Quinnifer

Mostly just reblogged posts that I like and think others would enjoy

[whitecop]

USA NUMBER ONE ONCE AGAIN BABYYY WE NEVER LOSE

[truckstopsuzie]

A project I did after being r*ped by an ex-boyfriend. I feel a huge weight lifted off my shoulders and I feel like my old self again. I feel happier/healthier. While I still have nightmares about my experiences but I’m getting better after getting out of a bad relationship. I’m eating food again. I’m making friends again. I’m talking to people again. I don’t know how I let myself become a person who doesn’t fight back but I’m fighting this battle everyday.

[truckstopsuzie]

A project for self healing.

[chewbacca]

Sabrina the Teenage Witch (1996 — 2003)

[urparty]

Lesbian is a gender in and of itself 

[urparty]

Women who love women and specifically don’t love men will always have a uniquely complex relationship to womanhood in the sense that being a woman is almost inextricably tied to loving a man, so removing this from a woman’s identity removes a fundamental element from her subconscious understanding of what it means to be a woman. so many lesbians feel disconnected from womanhood not because they love other women but because they don’t love men, because this is so easy to internalize as an inherent aspect of being a woman and that makes it very easy not to feel like one. gender only exists within the societal framework which constructed it and because that society is so patriarchal and binary its perception of the woman gender is skewed through that lens. so i don’t think that society necessarily hates lesbians for loving other women, i think it hates lesbians for not loving men, for being women improperly. many women feel disconnected from womanhood for myriad reasons but this particular experience with gender and being a woman is one that belongs only to lesbians, so when i say that lesbian is its own gender this is what i mean.

[truckstopsuzie]

Pink and purple

[timdrakeothy-deactivated2022031]

hot take: ‘chivalry’ is fine as long as it’s adapted to 21st century values. if you are a male, you SHOULD be aware that your female friends face certain issues that you as a male dont. acting on that awareness in a way that keeps your female friends safe, isn’t a bad thing.

like… opening doors isn’t rly chivalrous when it’s just a thing you ought to do for everyone. but real 21st century chivalry might be, like, standing between your female friend and the guy that’s trying to get her drunk, or offering to walk her home when it’s late.

if the ‘chivalry’ inconveniences everyone involved and you’re just doing it for your over-inflated male ego — ie, “no you’re the girl here, you HAVE to let me hold this door for you and do all these things for you even when you can do it yourself and im just slowing you down” — then it’s just outdated misogyny.

[wanderingquill]

Chivalry was literally designed to make nobles aware of their power and influence so they don’t unintentionally harm people when trying to do their job of leading and protecting people. Modern chivalry should carry on that sentiment of men and white people becoming aware of their own power of privilege and influence to help and protect the lives of their peers.

*Not to inflate their egos, but because it’s the good thing to do and makes the world a better place to be.

[elfwreck]

Chivalry, at its core, involves being helpful to people who don’t have your advantages. 

It involved generosity and protecting those weaker than oneself: including opening doors when doors were made of badly fit heavy wood and often got stuck,and women, especially undernourished exhausted-from-childcare women, had a harder time opening them. It involved not lying, and following through on your promises. (A guy who is consistently late with the accounting reports, which delays the whole team, is not dedicated to chivalry, no matter how polite he is on a date.) 

Chivalry is a code of ethics that involves dedicating one’s strength and skills in service to others; it’s not based on gender roles. 

[galactic-polywag]

Chivalry is a code of ethics that involves dedicating one’s strength and skills in service to others; it’s not based on gender roles.

[mtndewbajablast]

not gonna say it again

[piefish]

D E A T H B A S K E T

[rodrickheffeley]

today is bi visibility day ✌️. don't forget to stan bider-man

[j0jin-deactivated20210309]

Audio on

[dapperdonuts]

This was in my psychology book. I thought it might be useful to those who can’t think if gender-neutral terms.

[thatscottishplay]

Finally I see something going against the implied language that suggests the male gender is the default gender, illustrated by “man-made, mankind” etc,

[pancakeke]

[mchowls-blog]

Just keep your head up, stick on the ice. You’ll do great. 

[t5t]

ah, perry the platypus! i see you fell into my trap... the strangling arms of cissexism! you may be wondering what the purpose of this machine i have pointed at the sky is. you see perry the platypus, when i was born in gimmelshtump the doctor assigned me a gender... and my family went with it! and so did i, perry the platypus! i am a cisgender male! but i decided to use my privilege as a cis man for good and came up with this new invention. behold, perry the platypus, the degenderinator! thanks to this wonder of science, no one in the tri-state area will have an assigned gender anymore, allowing trans people to live as their true gender! trans rights, perry the platypus! trans rights!!!

[mozart-in-the-madness]

No matter what bad things happen in the world, let’s just always be grateful that Glee ended before Old Town Road came out

[scooby-doo-where-are-you]

[truckstopsuzie]