Deer

20+ y/o | He/It | Minors DNI

[transdeerboy]

🍂 Hey! This is my blog, you can call me either by Deer (& Dear), Bun (& Hun) or Prey; I'm open to other nicknames (Boytoy, Puppet, Toy, etc), but best to ask first.

🌿 The name says it all, but I'm an aroallo trans guy, my main attraction is to men so my content will mainly be mlm and potentially t4t. Otherwise first nsft blog made, so trying to figure out how to work this.

🌾 Bellow the cut it's a list of my kinks, while I tag my content, please do mind them.

🍁 If I've rebloged you and you're on my DNI or vice-versa: please tell me and provide a link for me to delete, I've most likely not noticed.

🌻 My DMs are open for platonic stuff only. I have a bf and I love him dearly, thank you ♡♡♡

My Kinks:

• Predator / Prey • Breeding • Hypnosis • Knife kink • Somnophilia • Teratophilia (Monsters) • Exophilia (Aliens) • Praise kink • Slight degradation kink • Size kink • Pet Play • Some CNC/Previously consented DubCon •

Curious about/open to:

• Piss play/Omorashi • Mommy/Daddy kink • Safe/Soft Vore • ForceMasc •

Hard Nos/DNI:

• Minors

• Raceplay • Detrans & forced feminization • Blood play • Permanent Marking • Scat • Age play/DDLG • Feederism • Vomit • Pregnancy •

• Basic DNI: islamophobes/antisemites, LGBTQ+phobes, pedos, zoos, ProAna/Mia

[transdeerboy]

Random ass question, is there a thing like a submissive stone top?

[sum1sgottasayit]

A guy made of slime who fills you with "his eggs" but they're actually concentrated pieces of himself that transform you into a slimeguy like him. Get "bred" into a handsome slime today!

[prec1ousboy]

Fuck machines are an amazing invention. Literally a toy that uses you, and does so relentlessly. Even when your legs give out and you whine that you can't take any more it'll keep pounding. Never slowing, never giving you a break. Just drilling your poor hole insatiably. It's perfect for needy little human fleshlights like me

[leatherfags]

[secret-subject]

If you hate doing laundry try hypnotic drugplay. So imagine while you are taking your meds someone whispers, "whoops I forgot to tell you what I put in that" and as you collapse to the floor you're given the pile of clothes so you can be docile, obedient and useful folding them.

[steelestallion]

It’s that easy.

[infectiouspiss]

somnophillia is super funny like im honk shoo honk shoo having a good nights sleep and now you must pass the ultimate test of fucking me without waking me by knocking something over or stepping on a crisp packet i've left on my floor. can you finish your mission while my pet geckos judge you from their tanks? because they're not leaving the room okay the geckos stay in here. also the markiplier fnaf playlist stays on. i sleep better when he's screaming.

[infectiouspiss]

all kink stuff is playing pretend but with somno you're not playing pretend you're locked in you're comfy cozy you're snug as a bug in a rug and your partner is playing pretend instead

[infectiouspiss]

and like. if you're the one awake you're playing pretend so hard right now like ouuuuhhh look at me i'm a scary evil intruder or a demon or vampire or whatever we're doing tonight and now i just have to uhhhh okay shimmy the duvet off and shhh dontfucking breathe so loud and okayyyyy alright now. ah shit they're sleeping in the family guy death pose how the fuck do i get in there how. how do i. help. why are these geckos looking at me.

[infectiouspiss]

plus you have to not get too scared when freddy fazbear jumpscares you or else you're waking them up with your screams

[lourainwoods-in-the-woods]

[infectiouspiss]

oh great and this guy's here in the cuck box wondering if the screaming is me waking up or markiplier dying or toy bonnie throwing a tantrum

[spiraledfaun]

we need more gender neutral hypno content

[spiraledfaun]

-people who are neither men nor women exist

-not everybody has the same combo of "[gendered or non-gendered term they want to be called]" + [genitalia] + [gender/sex/species label], and some people struggle to enjoy hypnomedia when it doesn't align

-the content is open to more types of people

-nothing ruins my day more than something presented as baseline brainwashing or hypnosis content being absolutely smothered in "good girl" subliminals

[transdeerboy]

I think I finally understand why Roderick from Diary of a Wimpy kid had such a hold on me when I was younger...

And why he still does to a degree? It's mostly just Devon Bostick ngl, he's the best, did you guys know he was in Oppenheimer? I didn't even notice him.

[transdeerboy]

How do I feel about feeling genuine yearn and a lot of other scary emotions whenever I see anything remotely forcemasc?

How do I feel about breaking down and crying while looking at forcemasc images?

How do I feel about being so fucking scared about transitioning while also feeling like if I don't do it soon enough I just might slowly die in some ominous nebulous way?

What are you, a cop?

[forcemascpropaganda]

No cis girl is that obsessed with gay men

[mollyjames]

Hypnosis is such a funny kink put to practice. What if we centered ourselves and focused on mindful breathing? Only you know, sexy.

[roughribo]

I want to share something someone told me when I first started out as a dom because it was kind of a lightbulb moment for me as an emotional sadist. At the time I was doing aftercare but I didn't understand what psychologically recovering from a scene really meant. Then someone put it into dom terms and it just sort of clicked. So I thought I'd share in case anyone else needs to hear it.

