
ellievsbear

@theartofmadeline

Janaina Medeiros

★
d e v o n
Jules of Nature
Cosmic Funnies

Product Placement
PUT YOUR BEARD IN MY MOUTH

roma★
art blog(derogatory)
Three Goblin Art
$LAYYYTER
Xuebing Du
No title available

Kaledo Art
noise dept.
🪼
cherry valley forever

Love Begins
seen from United States

seen from Malaysia
seen from Switzerland

seen from India

seen from United States
seen from United States
seen from Australia

seen from France

seen from United States

seen from United States
seen from Albania

seen from Netherlands
seen from Albania
seen from Albania

seen from Canada
seen from United States

seen from United States
seen from United States
seen from United States

seen from United States
@valthatsmyname
“A long-term study of children raised by lesbians found that these children were less likely to suffer from physical and sexual abuse than were their peers who were raised by heterosexuals. This is thought to be due to the absence of adult heterosexual men in the households (Gartrell, Bos, & Goldberg, 2010). Girls raised by lesbians tend to have higher self-esteem, show more maturity and tolerance than their peers, and are older when they have their first heterosexual contact (Gartrell et al., 2005, 2010). Children raised by same-sex parents seem to be less constrained by traditional gender roles; boys are less aggressive, and girls are more inclined to consider nontraditional careers, such as doctor, lawyer, or engineer (Gartrell et al., 2005; Stacey & Biblarz, 2001). Over the course of more than 20 years, scientists studied the psychological adjustment of 78 teenagers who were raised by lesbian mothers. Compared to age-matched counterparts raised by heterosexual parents, these adolescents were rated higher in social, academic, and total competence, and lower in social problems, rule-breaking, aggression, and externalizing problem behavior (Gartrell & Bos, 2010). There are fewer studies of children raised by two men, but gay fathers are more likely than straight fathers to put their children before their career, to make big changes in their lives to accommodate a child, and to strengthen bonds with their extended families after becoming fathers (Bergman, Rubio, Green, & Padrone, 2010).” ~ Martha Rosenthal, Human Sexuality: From Cells to Society, p.247.
“having gay parents will harm children”
I love that this is cited and sourced ahhhh. Actual researched support! So good.
can you guess a website that might be affected?
Sure, I run one! The Verge produces a ton of videos every day, and we put them on Facebook, YouTube, and our own internal player, with the expectation that everyone will have equal access to them. Get rid of net neutrality rules, and some of our audience might get YouTube videos for free from their ISP, while Facebook hits their data cap. Other customers might have our internal player run slowly but YouTube in a fast lane because Google struck a deal. Our business would change dramatically if we had to factor in the costs users on every different ISP would pay to see our stuff.
And the worst case is that one of our competitors might pay for fast lane access that we can’t really afford and start to win users because our site loads artificially slowly. I’m a competitive person and I want to win, but I also love that The Verge has to earn our audience against terrific sites like Wired and CNET every day. I don’t want to win or lose just because someone paid Verizon. That’s just icky.
A lot of the websites that will be most affected by rolling back net neutrality don’t exist yet. Right now, someone is building the next YouTube, the next Twitter, or the next Uber. And it has amazing, transformative features that none of us have even thought of yet.
But imagine what will happen if big ISPs can throttle or block their content partners’ competitors. That will create a major hurdle for any new player. If ISPs have the power to push us away from new players’ services toward those of their corporate partners, then users have less power to decide which services will succeed.
There are hundreds, perhaps thousands of websites that cater to an audience of Black, Latino, Arab and Muslim, queer and transgender, women and young people that may find themselves unable to pay enough to be heard. Online ethnic media and media targeting communities pushed to the margins of public debate have provided a needed respite from the scapegoating and stereotypes of mainstream cable news. Websites like Essence.com,Very Smart Brothers, Jack and Jill Politics, the Root and so many more, too many to name, might find themselves unable to reach their audiences. Their websites aren’t the only ones that will be affected. Many of the start up companies like Etsy, Task Rabbit and more may find themselves unable to compete against older and wealthier companies. If net neutrality is repealed, the next website unable to thrive may be yours.
Hamda Al Fahim Spring 2015 Couture
I REALLY need your help to make my dream come true
