༊ bird placements : “ but I love them! “
𝄢 disclaimer !!! please do not judge based on the knowledge of knowing someone or if you have a particular placement stated within this post. the energy of each placement can follow through no matter the gender and in different ways that aren't inherently negative. Proceed with caution and take the whole chart into consideration before taking to heart. Have fun!
𝄢 disclaimer !!! these are all based off of my own natural experiences and from thorough examination of research. I ALSO AM IN NO WAY, SHAPE, OR FORM, BREAKING DOWN THE WOMEN OR BLAMING THEM FOR THE ISSUES IN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS. THIS IS STRICTLY FOR ASTROLOGY RESEARCH.
𝄢 note : hey guys! I've been seeing a new vocabulary slang word going around social media. The term "bird" means to define someone ( usually a female ) as someone who is fast ( slut ), stupid, ditzy, vain, all in the name of a man ; due to the actions of a man. Flying closer and closer towards the sun, but do you feel the burn?
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༊࿐ ˖ ݁ ⁰¹ NEPTUNE ☐ / ☌ VENUS | SYNASTRY & NATAL
NATAL ; This is prime Pisces / Libra energy at work! When you encounter an individual with these placements / energy in their chart, this can be an indication of someone who deeply craves affection from others, or wishes for anything to maintain or bring love within their lives. In a more negative aspect, this can be an individual who does not understand relationships or doesn't exactly have direct standards within love. Which causes them to partner up with pretty much anybody— which doesn't turn out healthy in the end. This can be an individual who has has an obscured sense / view of love from a young age. Expecting fairy tales, love at first sight, and partridge in a pear tree— but as they stay with this person they can easily see this isn't the case and chooses to stay due to the devotion and principles of what it means to be in love. They LOVE love, not relationships. They fall in love fast and have a hard time getting out of it.
SYNASTRY ; Specifically referring to Venus Square Neptune, I have been on both planetary spectrum's of this!!! It's not fun when you're the Venus person LMAO. When having this type of synastry, the Venus person is utterly devoted and in love with the Neptune person, idealizing them as someone they simply aren't. The Neptune person notices this and strings them along, seeing how devoted and utterly WHIPPED they are for them. To the point where they just like the attention Venus is giving them.
But of course, the veil that was so heavily placed upon Neptune falls and the Venus person starts to see them for who they really are— human! Not some fantasy they made up in their head. The Venus person was more in love with the ideation they had of them then the actual interactions they fuckin' had!
And DON'T let the Venus person be Man, pure love bombing placement omg! The Venus person expects a version of Neptune that they simply cannot give to them. And usually however the Neptune person is remembered is due to the Venus' undoing.
༊࿐ ˖ ݁ ⁰² FIXED PLACEMENTS : OVERLY LOYAL
When referring to the fixed signs of the Zodiac; Scorpio, Leo, and Taurus. These energies show up within a personas chart as someone who doesn't budge easily. A person who doesn't back down without a fight, someone who makes something last for the hell of it. These people are only done until they mean it. The way this can manifest as a "bird", is someone who stays with an individual because they can't see themselves leaving due to the love they have for this person is too strong. They're loyalty towards their relationship is stronger than the love they have for themselves.
༊࿐ ˖ ݁ ⁰³ VENUS / PLUTO ASPECTS
This can be an individual who constantly places themselves within un-pleasurable situations all in the name of love. When they fall in love it becomes pure devotion and the breakups are always messy and something that directly changes their brain chemistry.
༊࿐ ˖ ݁ ⁰⁴ CANCER MARS : emotional debt placed onto someone, they stay to get their lick back , always pushing the goal post of leaving! Starts to resent partner.
From seeing this placement acting within real time is truly something. People who have this placement that are in relationships have a tendency to place themselves or their partner in emotional debt. Due to this Mars placements being in fall, these people can have a hard time expressing their emotional needs within a relationship or are placed within relationships that are emotionally abusive. They care for their partners more than their partner cares for them.
Now when I define their actions as "emotional debt" this can be an indication of them pushing the goal post of when they are going to leave their partner. "If she does one more thing like that i'm gone!" then they still stay. "They have one more chance to change and I'm leaving!" they don't leave. "You make me feel like shit" they still stay. Like wtf.
This can also be an indication of staying within a relationship for some ego-driven reason, "I'm staying because he's gonna get what's coming to him" like they're itching to cause imaginary harm to their partners even though they could never do what their partner did to them. Like just leave!!
Fuck, like no shade to these people but you guys don't know how to not be in a relationship. This placement can indicate a person who IS NEVER single and doesn't like being alone. Now, I wouldn't take this placement as being a "bird" at face value. But when you analyze this at a deeper level it becomes alarming. These individuals can go through a 1-of-1 traumatic relationship and them jump into another relationship, sleep around, or starting dating not even a week later.
