VintageVee

well hello there, I'm Victoria. everything you see here is a little part of me. I am who I am. I sing I write I (try to) draw I knit I act I take photographs I love living, adventures and baggy sweaters. I love anything vintage, stressed or warn. I love oxford styled shoes and neutral colored clothing. I want to live a beautiful life. I want to show people what a beautiful life they can have. I want to change lives or help to make them better. Before I die, I would like to know that I did something useful, that I was some help to someone. I consider myself an old soul, a sand crab and a night owl. fresh air,rippled water, stone paths, train tracks, shifting docks, parked boats, hidden keys, fruit salad and picnics. "very time that wheel turns round bound to cover a little more ground"

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Happy New Year! Photo credit: Nicole Jayne White (@njwhite)

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This is the greatest progression of events I have ever read, where’s my historical gay romance novel about this

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KING JAMES, CAN YOU CHILL?

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Local King Cannot Stop Promoting His Boyfriend

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where’s the lush period drama about this series of events?

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fun thing about king James, this guy was fairly public about his bf (more public than what was acceptable). He threw lots of extravagant parties with his man on his arm. It pissed off the church obviously so to get them off his back, he’s the one that ordered the third translation of the Bible from Hebrew to English (the King James Version aka the Authorized Version) so the Bible every hot blooded all American Christian reads today was literally just written so a very gay king could fuck his boyfriend in peace.

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oh my god this is hilarious

“guys, guys. I know this looks kinda gay, and i promise i have a good explanation for all this, but have you considered… that jesus… is also gay? checkmate, heteros.”

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Not only was he gay, he was also a savage 😂😭

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I’m screaming

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Can i get a step by step on how to do this?

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So far for me it’s been something like:

1. Become aware of how and when you tearing yourself down.

2. Now that you can catch yourself doing it. Offer counters to the negative self talk. A really useful thing I read was to talk to yourself almost the way you would child. Gentle and patient. Even when they fuck up.

3. Take time to celebrate your small accomplishments. You’ve been attacking yourself for every little mistake. Apply that same fervor to the positive things in your life. Did the dishes even though you didn’t want to? Fuck yeah! Got up and took shower? YES!!! You are taking positive steps to feeling better. Celebrate it.

4. Make lists of things you’re good at/ like about yourself. The first time I did this the only two things in my list we’re that I liked my hair and I had good friends. It was start.

5. Don’t beat yourself up if you screw up steps 1-4. It’s counter productive. When I catch myself calling my self stupid for some mistake or other my response now is,“We don’t talk to ourselves like that anymore. What’s something constructive that could actually help solve the problem.”

Most of the time that seems to work. Not always. But more and more Everytime.

I hope any of that made sense.

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oh my goodness there are instructions!!

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Omg I was doing this without knowing

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