move toward the light

[memory-is-treachery]

u heard him ladies

[pearlriverbaby]

Thoughts as another sense

[wizardarchetypes]

(guy who isnt beating the ocd voice) i know! maybe if i spend all night ruminating on something i feel guilty about until i’ve considered it from every possible angle and made myself physically ill, then i can finally forgive myself and i’ll feel better! 99% of morally abhorrent people stop self punishing right before they’re Absolved

[ocdheritageposts]

OCD Heritage Post

[ooppo]

Idk why but as a kid I used to get hysterically upset everytime I would imagine a gif of a rotating cow because I could never stop the cow from rotating no matter how hard I tried and I would be crying and no one knew why

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[chetungwan]

This is probably an unnecessary addition, but OCD is missed in cases like these because it's deeply misunderstood by most people.

It's talked about like being obsessively neat or repeating pointless tasks is the main part of it, when really those are just potential symptoms.

The main thing behind OCD is not being about to turn off a thought. There's a thing where most people can just stop thinking about something. If it's over, it's not relevant, it doesn't matter anymore, people can turn their attention away. For OCD, that mechanism can get stuck. And some thought that was supposed to just temporarily pass through your head just stays there. An image of an object rotating. An anxiety about something bad happening. A wish that you made on a dandelion. These are all things that have at some point gotten stuck in my head, sometimes for years at a time.

The compulsions, the rituals, are the person trying to address the thought so it can go away. After all, if you're worried about the door not being locked you can check the lock. But for someone with OCD, that doesn't make the stuck thought go away. So they check it again. And again. And they made a ritual, maybe if I check it exactly five times, I'll know that it's locked and I can let this worry go.

It helps a little. It feels like you're doing something. But it doesn't solve the problem. Actual therapy for OCD involves not doing the compulsion. Instead, you ignore the thought, move around it, try not to give it space in your life. Your mind won't let the thought go normally, so instead you fill yourself with other thoughts. Other parts of your life.

It's not easy at first. Your mind fights you on it. But as you get practice, it gets easier. You learn tricks around your own mind, ways to look at the thought and go, hm. I guess I'll go distract myself now. It does get better. I promise

[ocdheritageposts]

OCD Heritage Post

[srvienna]

[shradsmanifestt]

I promise you, This is the only loa post you'll ever need.

I promised and I will deliver.

Law of assumption basically means - what you assume to be true is true in your reality. That's it. That's all there is to it. But you guys just wanna overcomplicate this so much when all you got to do is assume in your favour and move on with that. Assume that your desire is already yours and persist on that.

Manifestation is INSTANT. The minute you decided you wanted it, the minute you decided that it is yours - It was done. That was it. It's already done. That is your new assumption, that is your story. As long as you persist in this there is nothing on Earth that could stop you from having it. BUT, there is one thing that can stop you from having it.

YOU, IT'S YOU. YOU ARE THE REASON. What other answer did you expect it to be?

The only thing to know here is this : The 3D is not what we change when manifesting, we change the 4D. The 3D simply reflects it. That is all.

You guys are so obsessed with changing the 3d, "trying" to manifest something, clicking on every clickbait video that says this is the technique you need to manifest your desire in 24 hours and all sorts of shit.

GUYS, GUYS GUYS PLEASEEEEE, Stop it. You are only telling yourself how you don't have it. You have got to realise that by now atleast! I mean c'mon. This is your reality, ok? You create every single part of it. If you can create it unconsciously, you sure as hell can do it consciously. You have to realise now and now that you are the creator of your reality. Don't let anything or anyone convince you otherwise.

Ok now I understand that some of you may be struggling so I am gonna be real straight with you. You are the one going back to the old story again and again. You're the one who is just overconsuming information instead of actually applying what you know. Stop this cycle. Look every single question you ask me again and again is an affirmation. An affirmation that tells everyone how you don't have what you want.

I've been persisting for two years but I didn't manifest it - Affirmation It feels impossible - Affirmation. Why aren't my affirmations working - Affirmation. Am I even doing this right? - Affirmation.

You are doing this to yourself. You get that??!

If you want it, you have to be willing to change yourself, to change your thoughts, to stay discplined in the story that you want. There's no other magical way to it. This is it. If you want it bad enough, OWN IT. FUCKING OWN IT AND PERSIST ON WHAT YOU WANT.

