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@vamonkea-art

As you can see my icon is very cute.

#pinned #self love is promoing your art blog

yall are so fucking weird about gnc people. a woman wears a suit and she's "conforming to the patriarchy". a man wears a skirt and he's Secretly A Trans Egg. have you considered It's Fabric

machine-unlearning

god I'm such a slut for Chinese eggplant in garlic sauce *decides it’s inaccurate to refer to myself as a slut in light of my minimal sexual activity* if The Enemy discovered my ardor for Chinese eggplant in garlic sauce, they would gain a significant strategic advantage

mossworm

it took about a dozen searches of things like "how to make paint casserole with real paint" and "paint casserole traditional recipe" to convince google AI there is a real thing called paint casserole

jellicube

some of my artfights from last year!

characters belong to Genovaki, Saltuarium, @vamonkea-art, Simply_Bee, and @soaptaculart !

vamonkea-art

redraw of that Ralsei I redraw every time there's Deltarune news!

vamonkea

fuck i ggotta do it again

scramratz

everyone u reblog is safe right? i feel like u reblog a lot of ppl and i just want to make sure ur vetting them all first,,,

Everybody I reblog from is evil and does crimes aplenty

hungry-skeleton

Fucked up that if you make a minor social blunder you can't ask the person if they hate you forever now because that within itself is another social blunder

ot3

there's a certain subset of people on this site who have built their entire sense of self around being ~neurodivergent~ to they point where they become hostile to the very idea altering their behavior or speech to suit the social norms of a given situation. and even just seeing pretty neutrally phrased etiquette advice that they are not obliged to follow feels like a personal attack against them. and its quite frustrating to watch because these are also Often the people who are constantly posting about how lonely they are and how they don't understand how everyone else seems to know how to socialize with each other. They have somehow never intuited the connection between categorically rejecting etiquette and their resulting inability to initiate or maintain friendships.

like yes dude us other autistic bitches have had these problems too but social norms being less intuitive and harder to pick up doesn't mean it's impossible. it is a skill you can learn like any other if you stop acting like the people trying to teach it to you are snuffing out your divine spark or whatever, and stop plugging your ears whenever other people tell you how they want to be treated.

i think ultimately frustrates me the most about this behavior is that it's just such an insanely selfcentered understanding of human interaction. you think that conversation and behavior You don't personally see the purpose or value of has no purpose or value at all. and instead of trying to meet other people half way in their expectations of how relationships develop, you expect them to instead abandon all their criteria for socializing in favor of yours because you believe your own social framework is innately superior.

on a related note one of the single most poorly received pieces of internet friendship advice i've ever given here was "unless you have a specific reason to believe otherwise, internet strangers don't want to hear about your OCs and DND characters the first time you're speaking to them." people haaaated that one. kind of straightforwardly lets you understand exactly what people like this believe about how relationships are formed and should function. a lot of them want an audience more than they want friends because they don't know the difference.

thulium

dredsina

I used to be shocked at how weak I seemed in comparison to mothers of young children because they'd be lifting these children with ease and I'd be like awww can I hold your baby and then the baby is a fucking rock. But now I know. It's adapt or die, dude. You either adapt. Or you die.