It gets to a point where these people will begin to be perceived as someone who doesn't like the thought of not being loved. They physically cannot conceptualize not being with someone romantically due to the fears of being alone with themselves and doing the necessary work in order to heal. They carry the previous trauma onto the next partner and make it something they need to solve, which is honestly dangerous for all parties involved.
༊࿐ ˖ ݁ ⁰⁶ NEPTUNE ☌ MOON : battle of the mind and heart!
When someone has Neptune conjunct their Moon, there is a theme where they are in a constant battle between understand what is rational and what is emotional. In a constant state of push an pull as to what makes sense to their mind and what pleases their heart. And this can be easily translated into relationships where they do not understand the severity of situations at first due to their heart being pleased first.
This can be the type of person who is 21 years old in a relationship with someone who has like 7 kids LMAO, this person can see that their community does not understand why they're with this person and it makes sense to leave, right? Right! But at the same time, why would they leave if the sex is amazing and their late night convos just feel so right and they pay for everything they ask for?
Whole time, the money that man used to buy them a brand new purse was the child support money that had to be in one of the mothers hands by the 1st! PRIORITIES PEOPLE 😭
༊࿐ ˖ ݁ ⁰⁷ VENUS ◻︎ MOON : doesn't know how to emotionally communicate their desires; Mariah the Scientist & Young Thug
Now, this placement is something I've studied within the chart of Mariah the Scientist, a famous American singer that is COMMONLY known to be seen as a "bird" a mother goose if you will… she's known to be the leader of the birds LMAOO.
From what I have astrologically gathered about this artist is that with such a placement like this, she indirectly communicates what she desires / complains about within her relationship with her man. Or she is the type of person to swallows her true thoughts in order to maintain peace within the relationship or to save face.
A really good example of this is when she was publicly proposed to by Young Thug at one of her concerts, this video is a very hard watch but expresses these placements perfectly in real time. When watching the video, you can see how she was peer pressured into saying yes. Her emotions weren't taken into consideration and she wasn't able to even communicate it due to the immediate use of control from her ( now called off ) fiancé. And the cherry on top was that she engagement ring was the exact opposite of what she wanted ( and she TOLD HIM EARLIER IN THE RELATIONSHIP!! ).
You can also see within her music that it is very emotionally driven to always sing about her displeasure within relationships and rarely ( from what I've heard ) about what it is like to be healthily in love and more about falling in love I guess. Like you drop an album dissing your man, but your sitting court-side at a basketball game like nothing happened? Make it make sense.
༊࿐ ˖ ݁ ⁰⁸ ˖ ݁ SATURN IN 7H : struggle love, didn't have good example of love in the home and wants to stick it out
This is a classic struggle love placement, when encountering an individual with this Saturn placement it is inherent to know that these individuals ( as well as myself ) did not grow up with a healthy performance of love meant within the home. This can be a one-parent household, a failing marriage, or divorce, etc. These people understand that the construct that is love is karmic and therefore wants no parts of it. But when they are in a committed relationship, they chose to stay and make things work even when it isn't suiting any party involved for the sake of "breaking" the traumatic curse of being like their parents.
༊࿐ ˖ ݁ ⁰⁹ ˖ ݁ VENUS IN 2H
This is also similar to the Neptune / Moon conjunction I previously talked about. These people are the type who look for security within their relationships. This is a good indication of the type of person to be an a relationship purely for the money and financial security their partner gives them. A situation I've seen unfold in real time was seeing a woman stay with her abuser just for the fact that he paid for her mothers hospital bills and trips out the country.
Nothing is more important then the safety and priority of your own life!
༊࿐ ˖ ݁ ¹⁰ ˖ ݁ SCORPIO VENUS : holding down for a man that ain't worth it!! Cardi B & Offset
DUDE! This placement is supreme bird placement. When I see someone with a Scorpio Venus I flinch because what they have gone through romantically is so sad. I notice that many successful female artists such as Queen Naija and Cardi B have this placement.
Another fixed placement like spoken before, these are the women that hold it down! These women will stay in a relationship for so long with a man that does not serve them in any capacity for the sake of mending the relationship. A very sad example of this is when Cardi B's ex-husband Offset said, "you my baby mama i won" a HARROWING statement to say to your wife. Mending your body and soul with a man who sees you as nothing more than a reproductive / sexual object is very saddening.
And sadly it happened again with her now ex-boyfriend Steffon Diggs, As the Venus placement is in detriment— it seems that the main way these people go about expressing their love is through sensuality. And it's like, as soon as they love this they will SHOW YOU. But from that you're giving a man ANOTHER kid and he has several. WITH NOOO RING!!
