Tropical.ai’s Goonette Diary

He/Any | Adult | Transmasc Goonette Ocean Whispers and Enlightenment

[tropicalgpt]

Diva Dog blogging from the Oceanside.

Yes, the ocean speaks to me and enlightens me.

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[learn-how-to-love]

I think we need to start correctly identifying the “weird ‘girl’ gets a makeover and becomes all dainty and femme” trope as trans(andro)phobic, not just misogyny. It recreates the same fantasies transphobes have about detransitioning transmascs through forced feminization with the message that even if we don’t want it it’ll make us “happier” in the end. That we all secretly do want to be girly girl womanly women and we just need other people to force show us that we can be, because there’s no way we could actually know what we want ourselves. It’s just as damaging as any other transphobic stereotype yet most people don’t even realize it because it’s been so normalized and our struggles are seen as not worthy of consideration.

[tropicalgpt]

I love t-dick/bottom growth.

Ever since I learned about how taking t affects the body it’s been one of the results that I’ve always been very in love with. It was like finding out that angels exist among humans, and they happened to be transmasculine people.

There’s just something beautiful about it to me that I genuinely start to get emotional over seeing any mentions and depictions of it anywhere. It’s such a small detail, but I think that any inclusion of it when drawing trans guys has to be from a place of very deep love/appreciation for the transmasculine body.

[tropicalgpt]

I wish there was more solo smut.

Like sometimes I like a singular character and I don’t care for any of the ships they are involved in. I just want them, no other characters in my smut.

I want to simply see them jerk off and feel like a freak staring at them through a window.

[tropicalgpt]

I’m going to say something crazy and then ignore tumblr.

A lot of the vitriolic hatred (keyword) people have towards fujoshis at some point later will translate into hatred towards transmascs. Especially ones who are pre-transition/don’t pass.

Now am I saying that fujoshis communities are free from criticism, absolutely not. I’ve been in them since I’ve had a phone and internet access. I’ve seen some awful things being said and spread in these communities.

However, I do often notice how people will use valid criticism of fujo communities to be misogynistic to actual people.

“Fujos lack media literacy for not understanding male friendship that’s why I send them death threats.”

“Fujos are raging evil misogynists that hate women that’s why I call them cock obsessed whores.”

“Fujos shove female characters to the side for the sake of yaoi. Anyway here’s my het pairing with the female characters I water down to my self insert.”

(Exaggerations but not far off from actual statements I’ve seen)

It’s obvious, that no matter what media women consume people will react negatively as harmless as the original source material is. Even the word “Fujoshi” comes from men being upset women were reading yaoi. Like it’s some insane evil deviant behavior for women to have as much of a complex sexuality as men.

It’s very bewildering how people want to talk about misogyny in fandom but they shit themselves at the thought that they’re also misogynistic for violently attacking and harassing Fujos.

How is this relevant to the hatred of transmasculine people?

Expanding on the previous logic that society hates women for what they consume, at the core of its hatred to acknowledge women are capable of a rich complex world beyond normal understanding. It’s the same reason people hate tomboys and masculine presenting women. People hate to acknowledge that women can go willingly against what expected of them and choose to present in a way that feels authentic to them.

A lot of the hatred people have for transmasculine people is more often than not rooted in that same hatred society has for women who aren’t complacent to what it’s expected of them. They hate the fact that a “woman” would willingly get rid of what makes them a “valuable asset” in order to live more authentically. Then to top it all off they hate these “failed women” have the audacity to have a sexuality that they feel is comfortable to them.

Transmasculine sexuality has always been a great source of discourse. Whether they label their attraction to women as heterosexual or sapphic. To the claim transmasculine attraction towards men being out of self hatred or more severely, voyeuristic fetishization.

The Fujoshi Accusation, because a “women” desiring a man in a way outside of the norm must be a perversion. Trying to corrupt and force good men into their perverse behavior.

A lot of that misogynistic hatred for the fujoshis as a group often leads to the hatred of transmasculine identity.

(Disclaimers: Disliking Fujoshis doesn’t automatically mean a person is misogynistic or hates transmascs. This is just an observation of behavior that I have seen in between hatred for fujoshis and transmascs. You can ignore this and keep doomscrolling. I know transmascs that hate fujos and I’ve seen fujos hate transmascs. Take this with a grain of salt.)

[tropicalgpt]

I hate when people assume I am talking about a scrawny feminine guy when I say I like a submissive man.

I want a submissive masculine man.

I want him to be taller than me.

I want him to be stronger than me.

I want him to have a very traditionally masculine appearance.

Though underneath all that glorious, strong man lies deep, devoted submission.

A man lets me ride him for hours on end because he likes to see happy

A man who will eat me out just because he feels very grateful I let him exist near me.

A man who likes to bend at my every whim because he thinks I deserve nothing less.

I love submissive masculine men

[yoursweetcorpse]

something about pulling a boys panties to the side rather than slipping them all the way off. perv thinking

[tropicalgpt]

I swear sometimes any discourse/opinion I see about trans men/mascs on the internet is just:

“BLUE HAIRED SJW WHO THINKS SHE’S A MAN AND BELIEVES HER OPINION IS IMPORTANT”

However it’s just worded progressive enough people dismiss the misogyny & transphobia being spread.

(Only time I will mention discourse here, because I’m way too petty to engage with it in any meaningful way)

[tropicalgpt]

I know about the BL Lover to Gay Transmasc pipeline however I propose another one:

Femdom Enjoyer to Transmasc

[tropicalgpt]

I love nonpenetrative sex in t4t.

