sometimes i think about becoming a more agreeable person. but i don't think it's right. there are many real problems in the world that, if you're an agreeable person, you just don't talk about â it's often disagreeable to acknowledge problems at all. sometimes there's a problem that doesn't admit a positive-sum solution that benefits everyone who counts as a person (including "who counts as a person here" is disagreeable, it's casting suspicion on claims to universality; i think this is correct and claims to universality are usually false and dependent on sleight-of-hand unpersoning) and in that case the agreeable thing is to pretend it isn't there. but then you have problems!










