i’m here but once to the marrow of my bones

she/her but like let’s have fun with it. full adult. general nuisance.

[clytemnestraaa]

just had a really stable moment where i opened a redbull at the exact same second someone started playing industrial music in the apartment below and i briefly thought it was coming from inside the redbull can

[kamil-a]

I NEED A SICKO… im holding out for a sicko till the end of the night ..and hes gotta haha and hes gotta say yess at the window with a look of delight

[creekfiend]

relational trauma has to be healed relationally. the best way to practice having relatively "safe" interactions with ppl is joining a hobby group/club/whatever. I've recently joined like ten Fancy Leather Bag groups on fb out of deep curiosity and interest and the communities ppl will build around literally everything I swear to god. I've seen multiple ladies in these purse groups being like "thank you everyone in this hobby for getting me through my chemotherapy" like ... sometimes we dismiss the middle aged purse lady demographic but you know what they have got is a functional community where they support each other that just happens to be centered around purses. having now read many posts from these groups for several weeks I can see that the object being collected IS important, and is certainly the superifival draw into the space as well as something that provides an immediate shared interest, the actual benefit of localish hobby/collecting spaces is largely community and social support.

those of us who are Very Online Only could stand to learn from this sort of thing I think. it doesn't have to be purses it could be anything. but like. (gestures at the purse ladies who are getting each other through chemotherapy) Shared Interest Facebook Group And/Or Subreddit has it for you. i think.

[creekfiend]

this is actually my first step of learning emotional regulation. yes yes, restful sleep and physiologically appropriate exercise and getting outside and eating nutritious meals. these are all good. but also MEET. YOUR. SOCIAL. NEEDS. you need the relational foundation to cushion you while you work on these skills! i know it's really scary because we all have relational trauma but that doesn't mean we don't have a need for social connection and support!!!

[fraactals]

this site is actually insane and so amazing for anyone who reads historical cnovels and wants to understand historical context

you can find things like: * this map of chang'an when it was the capital of the tang dynasty

or * this reference on the various measurements and units, their conversions to more widely known western units, and their regional/dynastic variations or * this list of sayings related to marriage

etc etc etc

[time-left-to-kill]

et tu brute?

[vafrosaon]

[sentimentalslut]

what people dont get about divorces is the Whole Thing About Dogs

[sentimentalslut]

i have written custody plans for labrador retrievers more complex than i have for children. i went to four years of undergrad, three years of law school, and sat for the bar exam to write up custody exchange provisions for dogs with hyphonated last names

[sentimentalslut]

my clients are paying $295 an hour for me to go to court and litigate who makes veterinary decisions for Chuckles the Goldfish and theres literally nothing i can do to stop them

[sentimentalslut]

framing these tags and hanging them up in my office to remind me that it can always be worse

[andhumanslovedstories]

I do understand why people moved on from cheap fountain pens. Unfortunately they’ve become basically the only thing I use. On a completely unrelated note, what are people using to get ink stains out of literally every single thing you own

[digitalmyyth]

Hanging out with people will make you remember you're the crazy woke friend for like. not wanting to shop at shien

[homunculus-argument]

"I learned a lot from making this" is artist talk for "making this sucked ass and I'm not entirely happy with the result."

[ashoss]

“word hashtag my word #myword” has done irreversible damage to my vocabulary

[oneheadtoanother]

[andhumanslovedstories]

Because I’m in desperate need for space in my room so I can get a larger desk, I’m rehauling my whole room. I finally moved my bed to the place where it pretty obviously should have been in the first place, but I was sooooooooo determined to have a reading nook. Well guys. The new bed placement rules. I’m absolutely fuming about it and I’m so cozy n comfortable as I do it.

[andhumanslovedstories]

Is there anything on this beautiful marble of a planet than lying down for a little while

[andhumanslovedstories]

sleepy bitches know that the omitted adjective is “better”. So fucking hyped for today’s lie down session number two (the big one)

[ryebreadgf]

[andhumanslovedstories]

Is there anything on this beautiful marble of a planet than lying down for a little while

[andhumanslovedstories]

I think the abandoned bra is what makes this photo of me accidentally flash banging my sleeping cat by taking a photo really transforms this mistake into art.

[andhumanslovedstories]

Oh and hey. Yeah. She was so asleep. And then? SO AWAKE.