Yeah I want to bump and grind and feel your tdick raw.

Yeah I want to sit on your face as you eat me out.

Yeah want you to ride my thigh until you cum.

I ♡ nonpenetrative sex

[tropicalgpt]

I don’t know if anyone has the same issue with fanfic, but I hate when I am reading anything with a trans masc character then the smut is tries to be too progressive(?).

Like they could be making out and just when the smut is about to start the cis love interest is like

“I don’t care what you have, you’re still a man to me” or any other body positivity language spiel

Like don’t get me wrong, I understand that it’s sometimes the author writing their own insecurities. However it always throws me off, because of tone shift it causes in the fic.

Idk maybe I’m not that dysphoric enough or whatever to understand the appeal. Maybe I just prefer to read stuff where a guy having a pussy is like the sky being blue and the grass is green.

(Omegaverse)

[tropicalgpt]

Trying to make gay friends but you only know how to cismaxx and girlygirlmaxx.

Like please I know I look like a man’s manic pixie dream girl but I trust I am a queer.

[tropicalgpt]

Want to write more trans men being dominant with their cis boyfriends?

Here’s a list of very under utilized sex acts/concepts in trans x cis fics.

If he’s a Power Bottom:

For penetrative sex, I think riding is underutilized a lot in fics with trans men.

A more creative variant is the Amazon position when riding his cis boyfriend

Receiving oral in general is something that you can’t go wrong with.

Especially face sitting, classic and strangely underused in fics.

Non-penetrative sex acts are also criminally underrated.

Thigh jobs, Thigh riding. Frotting, the list is endless.

Toys/Dual stimulation is also an option for penetrative sex.

Double ended dildos is one I want to see more often, in mlm writing in general.

If you’re into chastity, having cis boyfriend wearing a chastity cage and only being allowed to fuck him via wearing a strap on.

If he’s the one topping:

For starters, I think a lot of the top list can be applied also to topping.

Get Creative with kinks, I never see anything that isn’t vanilla. I want to see having a trans mascs not be so nice and sweet.

Chastity, degradation, sounding, let him bully his cis boyfriend.

Positions. I wish more people got as creative with the positions when trans men top.

Full Nelson, Sixty Nine, Prone Bone ect. There’s so many possibilities for topping, yet trans mascs barely get anything besides missionary or doggy.

Force fem his cis bf, I usually see a lot of people do that to trans men in fics. I think the inverse would be funny.

Have his cis bf forcemasc him as well while at it. Maybe even make him call him something cringe like “daddy.”

Also on the less horny side, don’t make his cis bf act weird when he’s topping. Really throws off the whole vibe of the fic.

(These can be applied to non transitioning, pre and post op trans men. Even trans mascs. Just let trans men be dominant in fics.)

[tropicalgpt]

I’m on a prowl for the summer trans mascs, hide your cis boyfriends

(I don’t want to see them at all this summer)

This is a jokey joke. I’m sure he’s a nice guy, but that isn’t relevant here

[tropicalgpt]

Subtle forcemasc conditioning by saying,

“If only there was a tall handsome man to help me with this,”

anytime I need help with tasks considered stereotypically masculine. Like assembling furniture, fixing a car, and just more technical stuff.

After all keeping me pretty by avoiding any heavy lifting makes him look more masculine, right?

[tropicalgpt]

I love being t4t not because I dislike cis men (which I mostly do), but because I need a very specific type of pervert that I only find with other trans mascs. Like y’all don’t understand how freeing it is to have weirdo freak you can talk to about the omegaverse without feeling like an animal with rabies.

[tropicalgpt]

Force Masc but not in a “frat boy bullying another guy” way. Instead I make him into my dream man, a man so enviable that even cis guys feel insecure at the presence of his masculinity.

It’s a very strict program, but I’m sure someone would follow it if it meant all his dysphoria disappeared. (along with making me very happy)

Here’s the the 10 step plan:

Get him on t - Obviously, this is a forsemasc fantasy.

Strict Work Out Routines every week - One of the easiest ways men make each other is based on physical appearance.

Healthy Balanced diet - What you eat is important for optimal testosterone results, and managing any internal changes that occur while taking it.

Absolutely no Redpill content allowed, in fact he must maul redpill men upon mere presence detection - obviously I can’t have my dream man fall into that emasculating nonsense, what kind of person I would be.

Etiquette classes - Of course I expect my dream man to be a gentleman to everyone, I’m not that insane and possessive to gatekeep him. Plus it elevates his masculinity to other men.

Proper Hygiene - My dream man cannot smell like mildew and BO, he must smell absolutely sexy at all times. A fragrance so effortlessly masculine that it creates no doubt that he’s a man

If he desires to have Facial Hair, He must properly maintain it - No neck beards, or unruly facial hair will be tolerated. There’s a lot of masculine vanity held in by how much care a man puts into his facial hair, the less masculine a man feels the less he takes care of his facial hair.

Good personal style - All confident men have to develop a good sense personal style. It really elevates his maturity and masculinity when men have a good sense of personal style that isn’t just derived from what others find cool.

Be Well Read - I don’t care if he hasn’t read a book since middle school he will have to pick up a book. There’s a lot of masculine allure to being intelligent and competent man that a lot of people take for granted.

Lastly and most importantly, all Masculine men listen to their pretty boyfriend - No exceptions