Hello everyone, I’m participating in a photography contest in order to win a trip to San Francisco and it would mean the world if you could help me voting my picture on this website (I promise it’s not a scam and you don’t even have to sign up, all you have to do is to click on the “VOTA” button and you can do it up to 3 times, so every person can basically give me 3 votes). Going to the USA has always been my dream but I never had the chance because it’s really expensive and this could be literally a dream come true. Thank you so so much in advance and I’ll do anything in return. It means so much to me! Have a nice ay :) xx
http://www.latuaestateaddosso.it/gallery/?fv-page=4&contest_id=1&photo=550
THIS.
I have never thought about it in this context
that’s actually really, really creepy.
I… fuck.
Yeah, basically.
I once pointed this out to my mother and she just stared at me, in stunned silence for ages.
There will always be a girl who is less sober, less secure, with less friends walking in a darker part of town. I want her safe just as much as I want me safe.
THE BOLDED
O natura, o natura perchè di tanto inganni i figli tuoi?
What is a nice guy?
I have met many, or so I was told. They sat across from me on first dates, deeply sniffing a wine and commenting on the forenotes of fruitiness before asking if I “read much?” They tell stories about their love of Kafka; pausing only to look at me with this sad little knowing smile. To a child, they tell me much about the books I have already read. They explain words I learned and used well before them. When I try to interupt, to explain that, yes, I read, and as a matter of fact Kafka is right next to Dante on my bedside, I am talked down. Talked over.
The nice men don’t understand why being nice isn’t working. Women, I guess, are strange creatures to them. When we are approached on the subway and told we are pretty; when we only flash quiet tight smiles, it is an affront. They were only trying to be nice, it’s not their fault that our bodies are ships that others want to pirate. We should know by the smell of your rose lips that nice men - they exist. It is my fault for being so goddamn difficult. Nice men decide for me it is their duty to inform me of my physical accommodation to their pleasure. That compliments have never come as knives, a cage to suffocate the bird in. That because they used “pretty” and not “hot,” We should be sure that we are safe, that nice men only want us to hear what’s best for us. We’ll miss it when we’re older. Nice men are doing us a favor, until we don’t smile for them. Then they are nice men telling us we are bitches, sluts.
The nice men are only trying to help. Women won’t take it, because we are all dumb wild animals bumping our blind eyes against “jerks” who don’t know what we really need. We don’t even know what we really need. What we need is a nice guy, and the nice men are there for that; to force her into situations where she stands to lose a close friend again because he couldn’t stop seeing her as a sex object. She doesn’t know it, but she needs him. Nice men tell me a lot about myself; without my mouth ever opening. Nice men tell me I’m too stupid for my own good and need to be explained every little thing, that I don’t know if I’m worthy until I cause attraction, that I can’t even make my own sexual decisions.
Nice men, I am told, are not like other men. Nice men sometimes even call themselves feminists and then write poems about how hard it is to be a male feminist. Nice men are artists with their dark disney princesses, are pleasantly amused by the efforts of queer girls, offer shading advice to someone with headphones in. Nice men tell you while you’re buying roof tiles to go get your boyfriend. Nice men don’t understand why we flinch when the label “nice guy” explodes in our faces.
We are silent in all of this, an active object that they fondle with their meaty mitts. They assume our little chickadee brains can’t conquer poetry. They teach without being asked for a lesson. They insert their opinion. They know better than we do, about our bodies, about what is best for us. We are a curious thing to them, that does not bend, that talks back on other frequencies, says silly girly things like “I read,” “Of course I knew that,” “I saved a life once,” “I don’t feel comfortable with a strange man approaching me,” “I am able of knowing who I should be dating,” “I am a human and I have my own life, am not hive mind, have my own experiences and values and feelings and you should stop assuming things about me.“
Who told the nice men they are nice? What did they do to deserve that label? Was it be a decent person to that poor underclass of women? Did you deign to find them human? What does a nice man do that is nice besides tell me he is nice? What do the nice guys do? Did they ask us if we felt comfortable with the type of nice they offer? Did they ask us how to be nice or did they just all talk in one big group until some rules appeared, some “nice guy” guide. Is there a ceremony where nice girls and nice guys all sit around while the nice men sip wine and talk about how nice it is to be nice, did you know they once held a door and didn’t spit on her? The whole time us silly girls with our silly wildflower wilting hearts, we melt as these nice men glisten.
