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veliseraptor

that ‘pakige?’ post but me, a couple hours after posting a fic, like ‘comints?’

kitten-kin

leahazel

F5 F5 F5

kitten-kin

… F5 F5 F5 F5F5F5F5F5

junglejim4322

Unironically I think the early to mid 20s age group in America has unbelievably bad consent boundaries on all levels and so much language to defend it but this makes me sound like elon musk if I say it however the commonality of someone who will be like “I had 47 panic attacks and it’s your fault” if you tell them no is insane

junglejim4322

I rejected someone and got called “the scariest person I’ve ever met” with so much therapy speak interspersed like alright okay alright okay alright okay

junglejim4322

“You just say whatever you’re thinking and I don’t know how to handle it” was verbatim part of this conversation. Also everyone hates to see an autistic bitch

transhumanisticpanspermia

When I was in this age bracket, there was a huge emphasis on improving consent culture via graceful rejection, and it's gone by the wayside. Which sucks.

Twice in my youth (once in high school and once in college) I was in situations where I was asking someone out and I could tell they were calculating in their heads the risks of rejecting me, and both times I said, out loud, "you can say no, I wouldn't have asked if I wasn't prepared for either answer." And then they said no. This wasn't some spark of special wisdom I had - I knew to do it because feminist conversations among my age group brought it up regularly. This isn't happening nearly enough anymore.

More recently, I was really glad when we got to "rejection sensitive dysphoria" in my IOP program and it was one of those symptoms where the therapists really emphasized how it affects others. Because it does.

Being someone who cannot handle rejection makes you much more likely to violate boundaries, and yes, that includes sexual ones. Yes, you, reader who has never hurt a fly. If you don't want to stumble backwards into sexually assaulting someone, fix your RSD meltdowns. If you keep them up it's only a matter of time. Because if you're nice enough to interact with, but are known to have RSD meltdowns, guess what happens when your friends and acquaintances need to reject you?

artsarasp

Two lovely commissions for @jayellezed 's fic "Reflections in Broken Glass" !

#rAAAAAAAAGH #Sara once more with the good shit #svsss

hometoursandotherstuff

#but make it bingqiu lmao

dono-cho

noctuast

its hard learning carving jade from scratch :(

the concept of jade dragon SY blatantly stolen inspired by @dark-elf-writes ‘s abyss ruler!SY AU!! go check the AU out or else Bingbing will sic Shen Yuan on you!!

#svsss #luo binghe #shen yuan #bingyuan #oh my goodness oh my goshhhh i love this #ges yes ues yes yes

charlataninred

Character duo where one *remembers I don’t like fitting characters into trope boxes* is a completely fleshed out and realised person *remembers treating characters as real people and not story devices written with intent is bad* who is written by the author and *remembers death of the author* uh. And *fumbles and drops my pile of queue cards* ah fuck wait no *the menacing horse* what was that.

mrskayathefrog

why were you holding cue cards if you weren't even reading them?

charlataninred

*looks down at the cards at my feet* uh *they all just say “commit to the bit”* um. *kicks them away* emotional support?

orpheuslament

this recent trend of teenagers using genAI chatbots to talk to fictional characters is fucking grim. what you should be doing is roleplaying on private messages with your friends until the lines between you & the characters begin to blur & you develop some very complex & confusing feelings for each other that culminate in a massive fallout you dont have the tools to process nor understand