Balance in all things.

This is my Tumblr. There are many like it, but this one is mine.

[madam-neenee]

[bayouboy5o4-deactivated20210405]

When I eat your pussy I drool on it. I use lots of saliva and I will let it drip all over your pussy lips and make sure it’s running like water between your ass. I’m so sloppy with it and I don’t care. I want you to know I’m in love with pleasing you by want means necessary. Spit on it and run circles around your clit. I’m trying to make it even more messy and slippery than your pussy juices. And I hope you like it nasty and passionate because I want you to hear me spit on it, grunt, and moan with satisfaction while I suck your entire soul out of your body. I’m talking bout eating your pussy so good I’ll be sucking your DNA out of alignment . . . . .

You game for this ?

[virus73]

I'm game.

[missmelonee]

You have to turn on mature content in settings to see the naughty stuff.

Reblog this to let everyone know how to get it back and see naughty stuff again.

[virus73]

Porn is back!!!

[paranow]

I don't regret the love I gave. They probably needed it.

[virus73]

Never regret giving. That's why I always do my best, give my all, exhaust myself. So I don't have any regrets or doubts.

[callmekitto-deactivated20220425]

whenever i try and learn something new

[hotboyproblems]

me: It seems that I am not immediately excellent at this

me:

me:

me:

me:

me: it is because I am a failure

me: everything I touch dies

[vicforprez]

[virus73]

This reminds me of a recent attempt at connection that I made. She was so hurt from her past, and so unwilling to let go of it, that she was toxic, and I had to let her go on being toxic elsewhere. And she'd rather pretend we never met, than admit she wasn't ready to try and be healthy, and vulnerable again.

[catchymemes]

[animentality]

Shane Jesus Christ this is movie worthy

[tonks32]

It’s long but worth it!

[dumbdogman]

Worth the read holy shit

[spookycerezacola]

Me: -explains what hot girl shit is to my bf-

@virus73 : #hotgirlstakeshitstoo

😂😂😂💚💚💚

[this-is-america-4-now]

Good dick is not about size. I’ve been really blessed in that department. As a teenager I thought that was all I needed. However using attention to detail I picked up that it is the total opposite of what they show you in pornography. Its not about how long you can go, how hard you can hit it, or how it many positions you can do. SEX IS NOT A SPECTACLE. Sex is conversation between two bodies, a give and take. WHAT looks good on camera doesn’t necessarily mean she’s enjoying it. Good dick starts off by knowing your woman,.or women in general. If you have size, don’t just ram your dick inside of her. Foreplay is a must. If you dont have time for advanced foreplay, do an abbreviated session, got into your quickie. Guys have confidence don’t ask for kisses, if she keeps looking at your mouth, eyes low, in a expecting way, KISS HER. If it’s not cold but she’s caressing her own legs, start to caress her legs. GET HER SUPER WET BEFORE INTERCOURSE. When it is time only slide in as much as she can take, let her open up for you. Remember she’s a person,not a vagina so focus on her not just her VAGINA. Caress her everywhere, run your hands through her hair, TALK TO HER, not the shit you hear in porn, SOME WOMEN LIKE ROUGH talk some dont, ALL WOMEN LIKE COMPLIMENTS. Tell her how sexy she is, as you stroke her slowly, the wetter she gets the deeper you can go. Make sure you SWITCH UP THE STROKE, the vagina is intelligent and it can get bored. Go deep, go mid way, go fast,.slow it down.. Keep her guessing.. Dont give her predictable dick. Switch up your routine, do it in every room of the house. Being unpredictable is what will make her addicted to you. Dominant dick isn’t about how hard you give it to her. It’s about your pressence, grab her hair let her feel it, but don’t pull it out, give demands, and reward her orgasms for obeying. Don’t expect her to obey you just because you are a man. Everyone needs incentive. Last but not least touch her often, even when you don’t want sex, be affectionate. She should be used to your touch, she should welcome it and reciprocate it Same with your dick the better it is, the more she Will care about pleasing you or it lmao.. inbox me for book info or comment below.

