Also, do not walk close to walls. It will be easier for someone so walk past you and push you against it or corner you.
If your gut is telling you to cross the street or change your path, do it. Don’t risk it. Your body knows.
If you can, buy a large umbrella and walk holding it. Studies say that predators are less likely to attempt an attack on someone that could fight back. Keys around your knuckles is fine but you’ll need to get very close to do damage. Umbrellas are more precise.
Avoid wearing headphones if you are alone on an empty street. Look aware.
Again: Stay. Away. From. Walls.
Entering an uber alone? Call your father (or anyone you trust) and say “hey dad! Yep, I’m almost there, I’m sending you the route.” outloud. Then proceed to send them the route so they can follow the uber drive. This will most likely intimidate the predator.
If you see someone in an uncomfortable or possibly dangerous situation, walk up to them and say “Betty, oh my god, I haven’t seen you in so long!”. If she gets slightly confused, you can whisper and let her know you’re trying to help and that she should follow along. Walk together to another station or away from where you are. The man will most likely not follow. I have done this one 2 times and can be very helpful.
If you are unsure she needs help, you can pass her a note saying something like “hey, I noticed this man beside you is making you uncomfortable. If you’d like help, fake a sneeze right now and I will come up to you and pretend we are friends.” This is a long note, but its an example. Be discrete. If she follows along, proceed with the previous tip. This is helpful when you’re in a crowded train and you notice harassment.
Help your sisters. Trust them. Trust yourself. Be safe.
I made this google doc covering 14 different self defense tips and tricks. it was made on January 15th, 2020 so it was before I decided I’d come back to tumblr jhjshdbjfh.
EVERY TIME I SEE THIS I REBLOG BECAUSE THIS IS SUPER IMPORTANT!!!!!
Just saw a video explaining why putting a key between each finger is more likely to hurt you than them (the keys will just get pushed back into your knuckles). A better way to hold them is to get your longest key and just clench your hand around it, like you’re making a fist. That’ll give you a lot more force and means you can use them in more scenarios (if someone grabs you from behind, you can use the key this way)
If you are being followed, go to somewhere with high security like a jewellery store or a bar, if you can, and say what’s happening (the jewellery store and bar are best shots because they’re the most likely ones to believe you, the bar for obvious reasons and the jewellery store because there’s not likely to be a huge presence of toxic masculinity so you’ll be believed)
I hate it so much that i have to reblog this and that we still need this, but it’s so important!! Please everyone (yes also boys/men/enbys/genderfluids/everyone) stay safe out there!!
-if you’re walking alone w/ headphones in, either have one earbud out at all times or have the music/podcast/audiobook/whatever you’re listening to on low and always listen for footsteps or other noises coming from behind you
-If there is a strange looking man in front of your building who doesn’t live there, walk around the block until he leaves so he can’t figure out that you live there and so he can’t kidnap you
-if a man is groping you against your will, go for the balls. always go for the balls. It’ll 1) hurt like hell, and 2) shock him to the point where you can probably run away and get help.
1: if you’re reading a book with a large number of pages, you know, those BIG ONES, or with the hard cover, don’t leave it at home and never bring outside. I’m not saying to bring it everywhere, but if you are going to any possible dangerous places alone, bring them, in a purse or even by hand (to show it to everyone). Believe me, if you hit someone with it, it will hurt them!!
2: hairspray works just like pepper spray
3: if your being attacked, and you don’t have any pointed objects, neither training, put your fingers on the predators eyes and press it. With all your strength, it will leave them blind or disabled. Use it only if your life is in risk!
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5: the iPhones have a great setting that if you press it will call police, send them photos of your back and front cameras and send a message to the contacts you select saying your in danger; press 5times the “turn off” button and it will appear -sometimes you have to activate it before-
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I’m so happy to share these tips.
Don’t ignore pls it might save your of someone else’s life
DO YOU EVER JUST START CRYING BECAUSE YOURE LITERALLY SITTING TWO FEET AWAY FROM THE PERSON YOU LOOK IP TO AND THAT YOUVE BEEN WATCHING FOR FOUR YEARS WHILE HE’S SINGING THE FUCK OUT OF HIS LUNGS AS JD IN HEATHERS THE MUSICAL???
summary: after a fun trip to the museum reader ends up slipping and Steven and Marc try their best to take care of them.
paring: platonic!cg!Steven Grant x little!reader x platonic!cg!Marc Spector
warnings: little bit of arguing between Steven and Marc.