Maybe the reason they think they are nice men is because they don’t ever stop to listen.
i want everyone to know that, since posting this a day ago, even with my ask off, i received not one, not two, but twenty-two [and counting] direct messages from men who are very nice men, telling me that they are nice men; and this sort of thing isn’t nice to nice men, and how in their experience, i’m wrong, and if they could just explain that while certainly there are those nice men, not all nice men are like that. that i should stop taking people being nice seriously, please calm down, if i don’t like it don’t look at it. that i met the wrong sort of nice men, as if my entire experience (and that of all the women in the tags who groan and agree) - well… it’s very lovely and written well but it’s simply not real nice men who are like this. it is remarkable to me these men think i have been in some sort of all-female society where i have only met a handful of these people, where my experience with men is not statistically viable. that i simply don’t know what i’m talking about, and really, the following eight paragraphs will set me straight on just how much of a nice guy they are; should i really be attacking them like that? do i want to be a bitch?
“well, ex-cuse me,” one man writes in the comments.
you’re excused. please leave.
I’m blown away by this. Bless you.
this is beautiful and everyone needs to see this
My country is fragile, my country is strong. My country is art and beauty, my country is ruins and tragedy. Unite we stand, another time
In grief for my country. Those I know were lucky enough not to have lost their loved ones, but so much people didn't make it. Sending love and support to the victims of the earthquake.
If you’re in California and want myself and so many other awesome porn performers to keep making the content that gets you off, please vote no on prop 60.
If this proposition passes this November, I’ll no longer be able to produce content and my time in porn will be up.
Please get educated and share with others how harmful this proposition is for an already marginalized group.
http://redlightlegal.org/ca-voters-will-put-porn-performers-at-risk/
If you think this only affects California as well, you’re mistaken. If this proposition passes, it will be just the start. The porn industry will move to neighboring states and then those states will have similar pushes.
Please please, vote NO ON PROP 60 my fellow Californians.
Awesome graphic from the Free Speech Coalition.
Also check out https://ballotpedia.org/California_Condoms_in_Pornographic_Films_Initiative,_Proposition_60_(2016) - doctors from the CDC have come out against this:
Opposition
The Free Speech Coalition, a trade organization representing the pornography industry, said the group opposes the initiative.[9] In April 2016, the opposing ballot committee Californians Against Worker Harassment—funded by various performers, public health advocates, and businesses—was formed.[10]
Many performers in the porn industry also publicly opposed the measure, arguing that the measure would not protect performers but would drive the production of pornographic films underground.[11][12]
The Democratic County Central Committee (DCCC) that oversees San Francisco’s Democratic Party voted to urge the state’s Democratic Party to oppose this initiative. This position by the San Francisco Democratic Party was not official, as local Democratic committees cannot officially hold a position on a statewide ballot measure until the state party decides not to take an official position. Local committee member Matt Dorsey argued that the unofficial endorsement by San Francisco’s party was significant, however, saying, “San Francisco is a globally-recognized leader on HIV/AIDS issues. This is a very strong statement from San Francisco’s Democratic Party, and I hope it will send an influential message to the California Democratic Party, and to voters statewide.”[13]
On June 19, 2016, the California Democratic Party voted to oppose the measure.[14]
Arguments against
Lorelei Lee, an adult film performer, wrote a letter to the editor of the New York Times arguing against regulations like the ones contained in this initiative based on concerns that such laws would force porn production out of the state or underground. She stated that the initiative was “written without our [porn actors and actresses] input, with disregard for our actual safety, and in opposition to the views of doctors and epidemiologists from institutions like the CDC and Emory University.” An excerpt of her argument against a failed legislative bill that had some provisions that were similar to those found in this initiative is below:[12]
“This regulation would have pushed our industry underground where workers like me have fewer resources and less protection against all manner of safety violations beyond STI transmission, and, if passed, would have alienated us from the very government body assigned with our protection.[2]”