Once more, this is a loyal placement, a classic jail bird placement. The type of woman to stay with a man who's serving 20 years for shoplifting and assault of an officer. Because "know one is gonna love him like I do", well bitch would he do the same for you?
ᴴᴼᴺᴼᴿᴬᴮᴸᴱ ᴹᴱᴺᵀᴵᴼᴺ ˖ ݁ LIBRA / PISCES MARS : overly going, lack of boundaries
This is a classic detrimental / fallen energy where Libra and Pisces have a hard time stating their beliefs and boundaries within relationships ( not just romantic either ). This is also another energy where these people talk shit about their man every single day but still wont leave ( this is also applicable to Cancer Mars ). Like stop telling me shit if your not gonna do what you tell me ur gonna do everyday fuckin' day. This is coming from someone WITH a Libra Mars 😭
ᴴᴼᴺᴼᴿᴬᴮᴸᴱ ᴹᴱᴺᵀᴵᴼᴺ ˖ ݁ GEMINI PLACEMENTS : doesn't like to be proven wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!
Now, with this Mercurial energy ( mostly Gemini Mercury and Venus ), seeing this in person is funny and sad at the same time. Like these people will stay in relationships and try and make them work NOT for the sake of themselves or the partner, but more to protect their own ego from believing they were wrong to be with them in the first place.
It gives that energy where you're the most hated couple in the room, and it's not because they're some "power couple" it's because everyone knows their business and thinks that they don't need to be with each other whatsoever. This couple is suffering, yet they choose to stay because they don't wanna be wrong. They'll blame any other reason as to why they're still together BUT because they don't want to.
Like yeah everyone told you that you didn't need to be with him and they're all right, but you're gonna stay because You wanna leave on my own terms? … not because of the main reason being that you're simply incompatible. #whatdatmean
ᴴᴼᴺᴼᴿᴬᴮᴸᴱ ᴹᴱᴺᵀᴵᴼᴺ ˖ ݁ LEO PLACEMENTS
This is a good placement where these people will do things to please their man and their man wouldn't even do anything like this in return. Constantly doing things their man likes to do, supporting his passions and hobbies but doesn't wanna do the same when it comes to you. Constantly placing consideration for your partner instead of it being a mutual effort. This is also an indication of the couple being better at face value than at home.
Like they post everything on social media but when they're at home they barely even speak to each other or they talk about the same shit over and over, they don't bond LOL. Like ur man doesn't even know your favorite color but you're going to his favorite football teams' game for the 5th time in a row? MAKE IT MAKE SENSE! LEAVE!
ᴴᴼᴺᴼᴿᴬᴮᴸᴱ ᴹᴱᴺᵀᴵᴼᴺ ˖ ݁ URANUS ☌ MERCURY OR IN 3RD HOUSE : constant contradictions of their words and values; LATTO.
Now, LATTO the American rapper is a great example of this. To break it down very short and sweet, this woman is pregnant by a married man and it currently very happy. Looking at her chart we can see how these placements manifest as she is at a constant contradiction of her words and values.
She's publicly said out loud that she's "big mama, no kids, waiting for right man at the right time" yet she IS a big mama with a kid and chose the WRONG man at the WORST time. She's also presented herself on social media posted up with this MARRIED MANS TWO OTHER BABY MOMMAS with a smile on her face. Wtf is there to smile about?
ᴴᴼᴺᴼᴿᴬᴮᴸᴱ ᴹᴱᴺᵀᴵᴼᴺ ˖ ݁ NEPTUNE ☌ URANUS IN 7H : doesn't know what they truly desire within a relationship, delusional and gets the bare minimum; QUEEN NAIJA
Great example of this placement is the singer Queen Naija, this woman has been in two very long lasting relationships with men who were no where near her caliber for success. When having these planets placed within your 7th house, there can be a sense of delusion within the area of love and relationships. These individuals can have a hard time knowing what they truly desire out of a relationship or have fantasies of what they truly want in their relationships.
A good example is Queen Naija and her yearn to be a married woman, this is a running joke within her fan base and outer communities that she solely stays within relationships just to wait and get married. The men in her life have constantly joked ( and even pulled pranks ) that she would be proposed to. "Just wait a few more years", "I'm not ready", "Let's start a family first", is something that this woman has gone through time and time again. And until she recognizes her own power and states her desires and values within a relationship she will never be in a healthy relationship.
If you are a woman, man, whatever and you deeply resonate with these observations and are in a relationship that does not suit you or your needs. Please, for the love of pearl, leave! A life not lived is a life wasted. Understand the potential you have within yourself and strive to heal from this and find the love that YOU desire!
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