I recently outdid myself in terms of stamina and achieved a personal best: I fucked @texasdaddyandbabygirl for over an hour, took a short break and then fucked someone else’s wife for another hour. I distinctly recall @texasdaddyandbabygirl asking me if I was ever going to cum. My response was: when I’m ready. This isn’t by accident, I follow a pretty scripted plan when it comes to sex to make sure I don’t disappoint. There are mental and physical aspects to stamina and I’d give mental the slight edge in terms of importance. Mentally, it’s important to have confidence that her vagina isn’t going anywhere. I can remember a FWB I had when I was young- we spent hours laying around naked and completely comfortable. We would also try things with each other and ask where it ranked on a pleasure scale from 1 to 10. Ever since that FWB, I sort of lost that nervous energy that used to accompany sex. Most of my sex is planned sometimes days in advance because schedules need to line up, hotels need to be booked and babysitters need to be paid. I know that she is not just going to leave or change her mind after putting so much work into planning so I can relax, take my time and move at my pace. I even plan out what positions whether I’m going to get head and where in the room we will fuck (bed, chair, floor, etc). This may sound boring as fuck but being in complete control gives me a mental edge so instead of nervous energy, I have a little bit of swagger. Some women like to throw you a curve ball during sex but I’ve found that a lot of the wives in this lifestyle are content to be with a man that will take charge in the bedroom IF he knows what he is doing.
I am also able to keep any nervous energy in check because I’m not so much worried about the feeling of sex. It doesn’t matter how wet she is or how beautiful she is, I’m there to do job. Especially the first time, I almost consider it a job interview. If I perform like I am supposed to I will get testimonials and references and that all important call back. This may sound like I am missing something because I’m not appreciating the moment but that’s not how I’m built. I get off by being in control and leaving her wanting more of me.
On the physical side I have quite a few good habits: I exercise, eat healthy, never masturbate close to play day (because I know my body), and I pee constantly right before we start because the sensation of needing to urinate can make you ejaculate prematurely. I may pee up to 10 times (sometimes forcing myself) just before a play date and even during the play date. I don’t drink alcohol before we play or even water for this reason. Also, precum in the condom can make you blow early so I’ve been known to stop squeeze it and change condoms (which is a good idea if you are going for more than 30 mins anyway). Unfortunately, there is no magic pill to stop you from ejaculating but for extra energy I sometimes take a five hour energy or a fury sex pill (the one with the crazy looking ape on the package). Stamina is a tricky thing and you can sometimes overthink it but if you take your time and try different mental and physical approaches, most men can find something that works for them.
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