[thatcufftho-deactivated20180304]

So true and so sexy…😍💋

[dcharris]

🙌🏾 preach 💯

[mzkweenro]

Well said ❤❤❤

[wordsofapleaser]

Every man should know this…a true pleaser knows just what to do to make sex as enjoyable as possible

[darkchocolate30-deactivated2021]

#message

[virus73]

This is also especially true.

[ifitpleasuresme-deactivated2018]

I greeted him at the door on 4" heels, a high ponytail, and a satin apron.

He pushed me into my apartment with hungry kisses and desperate gropes.

I peeled back the layers of a long day at work: briefcase with a thud by the door and the friction of his belt through each belt loop. The buckle jingling as it fell to the floor.

He bent me over the table and thrust himself against my back and ass before unzipping and revealing his excitement to me. I ran the stiletto heel up his inseam while using the mental map of his body to guide my hands to revisit my treasure.

His mouth and hands raced to discover every spot that would make me gasp or moan. I cocked my head and squirmed in the shadow of his stature. The high ponytail danced against my skin.

He grasped my long brown tresses at the tip and recalled all the photos and videos in his wank bank of arched backs and bent necks.

He yanked so hard that he herniated C5-6. During the surgery for my artificial disc replacement, my surgeon found a bone shard 3mm from my spinal cord.

The man who whispered in my ear of how i was “marriage material” moved to Toronto 2 weeks after he damn near made me into a quadriplegic. He closed on a house the day of my surgery.

To this day, I jump when someone puts their hands near my head. My ears ring constantly. And every time I see one of you all post a photo of someone having their hair pulled, I think about all the pain one dumb, badly-executed move caused me.

1. Get consent. 2. Give warning. 3. Grab slowly and smoothly at the roots 4. Movement comes from the wrist (minimizes chance of injury to directional force) 5. If need be, let the person with the hair being pulled hold on to your wrist to either limit your movement or as a failsafe. 6. Over time develop trust with your partner to dial up neck extension, force, or speed.

All that and the fucker never even gave me a single orgasm.

[just-an-irish-rose-deactivated2]

Too important not to reblog

[kthmistythoughts]

😳

[asubmissiveview]

I am so sorry for what you experienced @ifitpleasuresme. Thank you for sharing this wake-up call.

[instructor144]

Signal boost. If you go charging into a scene thinking you can act like they act in those gonzo BDSM porn loops, you’re a fool. Always keep the Safe in Safe, Sane, and Consensual. If you are not absolutely sure of what you’re doing in a scene, don’t fucking do it.

[hiswifeslut]

Even a wake call for 24/7 dynamics, because it’s too easy to become complacent with your play, and forget to check in with your partner about if anything has changed.

[itsallprimal]

This wasiin my que.. but @hiswifeslut hit the real nail on the head here!

[beentherehaventdonethat]

I had a much lighter experience - where after some rough face fucking in an awkward position, I awoke the next morning unable to rotate my neck all the way. The chiropractor said 3 of my cervical vertebrae had been rotated or slipped. I don’t even know what I came up with as an excuse for that one lol. He was able to adjust them back into place.

It’s important to know how to take care of acute injuries- I actually had to wait two days because it was the weekend to see my chiropractor. In the mean time I iced my neck and took ibuprofen. Had the injury been more severe there is a real chance that even just swelling and inflammation could cause irreparable damage to the spinal cord or surrounding structures. Ice and ibuprofen are go-to when you need to treat acute injuries that have caused or could cause dangerous inflammation.

The neck is such a common feature in sex and bdsm play. It’s so important to be aware of how it’s angled and how it’s handled during sex and scenes. Always put safety first and remember to pull- not yank on anyone’s hair or head!!

I was very sad to read the OP. I am so glad the OP posted it though because it is such an important message that needs to echo throughout the bdsm and even vanilla communities.

[foreverexploringsexuality]

I come back to this post pretty often. I actively and deliberately seek it out.

