I traded in my memory.

main blog. many, many fandoms with a sprinkling of personal stuffs. you can read more about me here. you can find my more personal spoonie journal here. welcome and thanks for visiting!

[bebx]

[cottagewarlock]

you know what’s a good feeling? a real good feeling?

when sunbeams do this.

that is all.

[awkwardtrekphotos]

[richist-deactivated20150511]

I have bullshitted my way through almost two decades of life

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

at some point you gotta question if you’re really bullshitting. a lot of us dismiss our own efforts bc imposter syndrome is a ubiquitous lil’ bastard. if you made it this far, statistically you’re probably making as real an effort as the next person go easy on yourself

feeling like you aren’t doing enough !== reality  

you’ve been taught to dismiss your own efforts. you’re doing plenty

[positivedoodles]

I’m trying to expand this project and add all kinds of new features. If you want to help, you can pledge 1$ to my patreon here, and in exchange, you’ll get access to a second project where I try to create the coziest/warmest art collection on the internet.

[odairannies]

which ben wyatt are you today?

[feelingsofaithless]

[anxietyproblem]

[feelingsofaithless]

LPTVs → MTM Era: End of Projekt Revolution 2008

[theironman]

‘’yall need to chill’’ says me, who isn’t chill, not even a little bit.

[p-trichor]

The Hargreeves as John Mulaney quotes

(because I’m John Mulaney trash and now I’m TUA trash too)

Luther

Diego

Allison

Klaus

Five

Ben

Vanya

[sarahseeandersen]

[8j]

might fuck around and recreate my identity

[bemusedlybespectacled]

fucking christ I am sobbing

“If the men find out we can shapeshift, they’re going to tell the church!“

[pyreo]

i didnt learn anything about contouring but that’s okay

[lovemagicjoy]

[datingcptsd]

Try to remember that your partner might need more explanation for your thought process than you think is necessary, especially if it’s a “negative” thought.

“I disagree with you” –> “I disagree with you, but I’m not angry at you, and I’m not going to yell at you for not agreeing with me.”

“I’m hurt by what you did” –> “I’m hurt by what you did, but I don’t hate you, and I don’t think you’re a bad person. I just want to discuss it.”

“I’m frustrated” –> “I’m frustrated, but it doesn’t mean I don’t care about you.”

What feels obvious to you–the underlying asumption that of course you still love this person, of course this is just a single feeling–is not obvious to someone who has been trained to flinch at every criticism. Take the time to explain your feelings and their meanings to ease both your fears.

[youthincare]

Why does this need to be addressed? Because cptsd involves a power imbalance with someone you had a relationship with (partner/caregiver, etc.) that abused their power with you continuously. 

The aftermath of the abuse leaves you now more conditioned to believe that someone does not love you if they express any negative tone towards you. This helps with assurance and validation. 

[daggers-drawn]

omfg this would help me so much.

[bedannibal-lectaurier]

I just want Hallmark Christmas movies but with lesbians: 

You’re a hot shot femme reporter stuck in our small town for Christmas when your car breaks down and I’m the soft butch mechanic who owns the only garage. 

I almost asked you to the Winter Ball in high school fifteen years ago, but chickened out, but now we’re both home for Christmas and single and maybe we’ve got a second chance?

You’re a cold-hearted businesswoman and I’m one of Santa’s Elves whose been put on probation and if I can’t teach you the true meaning of Christmas, they’ll never let me back in the North Pole. 

[bedannibal-lectaurier]

I can’t believe this post got something like 2k+ notes! Here are some more Hallmark Homo for the Holidays movies: 

We’ve always been rivals at the Annual Christmas Cookie bake-off, but when we get snowed in at the Town Hall the night before the competition and are forced to Huddle for Warmth, it could be love. 

I’m a lonely veterinarian who hasn’t had a date in years, but this Magical Christmas Cat that I rescued keeps bringing hot women by the clinic and now I don’t know how to choose. 

I’m a poor single mom struggling to keep my toy store afloat and you’re Santa Claus’ daughter looking for a Mrs. Claus of her very own. Can we find love and save the family business before midnight on Christmas Eve?

[angeliclizard]

Yes please. Give me corny holiday lesbians

[lynati]

Friendly reminder that this year’s Christmas is on a full moon. Just saying.