As a degrader and a sadist it's so hot that some subs will be as pathetic as you want them to be... so don't fuck around with their emotions outside of that, that sub is already literally playing with and altering their emotions for your benefit and pleasure. You're overstressing the emotion muscle if you do and rest is essential to any healthy exercise.

You're not giving their feelings any time to rest and recover if you cause emotional distress outside of playtime and you're not giving them the safety and security to play with their emotions again. If you consistently play with humiliation, degradation, or other forms of psychological sadism, you need to be aware of this and plan accordingly.

Avoid big talks or heavy topics immediately after, and do things that will lift your partner's mood in the days following an intense scene even if their mood doesn't need a lift. While you can't see it, by doing that, you've essentially put an emotional ice pack on a sore muscle.

For physical injuries lift the area affected so it can circulate and heal better. For emotional ones it's the same process, lift their mood so positive feelings can circulate and help the recovery along.

[roughribo]

A little addendum I think bears mentioning since this post has been blowing up my notes lately:

It's easy for doms to understand that some subs are turned on by embarrassment, shame, humiliation, degradation, objectification, etc. That is an easier concept to grasp. But I think that's a bit of a simplified way of putting it and a more accurate way to explain what's going on is that some subs experience embarrassment, shame, humiliation, degradation, objectification, etc from their dom and are turned on by it.

I think putting the emphasis back on the painful emotion the submissive is putting themselves through is such an important distinction that needs to be made more often. Sometimes the fact that the sub is still experiencing these very powerful negative emotions during sex or scenes (for your benefit by the way, doms) gets lost in translation when someone says "it makes me horny when you humiliate me."

But they're NOT just horny when you humiliate them, they're still also humiliated. And for those of you saying "well duh, of course" please just trust me when I say, as a dom myself who went through learning this and has helped so many other doms learn this, that most doms are absolutely not making this connection at all and that's why my post above has been reblogged a bunch of times by both doms and subs.

As a dom, what we are incorrectly assuming is that the input is 'humiliation' and the output is 'horny' based on what we see and how our sub reacts when we play like this. We are not registering that they are also still humiliated because in the moment they're acting horny. It's an easy logical error to make due to faulty observations and this mistake isn't just limited to male doms in my experience. A lot of folks from all walks of life don't quite grasp this at first. And once you do grasp this you can give better aftercare.

The reality is that the output is both horny and humiliation and your aftercare as a dom better contain ways to treat the emotional pain you inflicted on your sub. In this case, reassurance (I'm so proud of you/of how much you took for me) and positive affirmations (you make me so happy, you're so beautiful/smart) are a hell of a drug for making sure their psyche stays intact and recovers properly.

[bugboy-haven]

"My daughter turned out fine"

Your son is touching himself because I called him a good boy and threatened to shove my cock down his throat

[godlikedyke]

you can seriously absorb endless droves of information on the socially conservative (sexual, but often gender as well) politics underlying tumblr users conception of sex and sexuality by seeing the basis on which they rally against “problematic” kinks, like for example so many people got personally grossed out and offended by the concept of misgendering in kink context (reasonable, fine) that they then refused to investigate any of that feeling or the reality of people consensually enjoying it together and instead created a litany of arguments centered on morality to justify that grossout going forward after the fact, and made an absolutely noxious culture of secrecy and witchhunting around it because of this. cuz people are still into it, even when the atmosphere around it was suffocating a few years back the tags were still popping off, so instead they just get ashamed and seek it from shitty people since their peers whom they respect think people into it should be drawn and quartered. like it’s completely understandable being put off by it but painting everyone who has interest as morally corrupt or useless brainwashed victims is just immature. and if you’ve been on here a while you can watch the exact same process play out against a load of other kinks. like age regression. or feeding. you’re just trying to find a way to justify your knee jerk disgust through the lens of hodge-podge vague progressiveness instead of looking inward or having empathy. unserious…!

[godlikedyke]

like you may think im exaggerating or making mountains out of molehills but like two years ago (again, a point in time which wasn’t even the worst of it for insecurity rage around sex) i reblogged a post about supporting kinky trans ppl for pride and wrote tags just saying my sentiment goes to trans people into misgendering as well since they’re oft maligned and i got multiple dms from followers i literally don’t know going on about how disappointed they were i was to be ““supporting transphobes”” and angrily blocking me. like girl you’re crazy were exclusively talking about trans people playing kink. there’s something absolutely fascinating at the heart of what drives this kind of behavior and im not squirming away from it

[bl00d-f3t15h]

its also worthy noting how so many of these arguments rest on the idea that trans people arent the masters of their own bodies and wants, while cis people Are. people rarely use those same arguments against cis people who enjoy being feminized (being called a girl, "forced" wearing of feminine clothing, makeup etc.) or masculinized (head shaved, "forced" to penetrate, being called a boy/masc terms like faggot etc) those arguments are reserved for trans people. while imo there is a negligible difference between the two, they both engage in gender-play.

[ghostlybunnyfiend]

Southern man, Southern trans man, Southern trans man who will forcemasc me, Southern trans man who will bully me, Southern trans man who will praise me, Southern trans man who will let me suck his dick, Southern trans man who will call me honey or sweetie or darling, Southern trans man who will blow smoke in my face while I'm riding him

Sigh* Southern trans man (♡///♡)

I AM A MAN. Any misgendering will be met with being blocked immediately.