(pls dont steal any of my works, all of these are my own unless stated otherwise.)
Steven and [name] got home after another fun trip to the museum, though [name] was feeling a bit tired. They loved going yo the museum with Steven, and Steven absolutely loved sharing his knowledge with them, it was so much fun for the both of them.
as soon as they got home [name] went straight to their room, coming back out holding their special stuffie and their paci, immediately plopping themself on the couch.
[name] had known Steven and Marc for quite a while now so they were well aware that [name] was an age regressor.
“Stevie…” They pouted, making grabby hands towards whi yhey thought was Steven at the moment.
“Sorry kiddo, it’s Marc now-“
“No. wan Stevie.”
“You heard them Marc.. now take me take control so I can take care of [name]-“
“Maybe it’s time that I help out! You’re always spending so much time with them and taking care of them while their in little space, I think I should take a turn too!”
At this point the two where switching back and forth to argue, however before they could really start yelling they heard sniffling. When the looked over at [name] to see them crying.
“Ohh no no no, it’s ok little one.. Stevie’s here…” He immediately took [name] in his arms, holding them tightly.
“I don wan Stevie an Marc to fight….” They hugged him back, still sniffling slightly.
“I know, I know, it makes you upset… but sometimes it’s difficult having two people in the same head ans both always wanting to be in control at the same time…”
“Like.. when I wan be little an start slipping even though I has to be big..?”
“Exactly…” He gave them a small smile, almost relieved that they understood.
“m… can we watch Disney now…?”
“Of course we can! And tomorrow we’re gonna do something that involves me and Marc..”
Wanda Maximoff comforting a little reader after battle.
summary: Wanda comforting a little who after a battle saw a lot of casualties
paring: platonic!cg!Wanda x little!reader
(pls don steal any of my works, all of these are my own unless stated otherwise.)
It was after a big battle, [name] had been on quite a few missions but nothing like this. So many civilians had been lost, it was so difficult get through the mission.
Wanda made her way to the ground, walking over to [name], placing a hand on their shoulder and giving them a concerned look.
“[name]… are you ok..?” All she got in response was a swift head shake, Wanda had a feeling she knew what was happening…
“What’s wrong sweetheart…” she lowered her voice, speaking in a much softer tone “are you slipping…?”
[name] lowered their head, trying their best not to cry. Wanda looked around at the other Avengers silently telling them she was going to take [name] back to the compound before taking their hand and taking them back.
as soon as they got back [name] broke down, immediately falling into Wandas embrace.
“Hey, hey… it’s ok…. shhh, I’ve got you.” Wanda held [name] tightly, using her powers to bring over their special stuffie and their paci, handing the items to [name] as they took them willingly.
After a few minutes of Wanda soothing them in a soft voice she finally spoke up. “Are you ready to tell me what made you start slipping?” All [name] did was hide their face.
Wanda rested her head on top of [name]’s, thinking with a sigh. “was it because of what happened during the battle…”
[name] thought for a second before slowly nodding almost as if they were a bit ashamed of slipping into littlespace while on a mission.
Wanda cupped their face, making them look at her, she couldn’t help but smile at how cute they looked with their paci and stuffie.
“You have nothing to be ashamed of little angel, that mission ended ip being quite a big one and we couldn’t have known about it… you slipping into little space is completely ok…”
“youw not upthet…?” [name] tried their best to speak with the paci in their mouth.
“of course not… but next time you start to slip while on a mission.. let me know, I’ll make sure to get you back here safely…”
“youw da betht caregiber eber.” [name] tightened their grip on Wanda, clinging to her as if she were their life support.
heres a little som to hold yall over till tomorrow! (my bsf did this one)
-accidentally webbing himself up and begging for help
-crying at the end of kids movies
-often hurts himself while trying to swing in littlespace resulting in another cry session
-clinging to Strange and hanging around him for validation and care
-refuses to go near or speak to Ned or MJ in fear of ridicule
-falls asleep in web cocoon
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