Transplural

[transpluralrealness]

TransPlural Blog

this blog will be to talk about TransPlural tips,advice,resources and exprinces! Cis Plural can also interact to share exprinces,opnions,recommendations ETC!

Feel free to Submit confessions with tips,confessions,advice exprince etc and maybe even find transplural friends!

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Rules

- Dont Be Anti-TransPlural, Duh.

- Dont Say something that will get me banned

- Be Respectful of everybodys system and system origin

- Just Block Me if you dont like whats happening. Reporting me will do no good

[transpluralrealness]

we're transEC-DID (basically HC-DID but without the requirement of having gone through OEA/RAMCOA). haven't managed to actually make any transition progress, but pretending is good enough for us for now

This is fire twin, pretend prn heart out. Be whatever prn wants and do whatever prn wants!

Guys am i super cool and woke for using prn instead of you/j

[transpluralrealness]

Damn... It's already been one year...? What the fahhhh?!? 🥹

I'm so happy to have been spending all this time with the community and supporting you all while you supported us!!!!

💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕🌸

[transpluralrealness]

PluralSpace (the one by Drex, not the AI one) is a pretty good plural website! It's pro-endo, and while I don't know the dev's stance on radqueers I doubt they'll take issue with radqueers using the site.

Link here: https://pluralspace.app/

Drex is also working on app versions, which will hopefully be out sooner rather than later.

So far it looks awesome and I would totally recommend!!

My favorite features are:

Despite being a web app/website you can still upload photos instead of needing a link

You can create multiple systems on one account aposed to having to sort it all yourself

All the things you can add & change by yourself

Easy to understand format. Not exactly like simply plural, closer to ourcana but still similar!

If anybody needs help with navigating t e site, feel free to ask and I'll figure it out ASAP!

[transpluralrealness]

I have to admit I have considered trying to become a willogenic system before but I don’t know if I should since 1 it’s permanent 2 I’m chorno a minor so it might harm my school life 3 I think my partner might not want to be with me anymore if I did that cuz she might feel like I’m a different person

You can always dabble in being transplural. Where you don't TRULY make new altered personality states, but you act like it. As a "free trial" I suppose?

It can in fact harm your school life, dissociation and all of that is extremely hard to cope with during school, hut honestly it'll be hard even when you're older. You can maybe do it during summer break, to get comfortable with your Plurality

Id say to likely explain to your partner what you're doing if you can, and just don't be mean to them or have your headmate be mean, most of the time when people complain about that it's because they feel distant from their partner or their becoming a bad person

Good luck, I hope you figure it all out! You've got this!!! [Also feel free to give suggestions in the comments for this person]

[transpluralrealness]

okay so basically heni (ourcana dev) has said nazi shit, allegedly harassed other devs, equated having a dni to being in a cult, banned someone from the official server for pets pronouns, and other such things. op of the post i linked deleted it since i sent the first ask because she accused them of stalking and harassment. there's a blog dedicated to archiving it all but i don't remember the url right now

I did nyat know thyat....! Fahhhhh

So back to square one when it comes to finding a supportive website/app for plural beings to use... GREAT!!

Any one who is not extremely problematic and is pro-endo / neu or pro rq PLEASE make a functional site/app for rad queer folks.... Id love you for itt~~~~

Disclaimer— I do not know anything truly about the drama besides what has been told to me through these asks and I don't want to take OFFICIAL sides, but I do not support hate and harassment of other beings— thats a belief that's important to us down to the core.

I do also believe in second chances and I believe I saw the dev (I think) saying they apologized or something but I'm to tired to read to much, and progress is subjective!

I don't truly know what that ^ Tangent was about, I woke up 3 minutes ago and I have the "forever sleepy" disorder (sleep apnea) so please forgive me if I sound stupid 💕💕💕

[transpluralrealness]

I want more headmates. I feel like I should have more. I want to have a big group, not very few individuals, most of whom never interact with me.

But my system currently functions with very heavy dissociation. Like, I still have a scar on my shoulder from spacing out and losing full awareness of my surroundings. “Splashing cold water on myself so that my vision stops going weird” is just… a regular occurrence. I’m scared if I make more headmates my dissociation will worsen, even if I don’t know how rational that fear is.

Transitioning from a low-headcount DID system to my ideal (high headcount non-disordered endo) is not for the faint hearted.

Stay safe! 🫰we wish you luck in your journey and transition, and with figuring your brain out and everything else🙈🫰🫰🫰!

[transpluralrealness]

thought you should know about the stuff in this post: https://www.tumblr.com/systemprojects/812104563513573376/system-app-ourcana

Waittt I was so late I didn't get to see it, can somebody explain it to meeee? PLEASEEEEE!!! IVE BEEN SOOOO BUSY (and I lowki forgor I had Tumblr and was rad queer for a bit lmfao)

[foxboyqueer]

I'm bored. Reblog with transid flags and I might try to use its color palette to make a character design

Uhh sorry if I don't get to yours I have very fluctuating motivation 💔 I just wanna try and do something bc I'm bored

[transpluralrealness]

heh heh hehhhh

you know what ich wants....

-rekii/meruru

[radqueer-hell-confessions]

I genuinely hate when accounts have a trans/tris/cisid as their username. it’s so unbelievably tacky and annoying (TO ME).

