honey, mollases, and basically everything is an enby scent

Envy the Enby

Sounds like a perfume

[i-hate-chick-fil-a]

wow

[askagenderfluidandgenderflux]

I know that since there are a lot of genders this may be a tall order, but could you list all the “flux” genders to me please? I’m still kinda in the stage of questioning, but I think I might be flux more than anything

dear anon,

of course i can make a list! lists are kind of my thing tbh…

GENDERFLUX MASTERLIST

Agenderflux - “Agenderflux (similar to Agender and Genderflux), also called Librafluid, is a type of genderfluidity and a subset of genderflux where an individual may identify as if they feel no particular connection with any gender/identify, or Agender, as well as fluctuating between having masculine and/or feminine gender identity. This means that an individual has a “base gender” of agender, bit can also fluctuate to and from masculine and/or feminine genders.” GenderWikia

Bigenderflux - “Bigenderflux describes a gender that is both two genders and fluctuating in intensity. This can occur in multiple ways.For example, a bigenderflux individual could identify as two genders simultaneously, but those genders could both fade in intensity at the same time. Someone who identifies as bigenderflux could also refer to someone who has two genders, but the intensity of the one of the two changes (ie, someone could be both a girl and a boy, but sometimes the intensity of the girl part increases or decreases). The term could also be used to describe an experience similar to fluidflux. A bigenderflux person could switch between two genders and also have those genders fluctuate in intensity.” GenderWikia

Boyflux - “Boyflux is a gender identity in which a person can feel mostly or completely male most of the time but experiences varying degrees of male identity. For example, one could feel 0% (agender), 50% (demiboy), 100% (male), or anything in between like paraboy or libramasculine. The intensity can fluctuate over any period of time.” GenderWikia

Cassflux - “When the level of indifference towards your gender fluctuates.” genderfluidsupport on tumblr

Demiflux - “Demiflux is a gender identity where one part is static, and the other(s) fluctuate(s) in intensity. For example, the static side could be female, but the other side could be male. The male part can fluctuate, going from full intensity (male), half intensity (demiboy), to no intensity (agender), while the female part does not fluctuate. It is similar to demigender in which the gender is almost “split in two” or divided into two sections. The difference is that demiflux has a part that fluctuates.It could also be felt in a way that the intensity of their demigender identity fluctuates. For example, a female demiflux person (like demigirl) would feel demigirl most of the time but it could fluctuate between agender and full demigirl (and in between the two). There are many ways to define demiflux. It can be up to you.” GenderWikia

Demiboyflux or Demigirlflux - Subset of demiflux. Similar to girlflux and boyflux. When you’re demiboyflux or demigirlflux you’d feel demiboy or demigirl most of the time, and shift over the agender/boy spectrum or agender/girl spectrum.

Fluidflux - “Fluidflux is a gender identity which refers to an individual with a gender that moves between two or more genders and also fluctuates in intensity. Sometimes described as the combination of both genderfluid and genderflux identities.” - GenderWikia

Girlflux - “Girlflux is a gender identity in which a person can feel mostly or completely female most of the time but experiences varying degrees of female identity, despite their biological sex. For example, one could feel 0% (agender), 50% (demigirl), 100% (female), or anything in between like paragirl and librafeminine. The intensity can fluctuate over any period of time.” GenderWikia

Multiflux - “Multiflux is an umbrella term that represents all fluctuating genders under the subcategory of genderflux that can contain multiple genders. This term is similar in meaning to the umbrella term multigender, but multiflux represents genders relating to genderflux and in some way fluctuate.” GenderWikia

Neutroisflux - “Neutroisflux (a combination of Neutrois and Genderflux) is a Nonbinary gender identity in-which a person feels they do have a gender and experience a gender (as opposed to Agender people who feel they do not have a gender) but one that is neutral, and this neutrality’s intensity varies over time.A neutroisflux individual can feel completely neutrois, but fluctuate closer and farther from a male and/or female identity. This is different from agenderflux because while agenderflux people go from a lack of gender to a full gender, neutroisflux people do have a sense of gender, but it is neutral. This can include any masculine or feminine gender identity, for example, neutrois to demiboy to male or neutrois to demigirl to female.” GenderWikia

Non-binaryflux - “Nonbinaryflux is a type of genderfluidity and a subset of genderflux that refers to a group of people that identify as both binary transgender and non binary. A nonbinaryflux person fluctuates between being nonbinary and being a trans man or trans woman.This term can be used as both an umbrella term and an individual gender in its own right. A nonbinaryflux individual can fluctuate from any nonbinary gender to and from male and female. Nonbinary genders can include any gender that is not the binary male and female. For example, agender, demigender, multigender, or androgyne, but it is not limited to those few.” GenderWikia

- Emma

[curxio]

If you don’t want to wear a dress at your wedding, but also don’t want to go with the “dapper” look...

there are options for you…

you can make any look your own by styling it your own way…

…and you will look fly as hell on your big day!

Just make sure you look as extra as possible.

[nonbinary-friend]

So recently I’ve been noticing more and more and the majority of nonbinary representation on Tumblr equates being nonbinary with being slightly masculine and skinny and white and so on. So this post is dedicated to all of the lovely amazing wonderful nonbinary people who don’t fit that description. It’s for the trans feminine nonbinary people!! For the nonbinary people of color!! For chubby nonbinary people!! For nonbinary people who use uncommon or binary pronouns!! For the nonbinary people who don’t experience dysphoria!! You’re all still completely valid as nonbinary people and that won’t change based on what anyone else says!!!

[rileymcdaniels]

I’m nonbinary.

I’m in law school.

I’m out. I introduce myself to people with my name and pronouns.

In my email signature, my pronouns are directly underneath my name in an only slightly smaller font.

It’s February, and I already have secured a summer internship.

I’m in the top 25% of my class. 

You can be nonbinary, and you can be out, and you can still succeed. You don’t have to compromise. There’s going to be transphobic people, there always will, but being out does not mean you can’t pursue the career you want.

The most important thing, the most necessary thing, is to find support from other trans people and from allies who use your pronouns publicly and without shame. 

[pipistrellus]

Forget the Myers-Briggs fucking personality assessment. I am dead tired of hearing if someone is an INFP or an ESLQ or whatever. I want to know if someone is melancholic or choleric. Bring back the four humors. I wanna see “Kaley, 16, phlegmatic” when I go to someone’s blog. Who is with me. Lets make this happen

[pinejaysong]

here’s a test i found. go wild, y'all. (im choleric.)

[tinystudentdefendorsblog]

melancholic

[erevshelshoshanim]

Growing up fat, you get made fun of for everything you do, even basic shit like eating and laughing and breathing are funny when you do it because youre fat! And its so hard to not carry that with you as you get older, like I’m still embarassed to eat or dance in front of people or smile in pictures and its ridiculous and I hate it and I wish I was treated with more humanity

[erevshelshoshanim]

Thin people can reblog this btw

[neopetsuser-deactivated20210119]

they wont tho lmao

[apersnicketylemon]

Pedophilia is bad should not be a radical statement.

[apersnicketylemon]

No really, please reblog this if you can, because this site in general, but fandom spaces especially bad for this, to the point where people are genuinely afraid of harassment they may face for saying ‘Pedophilia is a bad thing and you probably should not encourage it’ or for calling it what it is. Fandom spaces are also especially bad for screaming about how it’s ‘just fiction’ when we know damn well that fiction impacts reality.