Iām all for going about queerness with the goal of not being able to be understood by outsiders but like. youāve GOT to be normal about aro & ace people if you do. you canāt go on about being confusing to cishets for fun and then complain about ace & aro people who go about sex and romance and attraction in ways that donāt make sense to you.
supporting queerness that confuses others should include queerness that confuses YOU too even if youāre queer yourself.



















