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It's that time of year for pumpkin spice everything... including pride flags! You can find these on my Etsy, but I'm only making one of each this year so get one quick!
Pumpkins here!
Angel and Demon Alloaro and Alloace Pride Flags!
Free to use with credit!
How Society Polices Womenâs Clothing (No Matter What We Wear)
Am I just imagining that trans rep? (On the show more cleavage one)
Nope youâre not, there isnât any other context where âpassingâ would be used in that sentence except someone giving a trans woman âtipsâÂ
Another PSA
(Featuring @bunnigay, @official-cisphobe and @ezzelbean )
âneo-pronouns arenât valid and were just made up on tumblrâ says the willingly ignorant person who also somehow thinks that just because something is â made-upâ and ânewâ means itâs invalid. anyway neo-pronouns are beautiful and yâall who use them are amazing people.
Actually, willful ignorance is acting like just because something is not new it is therefore valid. Neopronouns have existed for quite some time, sure, but they were never valid.
How are they not valid?
Is it the fact that people donât need your permission to ask to have their pronouns respected?
No, its the fact that they lack the denotation linguistically requisite for a word to be valid.
How so? Burden of proof falls to you to prove that they arenât. Not to mention I have a quote laying around somewhere about this.
âWe must remember that the English pronoun system is not fixed. Several centuries ago the objective plural you drove the nominative and objective singulars thou and thee and the nominative plural ye out of general use. It appears to have happened for social reasons, not linguistic reasons. They, their, them have been used continuously for six centuries, and have been disparaged in such use for about two centuries.
âMerriam-Websterâs Dictionary of English Usage, 1994â
A dictionary has come out and supported neopronouns being actual pronouns.
You see, the english language isnât set in stone. He/him used to be a gender neutral pronoun. It wasnât until woman rights activists fought that she got made for females and he for males.
See how pronouns in the english language has changed? Itâs not set in stone
call me a bigot all you want but goddamn Iâm so sick of going to âqueerâ spaces that are full of green haired sixteen year olds using âfaeselfâ pronouns instead of actual lgbt people. and I swear if I see one more person wearing elf ears or a fox tail Iâm gonna set myself on fire.
lgbt doesnât mean âblindly accepting of anything weird.â it means âlesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender.â and if you somehow equate that with misfits, outcasts, freaks, or anything like that, congratulations on your homophobia! now get the fuck out.
Many trans people dye their hair and get pierces because it gives them a sense of control over their body. like, I may not be able to control my body or my dysphoria but dying my hair? Getting a tattoo? My nose pierced? thatâs something I can control. It helps me feel better.
Not to mention even if it isnât for that reason, who cares? Let people look how they want and leave them alone. Hating on a group of people for doing something as simple as dying their hair is shitty.
Age has nothing to do with being trans. A lot of teens question themselves. Sexuality and gender included. Why is it suddenly so bad for people to be questioning and experimenting as a teen?
Neopronouns have been made and used since 1154. Kids using them today isnât anything new. hell, bun/bunself was made in the 19th century. They havenât been a problem for all the years theyâve been used so why is it a big deal now?
You are allowed to not like elf ears or fox tails but that doesnât mean these people are bad for doing that. The lgbt community is very diverse and people (especially the younger ones) are going to have interests you donât like. Doesnât make them bad or faking.
Lgbt means not experiencing gender, attraction. or both they way cishet people do. Just because you think something is weird doesnât mean itâs not lgbt.
This communities borders have been changing and fluctuating for ages. stop acting like this community hasnât thrown a fit about a group of people wanting to join; only to realize down the road they are part of the community too.
âthe advocateâ â"should transgender people be part of the gay rights movementâ
the executive director of the Log Cabin Republicans was quoted, in part, as saying âIâd say if a transgendered person doesnât have a gay orientation, he or she is not part of the gay movementâŚ. Adding transgendered people to a mission means arguing for a group of heterosexual people too".Â
This source is from this post, which gives a summary of bi exclusionism back in the day
âBisexuals were accused of stealing gay and lesbian resources because the speakers (for the event), that year that they were explicitly included, were a white bi man and a white straight woman. (The fact that both were white was, evidently, completely irrelevant and not a big deal; the problem was that neither of them was a lesbian.) They were told that bisexual inclusion clearly meant lesbian exclusion, even though every other performer and emcee that year was gay or lesbian.   Bisexuals were labeled as âalliesâ to the gay/lesbian community, and told they should march as such. Bisexuals were told they were âparasites attaching themselves to the Lesbian community,â which was âdoing all the work.â Bisexuals were told that they were rapists, or brought rape with them; that as long as the March was not specifically Lesbian Space it would not be any safer from âheterosexual violenceâ than the recent Take Back the Night March in which someone was raped afterward was.â
Lgbt didnât always mean lgbt and acting like it is the stopping point and that we cant let anybody else in is exactly the same thing people said while trying to halt bi and trans people from joining the community.