You know why you don't have it yet?? CAUSE YOU'RE SO FUCKING RELIANT ON THE 3D. Stop it. You aren't trying to change the 3d. Your only job is to change your 4d - your thoughts , your attention and awareness. The 3d has no other choice but to reflect it. 3d has no power and yk why? Cause it's so malleable and all it can ever do is reflect your 4d, your imagination. But your imagination - NOW that is in your hands, You can choose to think what you want, You can choose to accept what you want as true and just let your sc mind do it's magic. Thats all you need to know.

Now I get it, circumstances may same really really bad like almost impossible for you to believe that the opposite of what is actually there is actually the real reality. But you're just gonna have to do it anyway. Imagination - IS THE REAL REALITY. And there is nothing you can do to change it. SO accept that and change your thoughts.

DO YOU KNOW WHY YOU'RE HERE RN? CAUSE YOU DID IT, YOU FOUND OUT THE ULTIMATE TRUTH OF LIFE. HOW YOU HAVE ALL THE POWER, HOW YOU ARE THE CREATOR OF YOUR REALITY.

Now if you don't believe in all this and sees this as some manifestation crap then I'm respectfully asking you to get the fuck off my blog, I don't need you here if you don't need me.

But if you know that this is it, this is true then I want you to read very carefully what I am gonna say next because THIS IS IT -

is loa real for YOU? (yes) is manifestation real for YOU? (yes) so is your imagination the real reality in your life? (yes) - so obviously what you assume has to be real too right? So it is real and it is yours. You have it and you have it now. That's it. That's all there is to it. If you believe in this, If you can know this, You have to know that this is it, what you assume is true, IS true in your reality.

All you gotta do is persist. Persist in your new story. It doesn't matter what technique you guys use. Just know that it is done. Stop treating it like a process - MANIFESTATION IS NOT A PROCESS, IT IS INSTANT, IT WAS YOURS THE MINUTE YOU DECIDED SO. CREATION IS FINISHED, IT IS YOURS.

Just know that it's done. You're not waiting for something to happen in the 3D - NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

YOU ARE THE VALIDATION. WHY ASK YOURSELF WHERE IT IS - WHEN YOU ALREADY HAVE IT.

Guys this is it, this is all you need, read it and reread it as many times you want to just get it in your head but trust me this is it.

You've got this!

Love, Shrads

[girljournal]

It-Girling 101 :

you are a goddess, act like it

you have to be confident

you are beautiful, smart, talented and so much more. there’s nothing wrong with acknowledging that and being proud of that. if you don’t hype yourself up, who will? take those selfies, say your self love affirmations in the mirror, wear your cutest clothes that make you feel prettiest! you are the sh!t , don’t let anyone make you feel less than, ever

be proud of everything you do, even the “small things” because everything you achieve is an accomplishment, nothing goes unnoticed

speak up for yourself! if you don’t like something or how something is going then let it be known! don’t let anyone take your voice from you

stand strong on your beliefs and don’t let anyone sway you

you have to respect yourself

learn how to say ‘no’ to things that don’t feel right to you, even if it may hurt someone else’s feelings

prioritize your needs and wants! you deserve to be happy, comfortable and have the things you desire

set healthy boundaries and stick to them! have a mindset of, people will respect me and my limits or they won’t be in my life at all, period!

don’t just date or be friends with anyone. surround yourself with people who treat you right, who don’t call you out of your name, who are kind to you, who are gentle with you, who care about your hopes and dreams, who won’t put their hands on you, ever! people who don’t make you feel bad about yourself, people who love you unconditionally, someone who will never treat you like garbage, someone who won’t belittle you

treat your body like a temple and only be with someone romantically because you really want to and have feelings for them and not because you feel pressured to or you think you deserve less than

you have to treat yourself like a prize because you are a prize! don’t forget, the way you treat yourself is how other people will treat you. so walk with pride and make sure your standards are high always 💓

[noc10-moved]

executive dysfunction

[crowrelli]

I have this tiktok saved n thought.. Others might like it too..

[noahparaduck]

is there an alternative where you don't have to use alarms though?

[crowrelli]

ive seen people use counting down from a certain number or for a duration of a song on their playlists too!! 

[thesearethedaysofmylife]

[airagorncharda]

my most recent strategy for dealing with executive dysfunction is that when I catch myself lying in bed thinking “I want to be doing the productive thing, but for some reason I’m still just lying here, wtf is wrong with me” I start mentally screaming until I get up. 

I don’t mean screaming AT myself, I just mean screaming. Like, a battle cry, or a tantruming baby. The goal is to fill up my brain with “AAAAAAAAAAA” until I am vertical. I can’t articulate WHY it works, but so far it’s working for me!

