No Gender, No Problem

It's pronounced VOO-rehl-ee (He/They). Please keep in mind that I'm 21+ and curate this space for myself!

[vurelly]

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[thequeenoftheentiregoddamnworld]

Hey, hey, look me in the eyes when I tell you this okay? The whole "do trans women or trans men have it worse?" debate going on right now is the most obvious CIA bullshit on earth cause honestly we've both got it pretty shitty and fighting each other isn't helping anyone

[federfleisch]

Friends come and go. Relationships end. That edgy character you latched onto at age 12 is forever

[cuppajj]

I’M SO FREAKING SCARED

[ssoupcup]

Yeah so unfortunately, my friend was right. Muttering 'I'm gonna put on the greatest talent show this town has ever seen' darkly to myself is not only vastly funnier than saying I'm gonna kms, but is also somehow more concerning to anyone who might overhear it

[datadegroove-deactivated2026042]

stop deactivating

[datadegroove-deactivated2026042]

i thought we all agreed we were here forever

[kirishima-hates-terfs]

[weaselle]

I know i've said it before, but if you are concerned it could be real and not a scam, the best way to avoid getting scammed is to return contact separately.

Here's how that works:

say you get a text from your internet provider, let's say it's Comcast (whom i hate). So you have this text that says it's from Comcast about your bill with a contact number and a clickable link -- could be real, could be a scam.

Don't touch anything about this text. Open a web browser and look up the customer service number for Comcast. Or get the number from the bill they send you. However you do it, get the contact info for Comcast from a trusted source, like an official phone directory or the Comcast website itself.

Get in touch with them using that information.

So. Let's run the example both ways it could go.

If it IS a scam: you reach out to Comcast and tell them you were contacted about a problem with your bill, they look you up in their customer database, and they tell you there is no problem with your bill.

If it's NOT a scam, you do the same thing, they look you up, and they explain the problem. In this case, neither Comcast nor the employees involved give a single shit whether or not you clicked the link in the text vs. going through their official website.

This works the same for the your bank, the IRS, Amazon, political causes, charities, everything.

By handling any questionable incoming calls to action this way, you significantly protect yourself from scams and malware and shit

[cozyandconcerned]

You can do this with phone calls too!!! If a company calls you asking for some info or about a problem with you card/account/whatever you can ask them for a reference number for your case and call back later. You don't have to give a reason but if you feel awkward you can just say you have a meeting in 2 minutes but can call back another time to deal with it.

If it's not scam they'll be like sure, here's the reference number. Then you follow the instructions above, call the separate number you find yourself on a reputable website and give that person the reference number. And they'll help you resolve the issue.

Don't let scammers scare you over the phone into giving them sensitive information!!!!

[weaselle]

great addition ^^^

[skelliefrankie]

mother babygirl

[lilbowlosoup]

BARK BARK BARK

[beemovieerotica]

hate it when pets learn words, my dog flips out when he hears "greenie" so we had to start saying "G word" but now he knows G word so we have to say shit like "are we out of emerald indulgences"

[depsidase]

[dogpuppy]

[furryprovocateur]

they should allow you to report posts for being gauche or passé

[girlswater]

[thefablefantasy]

Some traditionally colored lineart using gel pens. Super love how these came out!

[t1koy-roll]

Getting ragebaited by a 4 million year old war criminal is kinda crazy

[nightynighthoney]

They definitely match

[nongunktional]

i do think the negative interpretations of "im probably nonbinary but i have a job right now" are kind of reaching. it's obviously a waste of time to theorize the op's intended meaning, so instead i think it's better to recognize how the phrase can be a useful framing device to criticize how much of a fucking hassle it is to get gendered correctly. "but i have a job" e.g. will face discrimination that could threaten livelihood; e.g. don't have the mental bandwidth to explain gender to others; e.g. don't have the time and energy for the soul-searching necessary to confirm. all three of these are labor issues. yes you could interpret it as "but being nonbinary isn't important enough to worry about", despite that being a blatantly bad-faith read. it's more useful to interpret it as "but being publicly nonbinary requires a lot of social effort that, in many cultural contexts, will create more problems that you can't afford to deal with". like cmon it's a really good jumping off point for productive conversations about queer labor rights

[brucespringsteencomments]

[vurelly]

I'm trying to move! Truth be told I've had an honest to god shit living situation for several years now, and enough's become enough. I can't continue to live with people that are outright abusive at this point, its not safe for me or Marlow. So, I've got a friend helping me on May 14th and while I'm ever grateful for it, the last few months everything I've saved has had to go to bills or get lost to my lack of personal vehicle or wifi connection.

So I'm asking for help! Please consider donating to help reach my goal on ko-fi! And if you've got any interest in my art, I've got commissions available too!

If anything else, please consider reblogging! Anything that helps is appreciated!

[vurelly]

We've met our goal!!!

Actually we've gone a fair bit OVER it, so moving is looking to be a very smooth transition, thank you all so much!! I really appreciate all help you guys have given me and can say with so much joy that because of y'all, Marlow's been to the vet for her final vaccines and we're leaving this Saturday! Thank you!!!