Many trans people dye their hair and get pierces because it gives them a sense of control over their body. like, I may not be able to control my body or my dysphoria but dying my hair? Getting a tattoo? My nose pierced? thatâs something I can control. It helps me feel better.
Not to mention even if it isnât for that reason, who cares? Let people look how they want and leave them alone. Hating on a group of people for doing something as simple as dying their hair is shitty.
Age has nothing to do with being trans. A lot of teens question themselves. Sexuality and gender included. Why is it suddenly so bad for people to be questioning and experimenting as a teen?
Neopronouns have been made and used since 1154. Kids using them today isnât anything new. hell, bun/bunself was made in the 19th century. They havenât been a problem for all the years theyâve been used so why is it a big deal now?
You are allowed to not like elf ears or fox tails but that doesnât mean these people are bad for doing that. The lgbt community is very diverse and people (especially the younger ones) are going to have interests you donât like. Doesnât make them bad or faking.
Lgbt means not experiencing gender, attraction. or both they way cishet people do. Just because you think something is weird doesnât mean itâs not lgbt.
This communities borders have been changing and fluctuating for ages. stop acting like this community hasnât thrown a fit about a group of people wanting to join; only to realize down the road they are part of the community too.
âthe advocateâ â"should transgender people be part of the gay rights movementâ
the executive director of the Log Cabin Republicans was quoted, in part, as saying âIâd say if a transgendered person doesnât have a gay orientation, he or she is not part of the gay movementâŚ. Adding transgendered people to a mission means arguing for a group of heterosexual people too".Â
This source is from this post, which gives a summary of bi exclusionism back in the day
âBisexuals were accused of stealing gay and lesbian resources because the speakers (for the event), that year that they were explicitly included, were a white bi man and a white straight woman. (The fact that both were white was, evidently, completely irrelevant and not a big deal; the problem was that neither of them was a lesbian.) They were told that bisexual inclusion clearly meant lesbian exclusion, even though every other performer and emcee that year was gay or lesbian. Â
 Bisexuals were labeled as âalliesâ to the gay/lesbian community, and told they should march as such.
Bisexuals were told they were âparasites attaching themselves to the Lesbian community,â which was âdoing all the work.âÂ
Bisexuals were told that they were rapists, or brought rape with them; that as long as the March was not specifically Lesbian Space it would not be any safer from âheterosexual violenceâ than the recent Take Back the Night March in which someone was raped afterward was.â
Lgbt didnât always mean lgbt and acting like it is the stopping point and that we cant let anybody else in is exactly the same thing people said while trying to halt bi and trans people from joining the community.
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