[airagorncharda]

Oh, Correct

[nebuvoid]

[itgirlinred]

decide and accept.

it took me a while to get it, but here we go. deciding, accepting and wish fulfilled.

everything start with you. you are the main character and the main creator. you create, and what you want can -and will- come to you. but the main thing is: you have to decide and stick firm to this decision.

when you affirm something: stick to this.

you ARE dating your sp. you ARE a millionaire. you ARE the main event. decide you are, act like this.

and accept it.

accept to be the spotlight. you receive a lot of compliments? accept them. you know you deserve them. you can totally be humble and accept all the compliments handed to you. you got money? accept it as yours.

many people talk about examples like when you're holding your phone: your phone is here, you accepted it, you decided to grab your phone or idk. same goes for your desires.

you are the main character. everything you want comes to you so easily. you attract. you are so magnetic. you don't have to work hard. opportunities are handed to you. it is amazing to have this fun and be this successful.

[theecunt]

Everything works out in my favour

[belief-unknowing-deactivated202]

I definitely feel like I (and everyone else on this app) have been WAY too attached to the outcomes of my manifestations.

Your desires are guaranteed. The moment you desire something, it's already yours (remember, 4D > 3D!!). In the process of desiring you already manifested it! The only reason you don't see it is your refusal to believe that it can be that simple, so we look for methods and we become WAY too attached to doing them (because we think that's what gets us what we want). Methods are meant to be REMINDERS, they do NOT get you your desire because you ALREADY HAVE IT.

You don't need to put in any work to have what you want. You already had it from the very first time you desired it. The problem is ATTACHMENT. We're attached to the 3D, we're attached to results, we're attached to DOING to get (as opposed to just having).

The key is faith in the unseen. If you know without a doubt that what you want is guaranteed (because it IS), you're not going to be begging the 3D for scraps, you're not going to be looking for signs, you're not going to care abt the 3D because you KNOW that it conforms LAST.

You do not have to force yourself to do any method, that includes states, affirming, etc. All of that is just meant to help you maintain the faith that it's yours already!! Obsessing over methods isn't healthy, and I genuinely think we need to move away from that as a community.

Disclaimer!! If affirming, visualizing, states, etc makes you feel safer and more secure in the fact that you have your desire already, then go for it!! Just be careful not to start obsessing over results or forcing yourself to do the method because you think you have to; that's a very slippery slope!! These things are meant to be REMINDERS, they don't get you your desires (because they're already yours in the first place).

💕🍓🌸💕

[rebelleluxe]

valeria efanova by leda & st. jacques for elle canada january 2014

[luxury-cherries]

[babygothprincess]

How I Manifest With States

Step 1. I decide I have what I want

Step 2. I do nothing (maybe watch movies 😹😹💗💗) (or drink ☕️ and chill 💓💓) because now I have what I want, so there is nothing left to do 💓

Step 3. Every time I think about that thing I’ll say “I have it already” and that’s it! Usually this part isn’t even necessary because it comes FAST 🔥

You don’t have to affirm over and over or reprogram your mind, you don’t have to do 💩 to get what you want! 💗 All you have to do is decide you have it now and once it’s done it done, I know this works because once I said “I want YSL Black Opium Perfume so I’m going to have it soon” and the very next day my friend gave me two brand new bottles of it for free 🖤🖤🖤 I didn’t affirm more than once or drain myself with repetition, I just decided I want it so I’m going to have it and the very next day it came to me 💗💗💗 Not even just one bottle, but two! 💕💕

I know we’ve been told repetition is what manifests and that we have to affirm over and over for every single thing we want, but that’s not only not true, it’s also incredibly draining and stressful! Do you think GOD needs to worry about saturating their mind ???

We feel like we have to work for something so we affirm over and over to get something when really you’re so powerful all you have to do is DECIDE

So: How To Manifest With States 💗

Step 1: What do you want?

Step 2: You already have it

• You don't have to affirm 24/7 or affirm AT ALL if you don't want to! 💗 Because it’s DONE! Just decide you have it and tell yourself you have it every time you think of it! 💕💕💕 So let’s use states for someone who wants long hair but they’re bald: “Okay I decided my hair is long so it is DONE. There is nothing left for me to do. If I want I can say “I already have long hair” every time I think about my hair IF I want to but it’s already done.”

Decide you have it, and know there is nothing left to do, you are so powerful you don’t need to do ANYTHING but decide 💗 Don’t suffer with repeating affirmations all day everyday if you don’t want to, because at the end of the day it’s YOU deciding it’s true that manifests, not the repetition 💗

Don’t burn yourself out affirming all day every day for some breadcrumbs, go straight to the end and decide you have it now, so there’s nothing left to do 💗