The thing about my post from 2023 about Frozen helping to crack my egg is that it's a lie by omission. Frozen did help crack my egg, and Frozen fans were there for me. What I left out, by virtue of it being written on my other blog, is that so many of those people who were there for me were Elsanna shippers. The trans friends I met who first helped me to see myself, find myself, were Elsanna shippers. Certain people who reblogged my post from 2023, who got emotional over that post, would have blocked those friends on sight, would have blocked me on sight if they knew what I shipped. It wasn't the "good ones" who were there for me (although I have known many lovely and kind non-EA shippers in my time who know I ship EA and still support me and show me kindness.) It wasn't the people who only tolerated me if they didn't know about this blog or made me walk on eggshells because they knew this blog existed and "graciously tolerated me in spite of it."
The trans women who first helped me were Elsanna shippers.

















