horse

ftm 19 he/they/it send me hatemail the attention makes me giddy(up)

[transtallion]

hi you can call me beau

this is a sideblog to talk about my experiences as a trans person and possibly other stuff like my system & being exmormon

I'm a genderqueer trans man.

[directionlesshotdog]

If a trans woman tells you she’s straight and your response is to say “I’m sorry”, I want you to know that you’re gross. You’re putting down the sexualities of queer people when we tell you who we are.

If your response to a trans woman saying she’s straight is to make a joke about spaghetti or to ask if she’s sure, I want you to know that you’re gross. You aren’t helping, you’re telling us that our sexualities are not serious to you.

If your response to a trans woman saying she’s straight is to tell her she isn’t queer or that trans spaces aren’t for her, I want you to know that I despise you. You’re not just gross, you're an exclusionary piece of shit. You aren’t a feminist either, don’t pretend to be otherwise. Grow up or shut up.

[transtallion]

when someone mentions something bad a trans person did and then ends it with "i estimate [x] until they detrans"

yeah ok every trans person you disagree with is gonna detransition because trans people are innocent uwu babies who can never do anything wrong

[transtallion]

i wish laptops was about tops that sit in your lap

[transtallion]

we gotta start biting people

[transtallion]

i think intersex people should be allowed to kill someone when they want

[transtallion]

tried to politely tell some1 the h slur is a slur and get insulted. "perisex white knight" youd insult an intersex person telling you that too be for real

[transtallion]

i think intersex people should be allowed to kill someone when they want

[transtallion]

year of the horseboys

[transtallion]

every so often i remember the time when i was younger that my therapist suggested me to use intersex people to explain transness to my parents. like using igm to explain wanting gender affirming surgeries... genuinely concerning how bad some therapists are

[transtallion]

seeing a trans gal with my deadname is kinda cool. i always thought it was lackluster and basic but someone chose it for themself... that's nice

[transtallion]

people will see a post about how trans people who don't plan to take HRT are valid and say "so you think trans people shouldn't have access to HRT" its insane

[transtallion]

fandom discourse that confuses me:

you can't make a fem woman bisexual into a lesbian but people can make a bisexual man into a butch lesbian? I've seen this happen a surprising amount. aren't they both erasure

[transtallion]

"transfem misogynists are like that bc of male socialization" is basically just saying "cis women can't be misogynists"

to which I say have you ever met a non leftist woman. even some leftist women but like go outside find a middle aged christian woman ask about a girl wearing revealing clothes

[transtallion]

the meme is funny but please dont forget that some grown men DONT have cock and balls

[punkitt-is-here]

now some of you might be wondering why I, a very loudly transgender type of girl, might reblog transmasc joy posts. That is because I love seeing people happy and actualized :]

[velvetvexations]

[a-trans-comic-by-me]

[smokeytoastyghosty]

Me: yep

Me: sees trans man not binding and one in a dress

Me : nope!

You didn’t have to draw a trans man with boobs sis, thanks for the dysphoria babeey

[trainwreckbisexual]

if u get dysphoric when u see a boob that’s understandable but its also your problem to deal with n u don’t get to shame other trans dudes for drawing people like them with visible breasts. as much as it sucks, most trans men do have non flat chests and it’s not a bad thing to draw trans men with breasts (unless ur sexualising them, or ur drawing a real life trans man who’s dysphoric about his chest).

also u can’t have a go at op for drawing a trans man without a binder bc it makes u dysphoric n then call him sis. dont be a fuckin hypocrite dude.

anyways good post op

[maraeffect]

some trans men can’t bind for medical reasons. some don’t prefer to bind bc it’s uncomfortable, and hot, and sweaty!!! some trans men arent that bothered by chest dysphoria!

trans people are not required to attempt conformity to be valid in their identity. no one is required to try and “look cis”. that’s your own shit to deal with.

[eroticcannibal]

Thank you for drawing trans men who aren’t binding and who wear feminine clothes, OP, seeing trans people like myself really helps with my dysphoria

[transmxnfenris]

I can’t bind because of my severe asthma and pain in my ribs from fibromyalgia. So seeing trans men who aren’t binding really helps my crippling dysphoria. Thanks op (also disabled trans men aaaaaah! 💖)

[bleepblopbugs]

Also some trans men cant afford a binder, or are closeted, or itt isnt safe where they live to bind, binding isnt a necessity v

[xaira-gabvi]

Also trans men, just like cis men, are allowed to wear dresses.

[transtallion]

i think trans women and cis women are equally as likely to be misogynists and it doesn't have anything to do with "male socialization"