how can i talk dirty to someone?? what really gets you going ??? i wanna be prepared and confident help
mmmm half asleep n on pain med s but leggo so like. dirty talking. griffin, how do i do that???? how do i make the ppl wanna do teh sex w just my words??? well. you gotta just,,,,,
okay so like do u have an established dynamic?? n not like dom/sub or whatever, but like that could work too. are you flirty wiht them? shy??? acting shy but really a ho???? get down ur Persona, u know?????
tell them what you want. both in the sense of tell them what you want to tell them but also like tell them what you want. “i wanna suck ur dick” like okay, this is good, now we have a jumping-off place. “i wanna suck ur dick n have you grab my hair and tell me i’m a pretty whore” like fuCk dude!!! now we getting somewhere!!!!
don’t be embarrassed!!! once i accidentally sent a “™” and i was gonna Kms but they just laughed it off and all was good again. lil hiccups are okay!!! 99.9995% of ur sexual experiences are gonna have giggles, or typos, or a knee in a crotch when it really shouldnt’ be and that’s okay!! ur sex happenings aren’t gonna be as clean and neat and perfect as in porn, or as in fics. nad that’s good!! did u know sometimes they take porn shots up to four times???? like dude!!!! sall good!!!
ummmm did we already cover honesty??
oh oh oh also. if you’re being a little/pet/any sort of more submissive role, please please please contribute to the convo!!! as someone who generally acts as a dom, it’s r e a l l y kind of annoying when i’m typing out paragraphs like “you wanna be good for me, right, you’re gonna be good for me and you’re gonna be quiet while i prep you until you’re drooling around my fingers yadda yadda yadda” and all i get is a “yes, sir.” if ur partner like “eat me out” don’t just be like “ya lol” be like “ya lol n imma make it good by dragging my nails down ur thighs, making you a mess, making you come apart while u fuck my tongue”
fuck, man, this ended up long, but i hope i communicated something??? words???? was thiseven in english?????? whatever. have fun, stay safe, and beck of luck to u, all of u
~griffin
