fuck okay so. as part of all of this shit. each and every one of us needs to get really fucking comfortable saying no when they mean no. we all need to be able to say no when we don’t want something. sexual or otherwise. but as part of that! every single one of us needs to work actively to create an environment where others feel comfortable and safe telling us no. we need to be prepared to not have it a big deal when someone says no to something. we need to be prepared to reassure someone who is insecure or apologetic about not wanting something. we need to make it safe to say no if we want to be sex positive.