You want to know why?

Because this is the harsh reality of the potential damage that kink done improperly can cause.

It’s very easy to get caught up in all the extreme activities and the rough and tumble type of play that we all love, but every so often we need to all be given a reality check that firmly plants our feet back on the ground. Something that forces us to revalue the mantra of “Safe, Sane and Consensual.”

This post for me is my wake-up all. It humbles me and grounds me every single time I read it, and I applaud with all the strength in my hands the woman that was courageous enough to post it.

Safety always comes first and I’ll be damned if I ever forget it.

[foreverexploringsexuality]

Reblogging in honour of 5 years post-surgery ❤️

[instructor144]

BOOST.

[beautifulaquafina]

Boosting

[shortyskittles]

Repost boost

[babygirl-1972]

BOOST!

[striderofthen0rth]

I will never ever not reblog this. My acquaintance with life altering neck injuries is real and strong. The number of scary hair pulling gifs I see on here is appalling.

That’s probably verbatim to the last time I reblogged this. So be it.

[littlesouthernbrat]

And this is why I allow so few people to pull my hair.

[kittysmashh]

I always let people know that they have to be careful with my neck! One wrong move and you’ll end up with something like what happened to poor OP 😖 it doesn’t even have to be something dramatic, some people just have prior injuries or a sensitivity. Please be careful.

[virus73]

Important message here. For the experienced, and for the new.

[shelbys-advice-blog]

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[blackqueerblog]

YAAASSS!!!! Sometimes it starts as just staring…. but then you get the creeps who will follow you. Be aware of your surroundings and if you see something happening/happen, don’t be afraid to “get in the line of sight” or saying something!

[msphoebegrace]

This made me so happy. 😍 More men need to see this. REBLOG THIS MORE!

[nakedinasnowsuit]

Please do this. It sucks so much just being out there alone but surrounded by people, none of whom seem like they’d help you if something happened.

[quiteliterallyhotsauce]

This is so powerful.

[truckerdez-deactivated20180728]

313,248,586,734

Reblog if this applies to you

[virus73]

313, corktown / downtown. Top. Always down for fun.

[mrjockstrap313]

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I’m Thinking about Having a Bisexual Toga Orgy Party With Guys, Girls, TS’s At A Secret Location

Men, Women, TS

If U Want In Reblog This

[virus73]

*raised hand* my interest is piqued.

[bgsnation]

DETROIT HOOKUPS👅💦

Aye reblog if you want people from here to hook up wit u😏

[thestroke-god]

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[astrocornerreadings-deactivated]

What the Elemental Squads Stand For

Fire Sign Squad: Stands for individuality, justice, and bravery. Although fire signs may be thought of as arrogant and/or crass, amongst other things, at the core of their beings they believe in doing the right thing and doing it proudly. Usually, with this squad, Sagittarius is the one behind the ideas (they have a knack for philosophic and humanitarian thinking), Leo is the face of the movement (they shine the brightest and are the most agreeable/ likable), and Aries carries out the plans (they are action-oriented and unafraid of conflict).

Earth Sign Squad: Stands for perseverance, stability, and creation. Although earth signs may be thought of as greedy and/or cold, amongst other things, at the core of their beings they believe in peace and the idea that everyone has a place in the world that should be respected. Usually, with this squad, Virgo is behind the ideas (they are exceptional at considering all the details before making a decision), Taurus is the face of the movement (they emit calm, comforting vibes that people can easily get behind), and Capricorn carries out the plans (they are fierce in accomplishing goals). 

Air Sign Squad: Stands for logic, knowledge, and unity. Although air signs may be thought of as aloof and/or untrustworthy, among other things, at the core of their beings they believe in diplomacy and freedom. Usually, with this squad, Aquarius is behind the ideas (they can see the bigger picture and they’re not afraid to dream big), Libra is the face of the movement (they are natural diplomats), and Gemini carries out the plans (they are bursting with energy and revel in being on the front lines of change). 

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