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In my time away from Twitter, hubby and I adopted these two nuggets via Kitten Academy on YouTube.

The void is Tessa, whom we adopted Dec 5, 2020. The orange banana is Bombay, adopted July 9, 2021.

These are their two moods in a nutshell XD

#kittenacademy #adoptdontshop #dawsct #tessavoidesq #bombaybananaesq #bombessa

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No, it's not cringy it's fucking genius.

Tumblr staff understands its fucking userbase in a way Elon Musk will never understand Twitter.

Beating a dead horse into the ground is a supernatural reference.

Oh my god.

It's so fucking good.

This is just good.

This is speaking the language fluently.

Twitter is not fucking prepared.

I love and hate you all.

Be happy and DIE.

zukothelasthonorbender

on today’s episode of “Elon vs. the Internet”, Misha Collins enters the chat

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for the new twitter users interacting with content:

- LIKES DO NOTHING BUT BOOKMARK.

- REBLOGS ARE THE WAY TO GO.

- TAGS AND COMMENTS ADD 100HP TO A CREATOR’S HEALTH BAR.

- AN EMPTY BLOG (DEFAULT PFP, NOTHING REBLOGGED/POSTED) IS MORE LIKELY TO BE BLOCKED BY ANOTHER USER

- INTERNET DISCOURSE IS DISCOURAGED. PLEASE JUST BLOCK AND GO.

remember, you're on tumblr. do as the tumblrians do

Is This Thing Still On? *tap*

Uh. Hi. I am probably coming back to le tumblr seeing the mega dumpster fire that is Twitter happening.

Lots happened. Lost my mom to covid in 2020, my dad had back surgery last year. I had a hysterectomy the beginning of the year and have been going to physical therapy because apparently removing the lady parts removed some sort of pressure that was against my back/pelvic parts and well. yeah.

Have not been into any new fandom. Been playing mostly mobile games or watching Youtube vids to pass the time while hecking bedrest. Currently trying to get my butt back to being active in the art adopts stuff over on Deviant Art.

Anyway, yeah. Hope those who has been following me are still doing alright.

greenstudies

5 Reasons to go to therapy

It took me so long to get my own ass to therapy. Today I present you my reasons why and therefore speed up your own decision process:

Get it all out -You can talk about everything that bothers and hurts you without actually dumping all the negative energy on your friends. Don’t get me wrong, you should totally talk to your friends about these things but not all the time. Therapists are paid for sitting and listenting to you and offering advice, your friends aren’t. Therapist also know how to cope with bad news, your friends don’t necessarily do.

Professional supervision -Your problems might be really bad. Like “suicidal” bad. In that case you absolutely must get a psychiatrist, who’ll help you.

Someone rational -A therapist will give you a rational point of view to your problems, because they don’t have their emotions involved. Especially if you suffer with anxiety, you’d probably use some rationalising.

Solutions exist -They probably won’t turn you into an all time positive and happy, healthy person but damn feeling okay sounds nice doesn’t it?

It’s okay -Even if you think your problems aren’t “big enough” or “serious enough” you should try therapy out, if you’re not feeling good. Believe it or not but being happy or calm or just simply okay is the basic setting of a healthy brain. After something bad passes you should go back to being happy. If you don’t or you feel like bad things never pass… give therapy a try.

Take care

wilwheaton

One of the lies Depression tells us is that going to therapy won’t make a difference, or we’ll be bothering the therapist, or the therapist will judge us. This is when I need to remind myself, my Depression, and anyone who is listening that THERAPISTS EXIST BECAUSE THEY HAVE LITERALLY DEDICATED THEIR LIVES TO HELPING PEOPLE LIKE ME GET BETTER. Say it again, say it louder: A THERAPIST IS NOT GOING TO JUDGE YOU OR MOCK YOU OR LAUGH AT YOU OR TREAT YOU LIKE YOU ARE CRAZY. A THERAPIST IS GOING TO USE ALL THE YEARS OF STUDY AND PRACTICE THEY HAVE TO HELP YOU. You aren’t a burden. You aren’t unreasonable. You aren’t the only person, or the first person, to feel the things you are feeling. You deserve to be happy and you deserve to live your best life. A therapist has dedicated their life to helping you do that. Okay, that was a lot of ALL CAPS stuff, but it’s important.

I disappeared again XD

My excuse this time is that I’m kinda swamped with gacha type adopt orders over at deviant art.

I’ll work on restocking the TFLN themed shit posts during my lunch hour at work

#Rambling tyg is rambling #Never thought I'd be this successful and get some sorta financial payback for it #deviant art points actually but its a start

itsapmseymour

Sometimes you’re gonna have to be your own Senpai, and notice yourself.

Notice how wonderful you really are. 👉👉

imawitchywitch

My therapist, who is probably in her late 40′s, told me she never pursued more artistic opportunities in her younger years because one teacher told her she wasn’t a “good artist”. Now after taking art lessons the past few years she is pursuing an art therapy license.

I sit here and sing along to my iTunes remembering how I was punished as a child in elementary choir class which made me avoid choir like the plague as I grew older. I took band classes instead, which I stunk at, making me feel like I would always be a failure musically. Today, I can for the most part carry a tune and even harmonize, and can make up songs pretty quickly.

We need to remember that the arts are meant to be FUN, subjective, and a form of self expression instead of telling kids they are “good” or “bad”, “talented” and “not talented”. The arts are not meant to be graded.

#THIS!!#damn drawing 101 professor turned me off in art studies #grrrr

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ahahaha.... Been too busy with work and adopt orders over at Deviant Art that I failed to keep an eye on the number of TFLN shit posts in drafts/queue XD

Will be a few days of radio silence but I’ll have them queued up for everyone’s enjoyment again

#rambling tyg is rambling #Tyg is still alive but over at DA

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Jean-Claude Van Damme Performs the Epic Split (2013, colorized)

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May the 10 of Pentacles bless your account with more money than you can spend. 💵✨

hermes-is-my-homeboy

10 of Pentz came thruuu

violaslayvis

Omg this actually works!!! Thank you 10 of Pentacles!!!

borkdork

I could seriously use this money right now….

ashashi-corner

Please give me my refund of 400$ soon…

hermes-is-my-homeboy

I feel obligated to reblog this every time it shows up in my dash

hermes-is-my-homeboy

No bragging, just 100% floored and grateful. Work hard, maintain a positive attitude, and believe that anything can happen.

virgocity

So I reblogged this exactly a week ago because I thought it was funny and uh lo and behold, a family friend wrote me a big ol’ check just to help me out of a tough financial spot AND my bank refunded me $32 for fees they’d originally taken out. SO UH YEAH. Reblogging this again in hopes that it brings equally good fortune to my followers.