When your dad tries to guilt trip you into visiting him: âwell I guess Iâll just spend the weekend all by myself...â
You say âglad to know weâre on the same page.â Slowly, he will have to adapt to just outright telling you what he thinks instead of playing mind games.
When your friend tries to hint that theyâre mad at you without saying anything: âOh, Iâm fine, clearly you donât need to worry about me,â
You say: âIâm glad youâre doing well. Call me if you want to talk, though!â Soon enough, they will accept that they canât be passive aggressive with you.
When your boyfriend says: âAll your friends are great, I really love *insert male friend* especially.â
You say: âIâm so glad you like my friends! I should invite them back soon.â He needs to understand that if he has a problem with your friends, he needs to just voice his concerns instead of being sarcastic and accusatory.
As someone who has lived through several toxic relationships and has an abusive father, I think one of the most important manipulation tools a toxic person has is excessive subtext and hidden meanings in their conversation. It hides all of the actual fighting from the eyes of onlookers while still hurting you, which is scary and makes you feel like youâre making it all up. Donât put up with this bs. Make them stop hiding.
Make. Them. Say. What. They. Mean.
This thread!
Yo gotta add an important addition to this after reading the comments since everyone else seems to be mistaken too:
Fun fact: Anti-antis and proshippers were the source of my abuse as a child.
If people didnât openly support incest, pedophilia, and abuse and create content for it then I wouldnât have been abused. I wouldnât have been molested, I wouldnât have been groomed by creeps online, I wouldnât be struggling with my twisted view of relationships and sex.
Because of them, Iâm the fucked up, angry as shit human being you see today. Take responsibility for the person you ruined and die in a fucking ditch.
Iâm just gonna come out and say it and youâre not gonna like it, but you really need to knock this shit off. You were abused because the person that abused you was a dirty, nasty piece of shit. Donât be generalizing everyone who is an anti-anti because of that asshole who hurt you. The rest of us didnât do jack shit to you, so stop with that âyou all did this to me!!â mentality. You need to work on that shit seriously and take responsibility to get help for YOURSELF and confront that person and leave the people that never even talked to you out of it.
Super fun fact: blaming other people for what happened to you is an asshole move, and regardless of your age, thereâs no excuse for you to treat people like you do. And all of us are tired of getting blamed for shit we didnât do.
Do fucking better.
own up to the fact defending gross shit and gaslighting abuse survivors isnt something you should do and then maybe youll get argument rights
trans girls not tucking needs to be seen as a completely normal and nonsexual thing. chasers go die.
trans womenâs genitals are not so repulsive that they need to be totally hidden through our clothes at the expense of our health and safety and for the sake of your comfort.
if cis men donât have to tuck then neither do trans women.
Tucking is way more dangerous than people seem to realize. Tucking can cause irritation, blisters, urinary tract infections, and may increase the chances of getting testicular cancer.
Forcing trans people to tuck is violence.
all of this!! it can also cause inguinal hernias, which is basically when the abdominal muscles in the inguinal cavity (where the testes go when u tuck) weaken and part of ur intestines slip through that wall and either get the blood supply cut off or worse. its fixable with surgery but if left alone can be life threatening.
and like you say, its violence. its society forcing many trans women to choose between either self inflicted violence or violence from a hate crime. trans bodies need to be normalised and accepted. we deserve to live safely and happily.
Y'all do realize the more you call trans kids âtranstrendersâ and that theyâre âfaking itâ the more parents arenât gonna support even Actually Real Dysphoric Trans People, right?
i actually experienced this last summer.
my mom is friends with this trans woman, who was really sweet and she was super cool, but then i tried to come out after my mom expressed how much she liked her trans friend and how amazing she is. i told my mom about my crippling chest dysphoria and how much iâd love to be called by he/him pronouns and my preferred name. i told her about how iâve always felt this way and iâve known since eighth grade.
well the thing is, her friend is a transmed.