[transpluralrealness]

yeah...haha....who would uhmm do that... def not us!

- rekii/meruru

[transpluralrealness]

hpw does one start discovering they are transplural? I suspect I have OSDD and curently identify as median. But, I feel like I am supposed to be a DID system. I yearn for the dissociative barriers, amnesia, distinct alters, etc. but, I don't know where to start or how to confirm I actually want this. Truth be told, I feel really gross for even considering it. I'm not Radqueer myself, I just really resonate with the transplural/transDID label. I'm also working through a lot of internalized pluralphobia, since I used to be a sysmed. So, all of this is really overwhelming and I could use some help figuring things out.

for us its always been an envy and feeling uncomfrtable when people refer to us as not plural. almost like how somebody knows their transgender. like it feels like something deep down a part of you and putting a label on it feels *right* and comforting.

ysing an id to feel better/ less shitty about something is ver common and completely valid! it has no true rules, so if it makes you feel better go ahead!

unfortunabley self hatred espically pluraphobia can be hard but its never something u need to stick with. id with it if you want or semi-id with it or id with it in secret. CDD are well,, complex—lollll — so just labeling it however you want is best!

radqueer prides itself on being accpting of anybody and everybody no matter how they identitfiy so whatever you choose this blog will always be open for you all even if youre not radqueer

rekii/moruru { hx/hyrm/ixx}

[transpluralrealness]

as a newer transplural system I need tips

I want more alters since I only have gotten 5 alters (3 are BAH and 2 aren’t)

plus I NEED some way to feel like I’m dissociating or i need a way to dissociate

(PS : I’m resting out plurality and I think I’m gonna stick to it)

headphones with music or just a quite place. stare at one place and dont move much, alow your breathing, just imagine headspace or the same thing happening over and over that will keep you intrested (like sheep jumping over a fence) or imagine the alter and everything about them that you're trying to switch in. i also liked to do it to subliminals. check youtube!

theres a different post that has some tips on dissociation/switching if you want! aswell as roles.

id say for now just focus on your 5 known alters, and also i like to pretend i have more alters that havent fronted or the host dosent know about >:)

just dont rush anything, things can ge tout of hand FAST so just keep a system (pun not intended) on how you do things and practice communication and giving them autonomy!

[transpluralrealness]

try ourcana!!!!!!

Oooo we just did and its pretty cool actually!

Thank you so much anon!! We appreciate it very much!!! The o ly thing that sucks is the face we NEED to use profile links and its such a hassle but alas

[transpluralrealness]

a little update!

ive tryd it and have been using it morr and its a really amazing webapp/website/apk wtv!! it has customization for names of different things and a fun layout

the profile link is still a little annoying but not to annoying to deal with. i like it better than simply plural a little. id love for it to have the other Simply plural specifc things (friends,changing the accent colors((the yellow)), privacy buckets and different pages for custom information) but thats just my& opinion!!

-Hanako or Mitusba [it/he/they/ghost]

[transpluralrealness]

A tip I found for fronting!:

STEP 1 - lay down. preferably on your bed because it's most comfortable. The position doesn't matter but make sure it's comfortable so you won't break focus by needing to move.

STEP 2 - you can have a TV/video playing in the background to help with the silence/provide stimulation/trigger a switch. it's best to choose something like an ambience/ a song that isn't completely silent but also isn't too loud/chaotic to the point that it drags your attention away.

STEP 3 - make sure your entire body is relaxed. some people struggle to recognize when muscles are relaxed/tense so a tip is your body will automatically relax when it gets into a comfortable position and a key sign is parts of your body feeling a bit heavier/limp.

STEP 4 - call forward a headmate. which, if you're confused by this step; it helps to kind of imagine yourself then imagine them walking over to you. you may be able to tell when they're there because you may feel another presence/an overall difference, even if you can't name the feeling.

STEP 5 - you can also attempt to engage your headmates by bringing up things they like, for example: asking for their opinion, or just imagining yourself sitting/laying down/chilling with them.

STEP 6 - focus on any twitches/slight movements that you aren't causing. Don't try to stop them and don't act like they bother you or anything. Just let your headmates know that you don't care and that they're free to control the body/front.

STEP 7 - continue doing this until they get more comfortable.

I forgot who this came from tho… -KL

!!!! These seem cool!!! Hope this helps somebody 🥹💞💞💞

[transpluralrealness]

try ourcana!!!!!!

Oooo we just did and its pretty cool actually!

Thank you so much anon!! We appreciate it very much!!! The o ly thing that sucks is the face we NEED to use profile links and its such a hassle but alas

[transpluralrealness]

So im sure everybody heard that simply plural will be shut down by june 1st the earliest.

This sucks!! Perosnally we moved over to amper sand but found out it cant handle higher alter counts wich will be a problem for us

And otocon has an allgegd predator on their team...

Edit : their also shutting down!

Most alternatives are medicore, require to many othe raplication to fill in gaps (wich we dont have enough space for or the brain memory for)

Or are anti-endo!!!

Please if any radqueer web develpoers can code we need a neu/pro radqueer or pro/neu endo app!

[transpluralrealness]

we’re cisplural but we love and support u guys! we rlly like u all

Thank you! Us trans plurals love all our cis plural friends/supporters/family !!!

Let us all hold hands and sing kumbaiya or however its spelt ;w;