Lee also argued that porn actors and actresses banded together to create their own set of rules and regulations to protect against STDs, making this initiative and other proposals like it unnecessary.[12]
San Francisco Councilman and California State Senate candidate Scott Wiener wrote:[11]
“This ballot measure — which allows people to sue the actors who don’t wear condoms — will not result in a single additional condom being used in adult films. Rather, it will simply drive the adult film industry underground or out of state, to states with less public health infrastructure than California.[…] This ballot measure, of course, isn’t about public health, since it won’t have any public health benefit. Rather, it’s about a moralistic, ideological crusade that will do great damage to this California industry and to the health of its employees. It needs to be defeated.[2]”
Diane Duke, executive director of The Free Speech Coalition, argued:[15]
“Performer health is important. But performers, the most tested population on the planet, should have the ultimate right to control their bodies and their health. They don’t deserve to be shamed or treated as a public danger or to have their rights trampled. Michael Weinstein [President of AIDS Health Foundation] is using taxpayer money to fund a campaign that is opposed by performers, public health experts and civil rights groups, in hopes that he can use the ballot initiative to accomplish what has failed in every other venue.[2]”
The Free Speech Coalition argued in a press release issued on July 17, 2015:[16]
“The Attorney General’s office has estimated the initiative will cost California tens of millions of dollars. Weinstein has already raided the coffers of the nonprofit AIDS Healthcare Foundation for over $1.1 million dollars for this campaign alone. By AHF’s own estimates, that money could have provided healthcare care for over 1,000 patients living with HIV this year alone.[2]”
Eric Paul Leue, director of the Free Speech Coalition, told the Los Angeles Daily News:[17]
“Most people look at the state ballot initiative and say this is about worker safety. The problem is it’s not about worker safety. It’s not about sexual health. It is not about protecting people from something. This is completely about harassing workers. We need to stop pushing an industry that is legal and safe out of this state. We see this as a repetitive conversation. We’re launching a PAC, and we’re going to oppose this. Harassing workers, no matter if we agree with the job or not, is never the right thing.[2]”
Elizabeth Nolan Brown, a contributing writer for the Orange County Register, specifically touched upon the measure’s requirement that someone monitor pornographic films for condom use, writing:[18]
“Also troubling is the fact that the proposed condom law would create a state porn czar, of sorts – one authorized to use taxpayer funds to ‘investigate’ and prosecute non-compliant adult films. The measure, written by activist and attorney Michael Weinstein, would task Weinstein with monitoring all pornography produced in California for condom use and allow him to file lawsuits against anyone involved in an offending production. Weinstein could only be removed from this role by a majority vote from both houses of the state Legislature.
It’s clear what Weinstein would get out of the condom measure’s passage – a cushy government gig watching adult films all day. But, by both porn industry and governmental analyst accounts, the California Safer Sex in Adult Film Act would cost the state tens of millions of dollars in annual revenue and hundreds of jobs without actually making anyone any safer.[2]”
Ela Darling, an adult film performer, told Fox News 40 that she was concerned about the measure’s specification that any individual watching an adult film without condom use could potentially sue performers, saying the following:[19]“
I’ve had death threats, I’ve had rape threats, I’ve had someone threaten to kill my dog because they don’t like the work that I do. If these people were able to have their day in court, and if only costs them a few hundred dollars to do it, that terrifies me…because when people who are fanatics or crusaders against porn, who wish us harm find access to our personal information, they use it and they use it to harm us.[2]”
Honestly this isn’t even close to 200 notes, and it should have hundreds of thousands. And I don’t normally say “why doesn’t this have more notes” but I am right now and if you’re a civilian and a follower, you need to reblog this.
Watch: John Oliver perfectly (and frighteningly) compares Donald Trump to a bed of nails.
Watch: Samantha Bee takes on untested rape kits and the cops and politicians who want to destroy them.
I strive to be this woman wow
È divertente il fatto che abbiamo la certezza che i gay esistono mentre non abbiamo la certezza che esista Dio, ma nonostante ciò neghiamo i diritti ai gay per paura che Dio si infastidisca.
— E. J Kessler. (via crepesdifragole)
I feel like there such a little representation of poc in the lgbtq+ community.