my mom is an uninformed person on trans issues, because she didnât really care about them until recently. she took resources from her transmed friend and it ruined my life. she went off about how iâm not really trans because i didnât come out sooner, i have piercings, my hair is always a crazy color, i still like girly things, and my glasses are weird. she kept yelling about how i didnât have dysphoria before, so i obviously have the wrong definition. she told me if i was trans it wouldâve been diagnosed by my therapist already, and it was just a cult bandwagon phase. i was locked away from the outside world for a month.
when my next year of high school rolled around, i was out as trans. my partner provided me with a binder and all was well. i came out to all my peers at the beginning and about halfway through the school year to my teachers. it was quiet, under the table. i told them my mom didnât know and under our school guidelines, they were not allowed to tell my mom that sort of thing. well, one of my teachers ended up being lgbtphobic and i didnât know, and announced to the class that she didnât âagree with the lifestyleâ and that âgay marriage isnât what god wanted.â my mom got an email that day about me being out as trans at school. i wonder who couldâve sent it?
my mom blew up. she was sending me treat after threat because i was a trender, all i did was lie for attention, that i chose to be trans because it was trendy and that real trans people wouldnât flaunt their transness. of course, she got these resources from her transmed friend. she pulled me out of public school and cut my contact with the outside world for three whole months. i didnât get back into school until february.
DO NOT TELL ME THAT PEOPLE WITH DIFFERING OPINIONS ISNT TRANSPHOBIC AND HARMFUL BECAUSE EVEN AS A DYSPHORIC TRANS PERSON, TRANSMEDICALISM HAS RUINED MY HOME, MY FAMILY, AND MY LIFE. I WILL NOT STAND FOR TRANSMEDS OR PEOPLE WHO ALLOW THEIR INTERACTION. THEY ARE EXTREMELY HARMFUL AND NEED TO BE STOPPED BEFORE MORE LIVES ARE RUINED.
I mean: we did this with bi kids and particularly bi girls, right. With people my age.
We got super gatekeepy and âyou must be THIS GAY to ride this identityâ and we complained at length about it being âtrendyâ and how girls only did it to be âcoolâ and to get attention.
And so among other things I know one person I love is, for example, only JUST getting to have her FIRST relationship ever with a woman at slightly older than me because this shit got into her head and she didnât think she was âallowedâ.
So watching people turn the same bullshit on even more vulnerable kids?
This is a problem. This is lateral violence. And it needs to fucking stop.
Iâm going to supposed the trans kid that got her life âruinedâ by âtransmedâ itâs straight.
First of all if u r seeing a therapist and they didnât diagnosed u w dysphoria, but u say u r dysphoric because u want to use a binderâŚ.. Ok. âI was locked away from the outside world for a monthâ u mean like being grounded? Usjsussj gzus u can see itâs a teen talking. So let me get this straight, u r a teen w a lot of piercings, crazy hair colors, who likes girly things, w a boyfriend, but donât understand why your mother got worried/mad at u for saying u r trans? I mean she has a trans friend, a person that *really* experiences dysphoria, that talks to her and explains how it is to be a dysphoric male and probably how the world perceives and treats them. Why do you think she wouldnât be mad that her kid, a girly girl w a boyfriend, is saying she is trans now? She âpulled me out of school for 3 monthsâ u didnât give details and i donât know where do u live and how itâs your school schedule but in my country kids only get back at school in February⌠u also said you had a teacher that was harassing, so why r u trying to make her look like the bad guy for putting u in another school? âCut my contact w the outside worldâ again u r saying u got grounded right? Basically you react like a brat and your mother grounded u and had to put u in another school.. and u r saying your life got ruined because of THIS? You r a teenager! Listen to your mother! Go to your therapist, see what you can do about your breasts because let me tell you binder are extremely harmful! Do ur homework, donât get pregnant before u can afford it, use a condom and get out of tumblr from time to time.
About bi girls.. we all know a lot of straight girls kiss other girls in parties and bars to get the attention of guys. That doesnât mean they r bi. And being gay itâs not the same as being bi, the same way being bi itâs not the same as being straight. If you are a girl and only kisses girls when u r wasted you need to search in yourself why u r doing this. Are you just wasted and trying to have fun, being âcrazyâ, trying to get attention, etc or u like them and want to kiss them but donât have the courage and alcohol makes you braver?
Wow I just had a total flashback to 2001 in a really bad way, and since I fuckinâ hated 2001 Iâm gonna hold that against you hard.
One for the block list and I officially wish every battery in every device you ever want to use runs out unnaturally fast for the rest of your life and your passport applications always get lost in the mail.
god this isnât even transmed shit at this point. thatâs literally just a terf.
l âdysphoric maleâ when the transmed in the story is a woman, âboyfriendâ when the person clearly only said partner, and fucking was clearly going out of their way to misgender the person commenting every other sentence
hsjdkgkdf like good on you transmeds for not hiding the fact that youâre just looking for an excuse to hate trans people (even ones in your own hateful little group), but yknow. holy shit.
Neo pronouns are cool & good. Donât let people make fun of you or bully you out of using them if you sincerely feel like they suit you best.
Many of them have an important history attached to them. They mean different & important things to whoever uses them.
Donât be afraid of using neo pronouns just because other people donât like them. The pronouns you choose for yourself to make you feel the most comfortable & happy matter more than the opinions of people who hate them. đđđ¤
âď¸â what a lovely day to remind people to not flood mogai positivity tags with hate because those arenât discourse posts, itâs people trying to belong somewhere ââď¸
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i love watching transmeds try to be respectable people & then whine and cry when they get called out, or kicked out of lgbtq+ safe spaces
bc like.. indont care how nice you pretend to be youre still disgusting on the inside and everyone realizes that
your very ideals are disgusting, and if you feel ashamed to be a transmed, then good. if youre one of those "#NotAllTransmeds!!!!" people, or someone whos like "this person does not speak for all of us" you are so, so clueless.
transmeds who are rude, who criticize gnc people, who send anon hate, who purposefully trigger people... make up the MAJORITY of your community. you can say that not all transmeds are like that all you want. even if theyre not the majority, they are the most vocal of you.
thats the image you "respectful" transmeds associate yourselves with.
"im a transmed, but im not rude about it! i dont understand why tucutes wont talk to me!"
maybe because you interact with and platform and support/defend people who ARE rude about it, and people who have NO RIGHT being involved with intracommunity discourse in the firstbplace? maybe because you call us "trenders" and tell us were faking our gender (you know, like transphobes do)? maybe because you dismiss our experiences because thas not the way YOU experienced it, so we must be faking, huh?
like, you make trans people, nondysphoric or not, so fucking uncomfortable or even scared to be around you, and then you wonder why youre on dni banners
if you are a transmed and you ARE one of the âim not rude about itâ type, think about why you have chosen to label yourself as that and put yourself into the box of hateful, closed minded individuals that also call themselves transmeds
as a transmasc enby, i experience dysphoria, severely in fact, and yet i still doubt myself because of transmeds and truscum. if you label yourself as a transmed, dont follow me. i dont care if you are ânot like the othersâ, if you arent like them, choose another fucking label
idk abt choose another label, more like Dont Fucking Get Involved
a good addition, thank you.
i love watching transmeds try to be respectable people & then whine and cry when they get called out, or kicked out of lgbtq+ safe spaces
bc like.. indont care how nice you pretend to be youre still disgusting on the inside and everyone realizes that
your very ideals are disgusting, and if you feel ashamed to be a transmed, then good. if youre one of those "#NotAllTransmeds!!!!" people, or someone whos like "this person does not speak for all of us" you are so, so clueless.
transmeds who are rude, who criticize gnc people, who send anon hate, who purposefully trigger people... make up the MAJORITY of your community. you can say that not all transmeds are like that all you want. even if theyre not the majority, they are the most vocal of you.
thats the image you "respectful" transmeds associate yourselves with.
"im a transmed, but im not rude about it! i dont understand why tucutes wont talk to me!"
maybe because you interact with and platform and support/defend people who ARE rude about it, and people who have NO RIGHT being involved with intracommunity discourse in the firstbplace? maybe because you call us "trenders" and tell us were faking our gender (you know, like transphobes do)? maybe because you dismiss our experiences because thas not the way YOU experienced it, so we must be faking, huh?
like, you make trans people, nondysphoric or not, so fucking uncomfortable or even scared to be around you, and then you wonder why youre on dni banners
if you are a transmed and you ARE one of the âim not rude about itâ type, think about why you have chosen to label yourself as that and put yourself into the box of hateful, closed minded individuals that also call themselves transmeds
as a transmasc enby, i experience dysphoria, severely in fact, and yet i still doubt myself because of transmeds and truscum. if you label yourself as a transmed, dont follow me. i dont care if you are ânot like the othersâ, if you arent like them, choose another fucking label
Being here "to fight people" sure sounds like drama. You really look like a total jerk with this shit
ITS LITERALLY A JOK E IM SCREAMING, I PANIC OVER FIGHTS LMFAO I COULDNT EVEN FIGHT A FRUIT FLY